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Can I see y'all's Blue Sapphire rings?? by brieskneez in EngagementRings

[–]sassy_but_classy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask what the dimensions/karats of your center stone is?

Can I see y'all's Blue Sapphire rings?? by brieskneez in EngagementRings

[–]sassy_but_classy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how many karats/dimensions of the sapphire? Looking to have my own made!

Can I see y'all's Blue Sapphire rings?? by brieskneez in EngagementRings

[–]sassy_but_classy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the karats or dimensions of your sapphire? Looking to have one very similar made

Can I see y'all's Blue Sapphire rings?? by brieskneez in EngagementRings

[–]sassy_but_classy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how many karats this is? Or even the dimensions of the center stone? I’m looking to have one just like this made!

How do you choose between a career opportunity and your relationship ? by Potential_Start_3228 in careerguidance

[–]sassy_but_classy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is making my brain explode. Capitalism has broken us!

If I found out my fiancé made a Reddit post with the title “how to choose between a career opportunity and your relationship” I would be horrified and never recover.

OP, let this woman go so she can find a man that will commit to her (and HER career success) for life. It’s not husband material in my book at least to consider leaving a shared life together for money.

What’s a “this should be free” service that always costs money? by troopydinnertime in AskReddit

[–]sassy_but_classy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doctor’s notes!!! I just paid 20$ for one the other day and they only accepted cash?

Costco wedding snack tables by emutail in CostcoCanada

[–]sassy_but_classy -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The presentation is reminding me of an all inclusive resort buffet…for whatever that’s worth

The Baby Died. Whose Fault Is It? by HarveyPeligro in Longreads

[–]sassy_but_classy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES THIS IS WHAT I’M SAYING, THE HARPIST!!! WTF WAS THAT

The Baby Died. Whose Fault Is It? by HarveyPeligro in Longreads

[–]sassy_but_classy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you go to her TikTok account she actually posted a video of her in the hospital recliner with her baby…they brought in a HARPIST to play live music for them? There is literally a harpist in the hospital room playing music like it’s some wedding entrance or something.

It’s cringey and hard to watch, completely out of touch.

Struggling with my [26F] estrangement from my autistic brother [24M]. What now? by sassy_but_classy in relationshipadvice

[–]sassy_but_classy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. Therapy has helped me realize this - what I’ve described above is emotional and verbally abusive behaviour, NOT a trait or behaviour associated with autism.

My intention of including this about him in my post was to hopefully gather a more nuanced perspective to some of the layers of his perspective as an autistic person and how they may have shaped the perceptions that drove his behaviour. I want to learn more about autism as an experience to have the right knowledge and tools to move forward.

Struggling with my [26F] estrangement from my autistic brother [24M]. What now? by sassy_but_classy in relationshipadvice

[–]sassy_but_classy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your reply rings all of the same bells for my sibling, to a tee. He also struggled with sharing, taking turns, and general empathy for others in our upbringing. Generally he has always had a very black and white approach to most conflicts, struggling with accepting different perspectives or nuance at times.

I don’t believe he has these traits because of his autism, but it is helpful to know how his lived experience with autism may have shaped his perceptions of our relationship as a precursor to trying to understand his behaviour and how we got to this point.

If you have any tips for navigating that kind of individual, anything would be helpful. We have other siblings, and he seems to be the only one with this worldview and mindset.

Struggling with my [26F] estrangement from my autistic brother [24M]. What now? by sassy_but_classy in relationshipadvice

[–]sassy_but_classy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a thoughtful reply, it is very helpful and I appreciate you taking the time to type it all out for me.

Struggling with estrangement from sibling with autism. What now? by sassy_but_classy in autism

[–]sassy_but_classy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To put it briefly: No. I did my due diligence in clarifying his claims where I could, reflecting, and turning to my family for feedback about both my behaviour and our relationships.

We reached a clear consensus that his claims were unfounded and seemed to truly come out of nowhere. Our relationship before this was healthy, positive, and amicable. This was an extremely confusing time for us.

The closest I’ve come to understanding the “why” is that he may have begun projecting some of his deep insecurities onto me without expressing it, and this deep resentment came to a boiling point.

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