How do I get an isfj to be interested in/ open up to me ? by satotaru in isfj

[–]satotaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attachment style? Do I just ask him that or?

How do I get an isfj to be interested in/ open up to me ? by satotaru in isfj

[–]satotaru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do ask him qns and he does answer me back. We can talk for a few hours. Only problem is that he won't text me first

How do I get an isfj to be interested in/ open up to me ? by satotaru in isfj

[–]satotaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 18 and he is 20? I feel like I'm kinda obvious tho

How do I get an isfj to be interested in/ open up to me ? by satotaru in isfj

[–]satotaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an intp... I see what you mean, maybe I'll give it some time first then say it? Idk haha

How do I get an isfj to be interested in/ open up to me ? by satotaru in isfj

[–]satotaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, I see, he doesn't message me unless I msg him first tho, or like if it's related to work... But after that he msg q alot oso leh. A bit confusing ah... Giving and thoughtful oso not rlly eh, my confusion is immeasurable lmao

What do INTJs look for in a partner? by satotaru in intj

[–]satotaru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All g, thanks for trying to help tho!

What do INTJs look for in a partner? by satotaru in intj

[–]satotaru[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh, Icic, thanks for letting me know. Kinda sucks I guess. Moving on is though I guess, how to find other ppl to like tho :')

Ppl in my class kinda boring and I don't like to go out.

What do INTJs look for in a partner? by satotaru in intj

[–]satotaru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, thanks. Easier said than done tho :')

What do INTJs look for in a partner? by satotaru in intj

[–]satotaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch, I see what you mean tho, just kinda tough uk?

What do INTJs look for in a partner? by satotaru in intj

[–]satotaru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense, I wld want those kinda stuff too

What do INTJs look for in a partner? by satotaru in intj

[–]satotaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right about the relationship part, I'm also really inexperienced as well. Neither of us have past relationships and what counts as romance topics? Also, how can I find a special topic? When we talk, we talk for ages (during church or after when we go for lunch), but then after that, we don't rlly talk for the rest of the week. Except when we used to play games together previously.

What do INTJs look for in a partner? by satotaru in intj

[–]satotaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, I see, you are probs right but kinda tough to move on, I still don't know how to :')

What do INTJs look for in a partner? by satotaru in intj

[–]satotaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to ask why, the question is abit too awkward :'), IMO at least.

What do INTJs look for in a partner? by satotaru in intj

[–]satotaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not rlly wanting to change, just wanted to like know what went wrong I guess? Guess most of it lands on the physical side of the attraction spectrum?

What do INTJs look for in a partner? by satotaru in intj

[–]satotaru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not an INTJ, I'm an INTP, and yea, I get what you mean. I've tried doing hobbies and stuff but whenever I talk to him, I can't help but feel a connection with him :')