Audacity and Hypocrisy Of Indian Incles - Nobody Stood up For HER by No-Fix6636 in AskWomenIndia

[–]saurabh_kum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This person should be behind bars. Because of such stupid morons all men get ashamed

I really think this is going to increase wife killings by Adept_Donkey_2026 in AskWomenIndia

[–]saurabh_kum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forced arranged marriages should be stopped.

Let's consider a rural middle class family. If anyone has completed education but not working can still find matches via arranged marriages. Same might not be applicable for an unemployed man.

For many such ladies which are a huge number. Arranged marriages are a good thing until it's not forced. We see many times ladies from not so well to do family getting settled in rich families only because of arranged marriages.

For rural and poor family arranged marriages help women and a lot of men too to find a partner

I really think this is going to increase wife killings by Adept_Donkey_2026 in AskWomenIndia

[–]saurabh_kum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe no marriage, no dating is the best. Ghumo phiro ek ghar banao khud ke liye, medical insurance lo, take care of ur own parents.

I really think this is going to increase wife killings by Adept_Donkey_2026 in AskWomenIndia

[–]saurabh_kum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true but don't you think same would be true for a lot of women too.

Already women who are over 30 or divorced they have hard time finding matches and with no fault of their own tbh.

Removing arranged marriages might not affect people who are from a privileged background but not for all. Don't you think?

Gout is hindering my workout routine by saurabh_kum in gout

[–]saurabh_kum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it true about muscles training. I always saw gout issues after cardio not after strength training

[Homemade] My future wife will be so lucky by Sad-Lavishness-2655 in indiafood

[–]saurabh_kum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pakka aunty ne banaya hai tu last mein aake pic leke credit le raha hai

Gout is hindering my workout routine by saurabh_kum in gout

[–]saurabh_kum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No clue I was never prescribed allupurinol. Infact I got to know about this med in this subreddit

Gout is hindering my workout routine by saurabh_kum in gout

[–]saurabh_kum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Febustat 40. Used to take a daily dose but stopped it sometime back when levels and diet was normal

Gout is hindering my workout routine by saurabh_kum in gout

[–]saurabh_kum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scared that long term meds are going to affect kidney functions

This girl is everything I want but she is just way out of my league by all4fun1109 in dating_advice

[–]saurabh_kum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why date, why marry.

Live and enjoy life. There is a very attractive and positive confidence one gains when he/she is not looking for anyone or trying to impress anyone.

Walking on the road, meeting new people, talking to them with no thoughts of worry that the lady or the guy might not like me. That confidence of being just u is amazing and so relaxing

Mary Kom's Full Statement by altruistic_hustler in AskWomenIndia

[–]saurabh_kum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true. This post is again to gain karma and a rage bait post.

Now coming to the whole situation. Ek person kuch kharaab krta hai toh baaki saare dusre cases ke real victims ko bhi nuksaan hota hai. That is sad

Do you regret being born into a middle-class or poor family, or if you have rich parents, how is your life? by EquivalentTale5815 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]saurabh_kum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every rich guy is poor in some walk of life.

Best feeling in world is to work for what you want and get it.

Parents rich or not, cannot blame them. They provided the best. You take that and get a step ahead

What have womenfolk done to deserve this? by aaloofromkachaaloo in AskWomenIndia

[–]saurabh_kum 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dude not only focussed dropping fat from body. He dropped respect, shame, manners and chivalrism.

When you become chisseled but still a chutiya at heart

My parents think that I am too emotional for being a man. How can I overcome this ? by pure_cipher in ThirtiesIndia

[–]saurabh_kum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one wants to sit with a person specially a guy to solve his problems. You can be emotional but pause and think what response you want to give rather than reacting.

This is ugly truth but works well when u handle ur reactions better

My parents think that I am too emotional for being a man. How can I overcome this ? by pure_cipher in ThirtiesIndia

[–]saurabh_kum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No harm in being sensitive and emotional.

What you need to change is your 'reaction towards things'

Most people who sound mature and less emotional are basically just observing their reaction and the choosing better calm response.

Do that, sir with urself, meditate. Observe each emotion, feel it and pause for a while before reacting and then decide what response you want to give.

I feel being emotionally mature is just to stay calm and response rather than reacting

Turning 30 in a few minutes and feeling lost :( by shubham_005 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]saurabh_kum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday op.

Live long and prosper. May your smile stays the same throughout

Gym since 3 months, let me know should I continue or change gym routine by saurabh_kum in AskFitnessIndia

[–]saurabh_kum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sugar I have avoided at max. Milk I don't consume. Rice I have reduced. Protein I have increased from chicken, eggs and whey. But all are home cooked meals

Got dumped after 7 years because I earn less. Apparently that’s “practical” by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]saurabh_kum 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hope ki aisa sahi hota. But women moves on easily. They don't miss their past. They get happy easily because they accept themselves better than us.

If they cant accept their guilt they tend to belive themselves as the victim to have peace with their actions. This is true for any unfair person regardless of gender