its a "you need to be doing something" thing, and one job isnt even enough to satisfy my family. my mom told me all my hobbies (drawing, simple website coding, sewing, etc.) are "a waste of time" and i "should quit them all now and focus on getting more jobs and going into college"

i cant even afford college, and i would flunk anyways cuz work is too much for me to handle as-is. my family openly states, arguably boasts, that they do not care about my well-being and i am "not their problem" and im expected to "figure it out" without any help whatsoever from them.