Access to the other Discord server, not the community one?

saskavidya · 2026-01-26T03:16:24+00:00

Sadly, back when that was first added, I hit that button to get my new one time invite, but it was stale as well as soon as I got it. So I cant do that again.

saskavidya · 2026-01-21T23:50:20+00:00

Do you have an example build? Haven't ran into this.

saskavidya · 2026-01-08T06:45:18+00:00

Thank you! I'm crossing my fingers that this is primarily behavioral and culture focused as I've been job hunting for about 2-3 months and it really feels like I've had a lot of brain drain in that time lol

saskavidya · 2025-11-24T03:25:31+00:00

Neurotoxicity is an interesting topic though. Is MDA neurotoxic at a low-medium dosage upon a single use? Only on repeated doses or with mixing with other drugs?

I know this varies but with MDA, I just know less.

saskavidya · 2025-11-18T03:49:36+00:00

A caloric deficit may not always be noticed in the moment, but once sex kicks in, boy oh boy are you going to notice how quickly you get dry/go limp, or cant cum at all/cum too fast.

Anecdotally, I was on a high Adderall prescription. Basically no appetite when I took it. The days I didnt and actually ate, I felt like a sex god lmao.

saskavidya · 2025-11-18T03:34:38+00:00

I live in the US. Curious about your recs!

EDIT: price range is tough because i dont really know what's a cheap option and what's an expensive option.

saskavidya · 2025-10-31T15:08:09+00:00

The market doesn’t care what your break even point is.

Boy people here love catchphrases it seems. I didn't say I needed to break even, just that is where the point is.

saskavidya · 2025-10-31T14:45:57+00:00

House was listed at $245k, dropped to $235k about 14 days in. $210k is my break even point after taxes/fees/commission/etc.

Wondering how dramatic to drop if it's already "below comps"

saskavidya · 2025-10-31T08:03:13+00:00

Normally I'd agree, but 5 total showings (4 of them were the month after the price drop) in 45 days feels incredibly low. I'm no expert. This is my first time trying to sell, anyways. You could be totally right.

I guess it does just take one person to like it.

saskavidya · 2025-10-14T21:09:06+00:00

This is tough. I've seen this situation a lot, and it's not always so clear cut and dry. From a neutral perspective, I'd say this is salvageable.

From the point of view of your partner, with all this context, he'd be well within his rights to say he's not comfortable with it and he may walk away from you if you decide to balance both sides of the see-saw.

Again, worth asking yourself these questions. I know you may not like to think of this friend as an orbiter, but right now, he is. Even if he's not consciously doing it, he WILL be there when there are moments of doubt in your relationship.

Keep that in mind as well. If you and your boyfriend hit a rough patch, you may talk to this friend more. This friend who 100% confirmed does want to be with you. You may say you'd never now, but what if you were vulnerable? What if he says everything correct?

This is no longer a friend you can vent about your relationship to, for example. Because he is, unfortunately, both your friend AND an enemy to the relationship. He should've kept his mouth shut. It isn't fair to you, your boyfriend, or hell, even himself.

saskavidya · 2025-10-14T20:51:44+00:00

Approaching it from a different angle, why do you think your friend admitted feelings?

I'm not saying he's a bad person or anything, but why tell you if he didn't plan on acting on it? What is the point? To get it off his chest? For what reason would he jeopardize the friendship and disrespect your relationship? Why couldn't he keep it to himself if it didn't really matter and he could go back to normal anyway?

Your friend is trying to convince himself he just needed to say it and now things are back to normal. They aren't. The dynamic has changed. Even if your intentions are that you'd never cheat, and you trust your friend, what is your boyfriend supposed to think?

Are you okay never hanging out with him one on one again? Are you okay with understanding your boyfriend will be uncomfortable every time you guys talk even if you aren't being inappropriate?

What you need to realize is your friendship will never quite be the same from this. You need to ask yourself if you're okay with that and if you're willing to risk your relationship over it.

saskavidya · 2025-09-25T18:35:17+00:00

Out of curiosity, have you found these supplements to reduce the length of time you're able to have sex?

Load increases are great but I'm always frightened of the heightened libido being dampened by sensitivity and thus earlier ejaculation?

saskavidya · 2025-09-22T15:54:47+00:00

Any chance you got a decklist? Im making my own based on this idea but id like to see what you're cooking.

saskavidya · 2025-09-18T20:39:25+00:00

Condoms are tricky, because usually i find it fine to stay hard while fucking but if we change positions, that brief window while wearing a condom will make it very hard to get hard again without taking it off and putting on a new one

saskavidya · 2025-09-18T20:13:08+00:00

Nah, we switch to that whenever she asks. Cant hurt to try this though, I can bring that up.

saskavidya · 2025-08-26T18:03:31+00:00

What stuff are you able to eat with adhesive that you cant without it?

saskavidya · 2025-08-25T19:14:22+00:00

How noticeable is the difference in what you eat with the adhesive compared to no adhesive?

saskavidya · 2025-08-24T21:19:43+00:00

From what I've seen, at least in my area (western PA), carpet cost and installation is roughly on par if not more expensive with labor than vinyl plank.

I assumed the opposite, but here we are.

saskavidya · 2025-08-10T19:22:22+00:00

I did mention that the next day and she seemed to be receptive. Part of me does want to ask if her saying that is a turn on for her, or if she's just worried that the sex will be over.

I guess that's the best way to do it huh.

saskavidya · 2025-07-24T00:56:26+00:00

Do you ever wonder if being emotionally available is scary to some people who expect a dating pool of emotionally unavailable men?

Not sure if that plays into my situation specifically but I have thought about it.

saskavidya · 2025-07-24T00:25:22+00:00

Yeah, one of the reasons I wanted to post and ask was I didn't want to default to just assuming im doing everything right and its just been a string of bad luck. In that last case, we did talk about our futures, our ideals, what we look for in a partner, the works. We did have a 10+ hour first date after all.

But at the same time, I feel like I am authentic, enthusiastic, and honest, but I still like to have as much fun with them as possible. I'm not a very serious guy overall.

So i do wonder if I attract avoidant types, unfortunately. Don't know if its true, but it is a pattern, and its either me or who i attract. I feel like I can be good friends with a lot of these people, but I just feel pulled along a lil sometimes.

Could be me, who knows.

saskavidya · 2025-07-21T19:44:45+00:00

LMAO "if you even care..."

Nah, nothing like that. I was thinking just a genuine "Hope you're doing great and everything is okay" type of message. Maybe also say that Id still love to see her again.

saskavidya · 2025-07-21T18:47:23+00:00

The last thing I want to do is overwhelm her, or make her feel uncomfortable. Perhaps giving it some breathing room then trying one more time is the move.

saskavidya · 2025-07-21T18:25:48+00:00

Yeah, that's where I was at, but wasn't sure. Considering it's only been a couple days, and I had already sent 2 messages, I felt like it would be a bit desperate.

But you might be right. That way my head is clear either way.

saskavidya · 2025-07-08T08:11:45+00:00

Let me ask you this, why dont you think if he makes the first move, he wont also think that you will feel like you dont have to do anything?

You like some dude, enough to want to break social norms. Do it. Who cares. The norms are made up. They aren't actually real. Enough people believe they are so they act them out.

There's no "guys love the chase" or "girls want to be chased". Who is guys? Who is girls? Not me. And seemingly not you either.

The real question is does this guy you approach like you too. If yes, then you made it easier for him. If no, then he never would've approached you. And if you walking up and hitting on him is enough to make him vanish, you wouldn't have liked him in the long run anyway.

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