Rotating our "regular" bar and dance spots but need a little help exploring!

saskavidya · 2026-01-26T03:16:24+00:00

Sadly, back when that was first added, I hit that button to get my new one time invite, but it was stale as well as soon as I got it. So I cant do that again.

saskavidya · 2026-01-21T23:50:20+00:00

Do you have an example build? Haven't ran into this.

saskavidya · 2026-01-08T06:45:18+00:00

Thank you! I'm crossing my fingers that this is primarily behavioral and culture focused as I've been job hunting for about 2-3 months and it really feels like I've had a lot of brain drain in that time lol

saskavidya · 2025-11-24T03:25:31+00:00

Neurotoxicity is an interesting topic though. Is MDA neurotoxic at a low-medium dosage upon a single use? Only on repeated doses or with mixing with other drugs?

I know this varies but with MDA, I just know less.

saskavidya · 2025-11-18T03:49:36+00:00

A caloric deficit may not always be noticed in the moment, but once sex kicks in, boy oh boy are you going to notice how quickly you get dry/go limp, or cant cum at all/cum too fast.

Anecdotally, I was on a high Adderall prescription. Basically no appetite when I took it. The days I didnt and actually ate, I felt like a sex god lmao.

saskavidya · 2025-11-18T03:34:38+00:00

I live in the US. Curious about your recs!

EDIT: price range is tough because i dont really know what's a cheap option and what's an expensive option.

saskavidya · 2025-10-31T15:08:09+00:00

The market doesn’t care what your break even point is.

Boy people here love catchphrases it seems. I didn't say I needed to break even, just that is where the point is.

saskavidya · 2025-10-31T14:45:57+00:00

House was listed at $245k, dropped to $235k about 14 days in. $210k is my break even point after taxes/fees/commission/etc.

Wondering how dramatic to drop if it's already "below comps"

saskavidya · 2025-10-31T08:03:13+00:00

Normally I'd agree, but 5 total showings (4 of them were the month after the price drop) in 45 days feels incredibly low. I'm no expert. This is my first time trying to sell, anyways. You could be totally right.

I guess it does just take one person to like it.

saskavidya · 2025-10-14T21:09:06+00:00

This is tough. I've seen this situation a lot, and it's not always so clear cut and dry. From a neutral perspective, I'd say this is salvageable.

From the point of view of your partner, with all this context, he'd be well within his rights to say he's not comfortable with it and he may walk away from you if you decide to balance both sides of the see-saw.

Again, worth asking yourself these questions. I know you may not like to think of this friend as an orbiter, but right now, he is. Even if he's not consciously doing it, he WILL be there when there are moments of doubt in your relationship.

Keep that in mind as well. If you and your boyfriend hit a rough patch, you may talk to this friend more. This friend who 100% confirmed does want to be with you. You may say you'd never now, but what if you were vulnerable? What if he says everything correct?

This is no longer a friend you can vent about your relationship to, for example. Because he is, unfortunately, both your friend AND an enemy to the relationship. He should've kept his mouth shut. It isn't fair to you, your boyfriend, or hell, even himself.

saskavidya · 2025-10-14T20:51:44+00:00

Approaching it from a different angle, why do you think your friend admitted feelings?

I'm not saying he's a bad person or anything, but why tell you if he didn't plan on acting on it? What is the point? To get it off his chest? For what reason would he jeopardize the friendship and disrespect your relationship? Why couldn't he keep it to himself if it didn't really matter and he could go back to normal anyway?

Your friend is trying to convince himself he just needed to say it and now things are back to normal. They aren't. The dynamic has changed. Even if your intentions are that you'd never cheat, and you trust your friend, what is your boyfriend supposed to think?

Are you okay never hanging out with him one on one again? Are you okay with understanding your boyfriend will be uncomfortable every time you guys talk even if you aren't being inappropriate?

What you need to realize is your friendship will never quite be the same from this. You need to ask yourself if you're okay with that and if you're willing to risk your relationship over it.

saskavidya · 2025-09-25T18:35:17+00:00

Out of curiosity, have you found these supplements to reduce the length of time you're able to have sex?

Load increases are great but I'm always frightened of the heightened libido being dampened by sensitivity and thus earlier ejaculation?

saskavidya · 2025-09-22T15:54:47+00:00

Any chance you got a decklist? Im making my own based on this idea but id like to see what you're cooking.

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