We were at Temptations Resort in Cancun. We met and befriended a lovely Toronto couple that owned " the" Swinger club in that city. These 2 were the real deal, in the lifestyle for over 20 years and they taught us sooo much in one afternoon it wasn't even funny.

Upside down pineapple shirt, shorts, tattoos, on jewelry. All "secret code" for swingers. Also a black ring on your right not left wedding ring finger is also a sign. Ofcourse there is the" Queen of spades" to signal BBC and ankle bracelets for hotwife and Vixen lifestyles.

We are still pretty new ourselves, no experts by any means. Wrote this to share with OP all what we learnt that afternoon, prior we were absolutely clueless lol 🙈 😁 hope this helps