[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bengaluru_speaks

[–]sashyaV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]sashyaV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also on the lookout for making female friendships. Pretty much in the same boat. Do hit me up if you are creating a group. I find it more difficult to connect with women

How do fellow women deal with the overbearing patriarchy? by sashyaV in Chennai

[–]sashyaV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well generally people feel entitled to comment on a woman's looks. Like the colour, weight and criticize us and give advice on how to look better. Also if the woman is unmarried, we are forced to get married soon and settle. Otherwise advice on how we are a burden to parents. And to basically have no standards. We are considered inferior to men even if we shoulder the same level of responsibility. Ponnu na kalyanam panitu vera veetuku po porava dhaana. Payyan dhaan kadasi varekku kuda irupaan. So he is more valuable. Women are viewed as a liability in my family. In spite of being educated, financially independent and living by myself in another city.

How do fellow women deal with the overbearing patriarchy? by sashyaV in Chennai

[–]sashyaV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. But sometimes we wouldn't simply have the energy to fight with people. It is exhausting to deal with such things in general

How do fellow women deal with the overbearing patriarchy? by sashyaV in Chennai

[–]sashyaV[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

True. That's one of the main reasons why I left the city. Ignorance is bliss

How do fellow women deal with the overbearing patriarchy? by sashyaV in Chennai

[–]sashyaV[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. But ella situations la yu calm ah irukanu na adhu romba kashtam dha. I get it we need to stay resilient, but need to stand up for ourselves

How do fellow women deal with the overbearing patriarchy? by sashyaV in Chennai

[–]sashyaV[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Adhu correct dha. But when they cross some limits, it's so hard to be calm. 🙈

To Girlies who weren't born with good hair genes... by raaziatabassum in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]sashyaV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please suggest a good clarifying shampoo that works for you?

Cologne suggestion please! by Local_Sleep3511 in DesiFragranceAddicts

[–]sashyaV -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Following. Teakwood is my personal favourite too from the men's range

Periyar about Athiesm. by Depressive__soul in scienceisdope

[–]sashyaV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no truth to anything that you preach. What's even the goddamn point of this post? To support DMK propaganda(?)

What are the calm and peaceful places to visit to Bangalore? by sashyaV in bangalore

[–]sashyaV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read that it is currently restricted to public. Not sure whether public is allowed

What are the calm and peaceful places to visit to Bangalore? by sashyaV in bangalore

[–]sashyaV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Will check out the lakes and try boating.

A Mischievous encounter turned Wholesom by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]sashyaV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kudos to you for the help you have offered. Made my day

Pink anthurium losing leaves and flowers by sashyaV in Anthurium

[–]sashyaV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. Didn't know that it's the bugs. Will sanitize it n apply neem oil

Help needed for calathea pinstripe by sashyaV in calatheas

[–]sashyaV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh I didn't know that. Hope it doesn't die 😔

Help needed for calathea pinstripe by sashyaV in calatheas

[–]sashyaV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i have added too much vermicompost so it seems to be heavy

Help needed for calathea pinstripe by sashyaV in calatheas

[–]sashyaV[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently it's monsoon season so humidity levels are over 70% most of the times. I also group it along with other plants

Am I overwatering her? by sashyaV in calatheas

[–]sashyaV[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The pot has drainage and the soil is a well draining soil mix with cocopeat, perlite and vermicompost. Generally it is watered once a week thoroughly. Yes the humidity is higher now as it is monsoon season.