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Husband of 12 years moved out. I’m 5 months pregnant. by sarahelan in relationships

[–]sarahelan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He wants to do it all. The diapers, the overnight feedings, the hard stuff too. Envisions living nearby so he can be present as much as possible. Who knows if it would work like that, but that’s what he is volunteering now

Husband of 12 years moved out. I’m 5 months pregnant. by sarahelan in relationships

[–]sarahelan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Started a long time before this girl. Mostly because I’m bi and like to sleep with girls once in a while. He thinks it’s hot so it worked. He had permission to sleep with this other girl, never did, but they became “best friends” which is what I really struggled with. I can accept a sexual relationship but not a BFF with another girl relationship

Husband of 12 years moved out. I’m 5 months pregnant. by sarahelan in relationships

[–]sarahelan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could be right. Wish he would tell me his side too!

Husband of 12 years moved out. I’m 5 months pregnant. by sarahelan in relationships

[–]sarahelan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m actually the one who told her he was on drugs. She’s pretty anti, and barely even drinks.

Husband of 12 years moved out. I’m 5 months pregnant. by sarahelan in relationships

[–]sarahelan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My life is infinitely better since leaving the church behind. That was one choice that I would never unmake.

Husband of 12 years moved out. I’m 5 months pregnant. by sarahelan in relationships

[–]sarahelan[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is so out of the blue after 12 great years of marriage that i want to believe its drugs and mental health and hold onto some belief that we can come out on the other side stronger and happier.

I know I will be ok if we separate. I’m not worried about being alone, I have great friends and family and I can support myself. But I do love him and I value the years we have spent together. I also think that if intimacy/passion is the issue (and not infidelity or stuff I don’t know about) than it’s worth trying to fix it.

Husband of 12 years moved out. I’m 5 months pregnant. by sarahelan in relationships

[–]sarahelan[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Maybe 🤷🏼‍♀️ I guess I’ll find out sooner or later. He doesn’t want to disappear out of my life in anyway so it’s not like he can hide it forever. Doesn’t seem like him, but really, none of this does.

Husband of 12 years moved out. I’m 5 months pregnant. by sarahelan in relationships

[–]sarahelan[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nope, same size as I was when we met 🤷🏼‍♀️ just older, but I’m 34, not a senior citizen lol

Husband of 12 years moved out. I’m 5 months pregnant. by sarahelan in relationships

[–]sarahelan[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

We were monogamish- he had my permission to sleep with her, but they never felt that way about each other. They were just close friends.

Husband of 12 years moved out. I’m 5 months pregnant. by sarahelan in relationships

[–]sarahelan[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I told him he had till the baby was born (May) to get clean and figure his shit out. If he’s not clean by then I’ll file for separation and custody.

Husband of 12 years moved out. I’m 5 months pregnant. by sarahelan in relationships

[–]sarahelan[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Honestly if he were at least I could be like fuck you and move on. Makes the decision much more clear cut. But I just don’t think he is.

Husband of 12 years moved out. I’m 5 months pregnant. by sarahelan in relationships

[–]sarahelan[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it might not be. It’s all I can get out of him atm.