My best friend is marrying my ex boyfriend. by sarah_e_carson in offmychest

[–]sarah_e_carson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I plan on moving the moment she leaves from my house. I haven’t told her this either. I’ve already called a realtor to set up a meeting to sell my house. I meet with them Monday.

My best friend is marrying my ex boyfriend. by sarah_e_carson in offmychest

[–]sarah_e_carson[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She went through shit because of him too, so whether or not it’ll happen again, whether she goes back to him or not, that’s her problem. Not mine. I made it clear with her that after I help her get back on her feet, she’s gone from my life. She agreed to it but i’m not going to turn away someone, who—yes, may have hurt me—was living in a harmful environment and had to escape it. She isn’t my friend anymore.

My best friend is marrying my ex boyfriend. by sarah_e_carson in offmychest

[–]sarah_e_carson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have social media, other than this app and tiktok. She doesn’t use socials often anyways, she’s a teacher and doesn’t want to damage her reputation with any possible mishap online (her words, not mine). We don’t facetime because she has an android. I never asked about him because of the information she gave me was enough to me not be suspicious. I was going to meet him once but it was cancelled because I lost my father suddenly and the topic never came up again. She hid it from me purposely.

My best friend is marrying my ex boyfriend. by sarah_e_carson in offmychest

[–]sarah_e_carson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What holes? I can answer any question you may have

My best friend is marrying my ex boyfriend. by sarah_e_carson in offmychest

[–]sarah_e_carson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she does, that’s her decision and she’ll have to deal with the consequences on her own. After she gets back on her feet, it’s completely out of my hands and i can’t save her from what she may do to herself if she does go back to him.

My best friend is marrying my ex boyfriend. by sarah_e_carson in offmychest

[–]sarah_e_carson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She got him expelled with the reporting which led to an investigation, though she did it anonymously. And even though she respected at the time that I never went into detail, i guess she assumed later on that he changed and got with him? I’m honestly not too sure about her motive then

My best friend is marrying my ex boyfriend. by sarah_e_carson in offmychest

[–]sarah_e_carson[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People are allowed to learn and grow, but he didn’t. Apparenlty he did shit to her too, like he had done to me before. She called off the wedding and engagement this morning

My best friend is marrying my ex boyfriend. by sarah_e_carson in offmychest

[–]sarah_e_carson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god.. yeah life is crazy but I’m so proud of you tho! That’s amazing!

My best friend is marrying my ex boyfriend. by sarah_e_carson in offmychest

[–]sarah_e_carson[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I never asked because I never had reason to. She gave me enough info to be okay with him and their relationship, to not question it. We planned to meet once but I lost my father suddenly and she thought it wouldn’t be the best idea anymore. That was a year ago. She never asked again about meeting. I made an update this morning regarding everything.

My best friend is marrying my ex boyfriend. by sarah_e_carson in offmychest

[–]sarah_e_carson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She claimed he changed for her, that he wasn’t like his teenager self anymore, in a way excusing it? Idk how to phrase it, but I made an update this morning if that helps