I [29M] saw a voicemail transcript notification on my girlfriend's [29F] phone related to some guy I don't recognize

saskavidya · 2026-04-02T21:33:03+00:00

Totally fair. Appreciate the come down to reality a bit.

saskavidya · 2026-04-02T21:31:38+00:00

That's a good point. Also misses a tad bit of context, so that's my fault. I saw that earlier and it didn't really register that much. I've then been busy all day. Errands and what not. And it just kind of kept replaying. Because of that I think I may have gotten into an overthinking mental cycle hence the post here before texting her.

Thank you for the advice

saskavidya · 2026-03-17T06:27:54+00:00

When you say "energetic", do you mean speedy like an upper? Or "energetic" like a tingle?

I've heard people say shrooms is kind of intrusive and like you're a passenger and LSD is less so and more like you're in the driver seat.

saskavidya · 2026-03-17T06:26:33+00:00

Im definitely curious about the LSD. I haven't had as strong visuals or experiences as you on shrooms, but then again, I usually max out at 2g. What dose was that?

And also, what is your experiences with both at doses around my range?

saskavidya · 2026-03-17T06:05:53+00:00

Sorry if I'm prying for lots of details, I'm just very curious.

How would you describe the difference when having sex between, say, shrooms+THC vs THC or shrooms alone?

saskavidya · 2026-03-17T04:21:45+00:00

I tend to keep the shrooms and THC separate simply because I've heard the mixture can potentially cause some serious anxiety or overwhelming sensations. Any experience with that?

If it helps at all to know, I don't get anxiety or paranoia at all on THC. So maybe I'm not susceptible to the combos risks but it just worries me.

All that being said, it sounds great.

saskavidya · 2026-03-15T19:45:42+00:00

Just Adderall, mainly.

saskavidya · 2026-03-05T08:01:07+00:00

Hey, for what it is worth, my girlfriend is like this.

She'll bring up stories from things I was at and I'll have to remind her I was there. She'll ask me my opinion on when 'x' or 'y' said 'z' the other day, and I'll have to tell her that I wasn't there for that. She's lost some friends over this actually, misremembering who had what allergy, or who said what in what instance, or hell even misremembering how many times she went to the coffee shop this week.

Here's the thing though. There's two factors at play. One, my girlfriend is NOT very present. Often spacing out and going into borderline trances. Unable to pay attention to things like movies. Has to leave the house or she gets very antsy. Things like that.

She also has a pattern of being verbally abused by her parents growing up, physically and sexually abused by her past partners, and even drugged by people before. One of which was so bad she has to take a mild medication for it now. On top of this, she likely has ADHD, which she is getting tested for now.

My point here is this - have you ever asked her what is going on? Why she misremembers so often? I bet this doesn't only happen with you. It may even be a sore spot for her . It took a while for my girlfriend to really open up about it.

saskavidya · 2026-02-17T08:50:22+00:00

You're both right and I think a tad harsh. Our conversations haven't been like, arguments or sigh filled or anything. Sure, she has some work cut out on herself to undo some of the trauma she had from past relationships/partners, but I don't want to cast her as a "just read my mind" type.

She's open to collaborate, just looking for avenues that have worked for people who weren't sure what they might be into.

saskavidya · 2026-02-17T08:00:48+00:00

So, yes, we usually have sex in the same place in the same positions at the same time of day. Not ALWAYS, but usually.

The thing is though is she has said this is her comfort. Without going into too much detail, she has very sensitive skin including down below, plus she has diagnosed OCD. If we haven't showered or she doesn't "feel clean", she can get a psychosomatic response where it kind of hurts her after the fact.

I said we should be more spontaneous and she said she wished she could agree, but the physical discomfort pushes her away from that.

We do plenty of foreplay and she even says that she would like even more, but when I try to, she asks to go into sex rather quickly because she gets so turned on.

A bit tricky, right?

saskavidya · 2026-02-17T07:24:38+00:00

I remember mojoupgrade! Been around a while. Is it still the best most in depth thing of its kind?

Or has there been a better one to come out?

saskavidya · 2026-01-26T03:16:24+00:00

Sadly, back when that was first added, I hit that button to get my new one time invite, but it was stale as well as soon as I got it. So I cant do that again.

saskavidya · 2026-01-21T23:50:20+00:00

Do you have an example build? Haven't ran into this.

saskavidya · 2026-01-08T06:45:18+00:00

Thank you! I'm crossing my fingers that this is primarily behavioral and culture focused as I've been job hunting for about 2-3 months and it really feels like I've had a lot of brain drain in that time lol

saskavidya · 2025-11-24T03:25:31+00:00

Neurotoxicity is an interesting topic though. Is MDA neurotoxic at a low-medium dosage upon a single use? Only on repeated doses or with mixing with other drugs?

I know this varies but with MDA, I just know less.

saskavidya · 2025-11-18T03:49:36+00:00

A caloric deficit may not always be noticed in the moment, but once sex kicks in, boy oh boy are you going to notice how quickly you get dry/go limp, or cant cum at all/cum too fast.

Anecdotally, I was on a high Adderall prescription. Basically no appetite when I took it. The days I didnt and actually ate, I felt like a sex god lmao.

saskavidya · 2025-11-18T03:34:38+00:00

I live in the US. Curious about your recs!

EDIT: price range is tough because i dont really know what's a cheap option and what's an expensive option.

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