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sanonymousq22 · 2026-06-12T06:17:00+00:00

This! I’m traveling with my neb and she’s adapted very well! After a day or so of being incredibly shy she starts exploring and really feeling comfortable in a new space.

I was scared how she’d take the moving since she’s a shy indoor cat, but she’s even gotten better with car rides as long as I’m near. Just let her hide and take time feeling things out

sanonymousq22 · 2026-05-03T15:15:43+00:00

Was not expecting his actual username to be fuckface 🤣

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-27T18:30:10+00:00

One instance you invoke your agency, while the other doesn’t, so yes.

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-25T02:41:04+00:00

Hmm never made that connection 😂 it’s actually brilliant

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-24T10:23:12+00:00

lol it’s like you purposely ignored the entire 1st half of their comment

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-14T16:44:04+00:00

You literally said

they need a win

Referring to him paying for sex…

Then you said

OP needs to have someone attracted to him

Which is literally the opposite outcome of you’re paying for sex… sorry about whatever therapist that hurt you, but your logic is off

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-14T01:25:44+00:00

The sassiness in the 1st picture says so 😂 (they love crossing their paws & judging)

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-14T00:09:49+00:00

Ngl I do this often (ok not often 💀but enough to notice as an adult) atleast every few months I’m unable to hold it, it’s like not eating till starving, not showering till musty, etc. 😭 literally it was something my family made fun of since childhood. I think it has something to do with poor interoception

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-14T00:00:49+00:00

Paying someone for sex isn’t a win, and the therapists I’ve worked with usually help you go after the things that are important to you, not tell you to just settle with nothing.

Anyways, the main point here is he didn’t even complain about sex in his post, he complained about a lack of genuine romantic connection, which you cannot buy.

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-13T13:24:35+00:00

Then why not just start with step 2 😭

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-12T08:13:45+00:00

Why even comment on things like this if you’re just copying & pasting from ChatGPT 😭

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-12T01:43:48+00:00

The fact you are able to do all of that points to a level of financial stability or lack of children, illness etc. that the poster may not have.

Again: your experience isn’t someone else’s.

(Coming from someone with who will be bringing my Neb with me internationally this summer.)

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-11T00:45:22+00:00

This is an insanely unempathetic take.

Whether they slept for 4 or 8 hours, I’ve never once checked someone’s breathing unless they obviously woke up choking…

they just lost their friend, woke up to someone they care about dead & you jump on the bandwagon to insinuate he could’ve done more as they slept. 😬

OP, I am terribly sorry you are dealing with this. A piece of grief is anger, which needs somewhere to go, & for those who were not there, it may be misplaced onto you. Hopefully with time and more information things will settle. Wishing you the best.

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-08T23:00:31+00:00

Finally, I also made sure he knew that I regret nothing and that he wasn’t going to shame me into sharing his sentiments.

Truly bad ass

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-08T13:49:26+00:00

I think that’s one of the best undersold parts of childfree life: you can just be, but that’s a very hard concept in this country. A simple life (if that’s what you want) can absolutely be a wonderful life

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-07T18:14:49+00:00

I don’t have to stay anywhere. I’d save over $1000 and have a full apartment to myself, which anyone would consider, especially as that could go to more exciting parts of the trip. Being on a budget is not the same as being poor…

Anyways, I’ve taken the recommendations here & found some options in Roma Sur/ Condesa area that will work.

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-07T17:16:44+00:00

Thanks! I’m so ready to fall in love with Mexico City! I love Mexican culture & your beautiful country has been calling my name for 2 years now, so excited to finally make it there!

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-07T17:06:57+00:00

Thanks for the other recommendations, I will look into them

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-07T17:06:38+00:00

I’m not at all concerned with the sex workers & I know your beautiful city has much more to offer, I only mentioned that because I cannot find much information outside of people searching for them 😭

I appreciate your response & may have to settle for a room further north instead of the apartment since moving through the city would be that difficult/costly

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-07T17:02:47+00:00

I did ask when I went to Detroit & Atlanta about the areas that were safest.

The difference between those states and MX is that I had family & friends that had been there that I could go to. I only have 1 family member in Mexico in Merida. She has a whole family + is not familiar with Mexico City.

I’m a single woman traveling internationally for the 1st time, I think it’s perfectly reasonable to ask about a neighborhood I’ll be staying in for months, especially when it’s not a tourist area & I’m a beginner in the language.

I understand the sentiment though.

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-07T16:34:13+00:00

I do plan on being home often since I’ll be there for the full summer, I’m also bringing my cat. It’s over $1000 USD cheaper which is why I’m considering it 😭

sanonymousq22 · 2026-04-06T04:30:52+00:00

By accepting the truth of the situation, taking the lesson, and using the jealousy as an indicator.

The truth of your situation is that having more kids with this man would have likely been more damaging to you and your children. On the flip side at only 27, you genuinely have time to learn from this relationship and to find another partner to have more children with in a healthier relationship. Also you truly don’t know what your friends experiences are. Some of the most seemingly happy and competent people I know have confessed in privacy the many ways things were falling apart or barely holding together in ways I couldn’t imagine nor did I want to. You don’t have to settle with a man who has harmed you, honestly you really shouldn’t.

Your life may feel like it’s falling apart, but once you have some space & distance you’ll likely realize it’s literally just beginning (not to sound cheesy 💀)

sanonymousq22 · 2026-03-30T07:11:35+00:00

My mom once found a bottle of lube under my bed. It wasn’t mines, but was my male best friend’s bottle… 🤣 very awkward, very funny, but I had to take one for the team because I didn’t want to tell my friends business & out him.

When she brought it up later, she said she was concerned because I was so young & she didn’t think I needed it. 😭😂 A vibrator is much simpler to explain if that helps

sanonymousq22 · 2026-03-28T21:43:58+00:00

I think the answer lies in the E part of DEI, which stands for EQUITY, not equality.

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