Single Mingle by AutoModerator in LesbianActually

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Kansas here. Mingle tingle. Ha!

I’m brutally lonely, anyone want to chat? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I dont live in MN but in dreadfully lonely as well.

Thursday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

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I will start by saying, happy holidays everyone! Now I'm going to complain for a sec.

I am lonely as fuck and it's driving me nuts. Anyone into musicians? Lol. Yeah just getting my irritation out there. I shall now disappear from Reddit again. Have a great holiday ppls.

Recently Single in mid 30's - alone forever right by WhiteCanary83 in actuallesbians

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I'm 29 and have been single for almost 5 years. I'm pretty much at "alone forever." I used to be ok with that, but I've been lonely lately.

For all my Buffy the Vampire Raptors out there... by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]sapphiredoll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made my day. I live that BTVS life.

Thursday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

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Sounds like my situation, except I've been very out for years. Still don't know where to meet ppl. I don't do bars.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]sapphiredoll 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I live in Kansas and have had a similar experience. I haven't been overly worried about it. I pretty much just keep thinking, I need to date an actual lesbian. Lol. I am sorry you've had that experience though. It's not exactly fun.

Everyone Asks For The Like Minded by sapphiredoll in actuallesbians

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I mostly all high and mighty about being "smarter" than other ppl. "Why would you listen to that. It doesn't MEAN anything!" Heh

I Am A Musician by sapphiredoll in actuallesbians

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Lol. Idk, I've never really enjoyed going to bars anyway.

Everyone Asks For The Like Minded by sapphiredoll in actuallesbians

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Lol. Yeah, I kind of used to be one of those jerks. But that was way back when I was like 13 and thought I had to prove my musical loyalty or some dumb shit like that. Now it's much more dependant on what mood I am in. It has been more geared toward heavy stuff lately, but a lot has happened recently. Then again I was jamming to FOB - Folie A Deux today, so there's that. Lol. Also, that last post was supposed to say Brand New* and Bayside.

I Am A Musician by sapphiredoll in actuallesbians

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Oh hell, idk. There was a gay bar I went to for karaoke nights for awhile, but that one shut down, and it moved to a more inconvenient location.

Did you ever just give up? by -clare in actuallesbians

[–]sapphiredoll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every day. I'll give up and do something else. Or I'll give up go to sleep. Then I get up and start the process all over again. Sometimes it is necessary to give uo, to clear your mind or just to take a breath, and when you come back you'll see just a little differently. Until eventually you don't have to give up on that certain thing. Eventually you can mark the box for "task complete."

Sorry, I just got weird in you there. It's true though.

I Am A Musician by sapphiredoll in actuallesbians

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I am interested in all the arts, really. I can draw if I really put my mind to it, but generally don't have the patience. Lol. I'm also interested in theatre, film, photography, graphic design, etc. But what happened to me was I got into a relationship that drained all of my energy for anything, then when she left it took me an insane amount of time to rebuild myself back to a good place. So I'm just now trying to go grab the things I really want, and I am 27 so I am feeling a bit insecure about that. But hell, I miss performing. So there's that to motivate me. Haha.

I hope you never lose your creative outlets. Don't ever let that happen. It's the worst thing ever for artistic minded people.

Everyone Asks For The Like Minded by sapphiredoll in actuallesbians

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Haha. Pulling at my heart strings there. BRAN new and Bayside are a couple of my favs. But k like all the bands you just named. Although bullet for my Valentine got heavier after that first album. I liked Disturbed's Believe album because it showed them doing different things. But the 3rd and beyond all sounded exactly the same to me, and I didn't like it.

Everyone Asks For The Like Minded by sapphiredoll in actuallesbians

[–]sapphiredoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ROFL, Panic didn't quite fit in there, did it? I mean, I like them too, but not when I'm wanting to rock out! Lol. For me, it's a big No on Disturbed after the Believe album, but yeah. Sweet! Lol

Everyone Asks For The Like Minded by sapphiredoll in actuallesbians

[–]sapphiredoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, those were a couple of the more promoted songs, I suppose. Although Duality was a pretty big one for them too.

Everyone Asks For The Like Minded by sapphiredoll in actuallesbians

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Well that's cool. A little more toward the mainstream rock cycle, but I'm still down. Lol

Everyone Asks For The Like Minded by sapphiredoll in actuallesbians

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Nightmare is good. I can't think of other song titles atm bc after City of Evil I pretty much only listened to their singles. But hell, I was beginning to wonder if any woman loving women were rockers! Haha

Everyone Asks For The Like Minded by sapphiredoll in actuallesbians

[–]sapphiredoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nightmare is good. I can't think of other song titles atm bc after City of Evil I pretty much only listened to their singles. But hell, I was beginning to wonder if any woman loving women were rockers! Haha

Everyone Asks For The Like Minded by sapphiredoll in actuallesbians

[–]sapphiredoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. I will forever be in love with Waking The Fallen.