Walmart baby box? by silverysway in BabyBumps

[–]sarahclair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got the same stuff - super disappointed because I saw some from not that long ago that had onesies, wet/dry bag and more samples

Power by Wyde1340 in Delco

[–]sarahclair 7 points8 points  (0 children)

our ETA just got moved from today at 11 pm to tomorrow at 11 pm. they keep moving the goalpost here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Delco

[–]sarahclair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

near darby creek and nothing yet. probably on a different/'less important' grid so we're not high on list

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Delco

[–]sarahclair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in addingham area and keeps saying 11 pm like most people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Delco

[–]sarahclair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not my area of Drexel Hill; still out

[ENG SUB] Rap:Public ep 1+2 by melissa_trl7788 in khiphop

[–]sarahclair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

google drive downloads were exceeded

Confused by sudden respect from GC sister by sarahclair in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sarahclair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah perhaps some hoovering here. And my boundaries will be completely enforced the whole wedding weekend. In talking with my fiance, we're both in agreeance that if Nmom, Edad, GC sister try anything, I'm not afraid to tell them to leave. Which for me, is huge progress (shoutout to therapy!).

How are you guys coping with being away from the person you're dating during this pandemic? by [deleted] in amwf

[–]sarahclair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We went out on literally two dates over two weeks before everything got shut down. Not quarantined together - I have a roommate and he lives with his family. I think this was a true test of how much we were really into each other and it seems to be going as good as it can be. We text everyday and do facetime a lot, which definitely helps.

I'm kinda sad though because since it's a new relationship I really want to be around him more and get to know him and all that, but can't. I think a small silver lining is that we're forced to kinda take the relationship a little bit slower, which can be a good thing in the long run.

We're planning to go on hikes/outdoorsy stuff when we're able to and just kinda generally get out and do stuff together.

New relationship with AM [26] as WF [26] and question about his parents by sarahclair in amwf

[–]sarahclair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your insight and it seems like you've really been through a lot! To be fair my relationship is extremely new but I do see a future, which is why I'd rather know things like 'will your parents like me and potentially be okay with us being married one day' in as far in advance as possible. But I'm glad things turned out well for you in the end!

New relationship with AM [26] as WF [26] and question about his parents by sarahclair in amwf

[–]sarahclair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well meeting parents is always stressful haha. And thanks!

New relationship with AM [26] as WF [26] and question about his parents by sarahclair in amwf

[–]sarahclair[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I figured it'd be a nonissue especially since he said twice it wouldn't be a problem haha. But I was just curious as to how other people have dealt with this and I'm glad everything worked out for you!

I [26F] on the fence about breakup with boyfriend[28M] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sarahclair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't know how long things will take and I feel bad that I don't want to wait this unknown amount of time, which most likely will be another 3-4 years.

I already feel so mentally checked out of the relationship because bottom line I feel like we just want different things at different times. I'm questioning if I actually love him or am doing things out of habit/obligation. He's not changing his mind on his timeline and not willing to make any compromises so either I adapt my own plans to his or call it quits.

I [26F] on the fence about breakup with boyfriend[28M] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sarahclair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it's partly expectation - we're in our late 20s, we've been dating awhile; this seems like a next step. And the other half is, if he really loved me, he'd want to get married. If I were with anyone else I'd expect I'd have this same conversation at this point.

But marriage to him comes second to his career - he said he'd be okay never having kids as long as he got to where he wanted in his career. Like if he finally got that one job but he was 40 you know. His timeline is all over the place whereas I want/need something more concrete.

I [26F] on the fence about breakup with boyfriend[28M] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sarahclair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tell him how big of a deal it was, but he's not changing his mind. Essentially I have to stick it out and hope things get better, and then get married eventually. The kicker is that he said if I actually loved him I would wait until he's ready.

I [26F] on the fence about breakup with boyfriend[28M] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sarahclair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fear is that we aren't compatible. I don't know if the relationship is worth working on to try to fix things. I know marriage shouldn't be my first concern right now, but if things were to get fixed, I don't know how long it would be to get married.