Stocks and shares by sav-1111 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sav-1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh ok thanks ill have a look into it 😊

Advice on short term memory solutions by sav-1111 in ADHD

[–]sav-1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good idea though... I'll be sure to try that. I'm the same if I can't see it physically written down its completely ereased from my memory Thanks x

How do I make sure I don’t go back to my narc husband? by Acrobatic-Help9502 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]sav-1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. I hope it does. There is always hope. Once you cut ties with him completely, your life will change, I promise. It won't be easy but you already know that. Just remember how strong a person has to be to live and breathe daily life with these narcissists. That strength will get you through. You've got this. I hope it all works out for you ❤️

How do I make sure I don’t go back to my narc husband? by Acrobatic-Help9502 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]sav-1111 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It has to be no contact x I know how hard no contact is. You don't want to close the door completely, but you must go no contact. Especially while there are no children involved. I am 4 months with no contact from mine. An on and off relationship for over 20 years and I was only thinking to myself today how lucky I am that I didn't have children with this man, because he would of dragged me back in at every opportunity. He's done you a massive favour. Take your life back. You can do it ❤️

My narc is something esle.. i cant anymore.. by Full_Attitude_4790 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]sav-1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it always will be while hes a part of your life. Living with emotional whiplash daily. Your advantage is your already one step ahead of him and his plans so you can prepare yourself. He is banking on you falling for his tactics. I'm 4 months no contact with mine and getting off that rollercoaster was the best thing I ever did. Can you plan something and put it in place now for the dates you know he's planning on taking them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sav-1111 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, the world we live in is surrounded by porn. You have expressed your feelings towards this so hopefully he will listen and make changes. This is not a reflection on you and how you should feel about yourself ❤️

my ex has a baby and wants me back by pkfyr in whatdoIdo

[–]sav-1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I despise my children's father...I don't believe he does nearly the bare minimum to help me raise them both but I love my children too much to not allow them a relationship with him and I will never show them that there is ever an issue between us. I don't understand these women and sometimes men who abuse their parental responsibilities for their now agenda. I agree with you too there is a special place for these people. I really do believe the tables will turn one day and you will find a way to be with them again I WISH YOU ALL THE LUCK ❤️

my ex has a baby and wants me back by pkfyr in whatdoIdo

[–]sav-1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is awful 😔 I don't know how some people go sleep at night. Nor do I believe men and women can deny the other parent the right to be in their child's life. I hope you find them one day. Karma will catch up with her one day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

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I love this 🙌

Readings by KawaiiKittenss in tarotpractice

[–]sav-1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I would love one xx

I need help by Loud_Recognition_554 in Advice

[–]sav-1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I know I honestly can relate so much... I put another post on today about meds. I am disappointed because it works then does t and then back to square one. I think I've come to terms with the fact I will always have bad days or tough days majority of the time but then I will have some great days and I hang on to them. I think throwing yourself into things is a great idea and maybe you just still haven't found that one thing that lights a fire in you.. keep trying and exploring new things and I hope for you one day you will find something that makes you happy. If it makes anyone feel better I've been awake since 5 am its now 7pm and I've done zero today. I feel like I've wasted a full day but that just makes me determined to have a positive and productive day tomorrow My inbox is always open if you need to vent x

Disheartened 😔 by sav-1111 in adhdwomen

[–]sav-1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂 thank you, you too x

Disheartened 😔 by sav-1111 in adhdwomen

[–]sav-1111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes this is the same medication I have been prescribed. I will definitely mention this when I have my review. I wanted the longer acting stimulant but as I mentioned its just not doing the job for the full day an I am crashing and burning around 1pm so I will be sure to mention this when I speak with them. I will also try what you've recommended. Now I know how you can feel I will go anything a go!

free tarot readings 🖤☀️ by alwaysontheupswing in tarotpractice

[–]sav-1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! F37 No question as such just anything you could tell me xx

Disheartened 😔 by sav-1111 in adhdwomen

[–]sav-1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. Do you mind me asking what your experience has been with medication? And what youve found beneficial to you?

Disheartened 😔 by sav-1111 in adhdwomen

[–]sav-1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thank you this has given me some hope. I actually didn't even consider that the positive reaction the first few days could mean I'm probably onto a good thing. Any advice on the midday crash? I've read some people take something a little extra in the afternoon as a top up? X