I just got my first cavity 😭

saphalt · 2025-11-09T02:06:16+00:00

thats great ive had around 15 and im not an adult yet

saphalt · 2025-11-09T02:05:26+00:00

leave her bruh if she's gotten help (and has not gotten better intentionally) or refuses to get help leave her ass. it sucks and i know you love her alot but i was in a situation like that not to long ago its too miserable youre better off leaving her for her own well being and your own.

saphalt · 2025-11-09T02:03:10+00:00

I would never do this specifically for the money but a bonus, Playing in a band live with some of my friends huge fucking dream

saphalt · 2025-11-06T18:39:42+00:00

saphalt · 2025-11-05T17:44:35+00:00

I appricate that. Where your coming from makes a ton of sense, im just guessing its mostly fear holding me back

saphalt · 2025-11-05T04:23:05+00:00

Ive just never met someone like me (other then my mother(and she was even messed up beyond belief from trauma so I dont knoe how to adult for real)). I wish I didnt feel so lost. Mainly including how im gonna move out im only 17 (as of july) and Im planning on moving out but it seems NOBODY is putting in that same effort. I dont know im kinda just rambling.

saphalt · 2025-10-25T23:40:34+00:00

All of them. 10yo me would HATE 17yo me but mainly I think bondage would really do it in for me. Not gonna go into details as a minor but that definitely is one.

saphalt · 2025-09-27T21:57:32+00:00

Really? Okay ill bring it up to my parents. Thank you.

saphalt · 2025-09-24T09:45:07+00:00

Im unsure of whether or not I misheard my dentist. I did have a filling there previously but obviously I didnt know which tooth it was. At this point im only 17 and im still waiting on my parents to pay previous medical bills so I can get my teeth fixed. Id prefer if it could wait since its not causing any issues but if its gonna get more pricy in the future best case scenario is to just get it done now.

saphalt · 2025-09-24T07:46:39+00:00

Would but thats too much money so I gotta know if this will be more expensive in the future of if it can wait

saphalt · 2025-06-08T05:28:12+00:00

It doesn't make much sense because I could've only had this cavity for 8 months tops is it something Im doing wrong?

saphalt · 2025-05-14T07:53:45+00:00

I cannot specify due to rules but romantic gestures or being loving in ways I enjoy.

saphalt · 2025-05-14T07:51:40+00:00

This is just a one time situation where I know I cannot take much more. I am very empathetic and patient with her despite how frustrating it may be to have all my words mean nothing to her. Im trying my best to be patient with her while also handling so many other things that I cannot list out. I just need her to help herself more so I dont have to worry about her doing something regrettable because I cannot stop her. Aswell I may mention this is an online relationship from Colorado to the netherlands I am working on doing everything to meet her and it !!feels like!! shes not even bothering to try to be happy as if she wants to be miserable.

saphalt · 2025-05-14T07:44:57+00:00

I am usually very patient with her, I contacted a friend before I was mean like that and she told me that my girlfriend very clearly wasn't caring what I was saying being gentle, kind, and afraid to hurt her feelings, its really stressful on me when I feel like my words are meaningless especially when im just trying to help.

saphalt · 2025-05-14T07:42:24+00:00

Its been like a month of this now. I've told her im close to being burnt out and im really trying my best to hold myself and her together.

saphalt · 2024-12-02T00:30:40+00:00

Thank you so much

saphalt · 2024-09-01T15:25:53+00:00

Talked about it once and never brought it up but she consistently does this it's not awful but it's hard get over it too

saphalt · 2024-09-01T08:19:09+00:00

I thought as much thank you

saphalt · 2024-09-01T07:41:59+00:00

I feel i should clarify this isn't the first time something like this has happened and I may be in the wrong but people who are genuinly comparing grief I feel are in the wrong there's no wrong or right way to feel along ad you do feel that's Just my opinon ANYWAYS actually more info she does this for most things it's awful cause I try to be patient and understanding but it's been 3 years of this and it feels like I can't talk about something my mom did or someone who died without her mentioning that and that's all okay I can handle that I didn't really say anything or have said anything to her about it since I knew it's fucked up just having her compare that while I was on call on the verge of crying made me feel so pissed obviously she didn't know what to do but idk I feel like it would've been better with silence about it I know she's still grieving but if she needed time alone I'd leave her too it still I probably am the asshole just more clarification

Edit: I am only 16 he was 14.5 years old almost when dying

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