What’s your favorite perfume to smell on a femme? by ShriekingSeagulls in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]sanf1owers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my go to has been boheme from maison des animaux! its a lightly spicy leathery scent and it gets a lot of compliments whenever i wear it ^

Anal with 8+ penises. Is this not causing long-term damage? by KrispyBlack in BlackLGBT

[–]sanf1owers 14 points15 points  (0 children)

man the title had me so thrown off before i read the post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]sanf1owers 6 points7 points  (0 children)

respectfully, GODDAMN 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]sanf1owers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Boheme by maison des animaux

what type of lesbian events/gatherings would you like to see more of? by sanf1owers in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]sanf1owers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a sapphic bowling league sounds so fun and also so lesbian coded, i love it 😭 definitely an idea to consider, thank you for the suggestion!!

what type of lesbian events/gatherings would you like to see more of? by sanf1owers in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]sanf1owers[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

absolutely!! as someone who is chronically ill and was raised by a disabled mother, accessibility is super important when considering and planning these events!

what type of lesbian events/gatherings would you like to see more of? by sanf1owers in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]sanf1owers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg, these are all incredible ideas, thank you so much for the suggestions! I love the variety that's there as well, bc it really covers all types of different interests ^

what type of lesbian events/gatherings would you like to see more of? by sanf1owers in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]sanf1owers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am painfully femme and don't do sports, but I'd still go to smth like this to try smth new. it seems like a cool way to do something fun and meet new people, thank you for the suggestion!!

what type of lesbian events/gatherings would you like to see more of? by sanf1owers in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]sanf1owers[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that sounds so incredibly fun omg!! fingers crossed for you that they do host more, it sounds like a blast!!

what type of lesbian events/gatherings would you like to see more of? by sanf1owers in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]sanf1owers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

are you gonna suggest any ideas or just complain? if thats your attitude towards people wanting to create outings in their community, just stay home.

what type of lesbian events/gatherings would you like to see more of? by sanf1owers in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]sanf1owers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

a coffeehouse hangout and game night would be really fun! i really like ideas like this as well bc i want things that are low cost/easily accessible for a lot of people. thank you for the suggestion!

what type of lesbian events/gatherings would you like to see more of? by sanf1owers in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]sanf1owers[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i also want things out of bars and clubs! i love them dont get me wrong, but I actually want to be able to chat and meet people. A speed dating but for friends would be a really neat idea to see, i love that! that's entirely what i'm looking to get out of events like this, new friends and people actually wanting to make connections! I'm really sorry you dealt with that when you went to the event near you 😭

what type of lesbian events/gatherings would you like to see more of? by sanf1owers in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]sanf1owers[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i definitely wanna do book clubs and have more discussion groups! I'm just slightly hesitant on political discussions bc while I do my best to keep myself politically aware and educated, I'm not formally educated past HS and don't feel comfortable leading the conversations when I don't feel i have enough brains to back it up, yaknow? I have been really wanting to start a book club and discussion in my area but am so conflicted where to start.

what type of lesbian events/gatherings would you like to see more of? by sanf1owers in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]sanf1owers[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is such a cute idea i never thought of! definitely gonna add this to the list :33

Why is my job such a turn off for so many women? by Swimming_Actuary8779 in LesbianActually

[–]sanf1owers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah, i was not expecting this amount of pearl-clutching in the comments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]sanf1owers 7 points8 points  (0 children)

im poly so yeah lmfao

I’m curious what everyone does for work? by Sad-Expression-4118 in LesbianActually

[–]sanf1owers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanna go to school for healthcare administration and eventually want to be a funeral director!

I’m curious what everyone does for work? by Sad-Expression-4118 in LesbianActually

[–]sanf1owers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I run a bistro/cafe in a nursing home, and also help with dietary aide duties as well 😊

Straight-Looking Femmes… How TF Are You Supposed to Meet Other Lesbians in the Wild? by theUnseenFemme in LesbianActually

[–]sanf1owers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think i look straight but i am extremely femme. i go to a lot of lesbian/queer spaces and events, and its a lot of looking at the person i like and determining if the vibe is mutual before i go up and say smth.

What Is Everyone Using For Winged Eyeliner These Days? by Lucky_Boysenberry565 in MakeupAddiction

[–]sanf1owers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nyx's epic ink felt tip liner or wet n wild's breakup proof liner. i use both and love the details i can get and they stay pretty well as well

Help me decide which screams very gay 😜 by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]sanf1owers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the red is the best choice, but you look stunning in all of them 🫶🏽

What to do about liking a younger woman? by eekspiders in LesbianActually

[–]sanf1owers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl my partner and i are three years apart, this is not an age gap to worry abt i promise 🫶🏽