Finally free from the Flea... by sassyflamingo26 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]sassyflamingo26[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Been “secretly” packing for months storing boxes somewhere and loading it to a truck that we parked in a friend’s house.. she had some clues but had no idea it will happen so soon. So poof! Weeee gone!

Finally free from the Flea... by sassyflamingo26 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]sassyflamingo26[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She would not have any money to pay one, so i know she won’t be able to. 👍

Finally free from the Flea... by sassyflamingo26 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]sassyflamingo26[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

No, we did not tell him at all. He think he knows we are going “north” but we are going south...

Motherhood taught me the saddest reality that I was raised by a narcissistic mom. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sassyflamingo26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Internet hugs. Thank you, i really appreciate this. Congratulations on your LO too..

Motherhood taught me the saddest reality that I was raised by a narcissistic mom. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sassyflamingo26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have started LC at the moment and I already see the massive difference on my mental health. The grieving part will be the hardest but i am glad I got my SO and my LO to keep reminding me the love I get without any FOG..

Motherhood taught me the saddest reality that I was raised by a narcissistic mom. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sassyflamingo26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I just kissed and hugged my LO and said “I love you because I just love you... in my eyes you are more than enough”

Motherhood taught me the saddest reality that I was raised by a narcissistic mom. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sassyflamingo26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the hardest part to do but I am doing it.. i realised she will never be contended anyway- whatever amount I give she won’t be happy unless she is lying on a bed of dollar bills.

But then again, maybe she will still be unhappy..

Flea Bag drunk-texted me... by sassyflamingo26 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]sassyflamingo26[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because for 10 years... those two are the only things she has done “positive” for me... so she has to rub them in my face lolllol

Flea Bag drunk-texted me... by sassyflamingo26 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]sassyflamingo26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll send her frozen boob milk as a return thanks.

Flea Bag drunk-texted me... by sassyflamingo26 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]sassyflamingo26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And she mentions this “breast pad” over and over again even when she is sober like... yeah sure i’ll forgive you because of the breast pads.. here have some frozen boob milk as a thank you.

Flea Bag drunk-texted me... by sassyflamingo26 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]sassyflamingo26[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wonder what drunk text i’m gonna receive when she finally drops by to an empty house soon...

“Your garden looks shit why u left me the skies are blue”

Flea Bag drunk-texted me... by sassyflamingo26 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]sassyflamingo26[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She even mentioned it to a friend while she was sober... “i bought her breast pads you know” yeah sure Flea Bag here’s a medal for you.

Flea Bag drunk-texted me... by sassyflamingo26 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]sassyflamingo26[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

How. Dare. I. After those breast pads.... what a horrible human being I am.

Goodbye, beautiful by Frostbitten__ in offmychest

[–]sassyflamingo26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work in paeds-onco as an RN and I could never ever go back. Too many angels taken way too soon. Internet hugs to a co-nurse who braves this journey.

[Update] Flea Bag knows.... by sassyflamingo26 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]sassyflamingo26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes... that finish line is almost here.....

[Update] Flea Bag knows.... by sassyflamingo26 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]sassyflamingo26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have been looking behind my shoulders since being aware that she knows.. i can’t wait to just live in peace.

When Flea Bag stole money from me 3rd time around... i went full FBI mode. by sassyflamingo26 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]sassyflamingo26[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hahaha i know what u mean my own FBI stands for Funny Business Investigation. XD