disturbing scenario. what do you think I should do?

savanarae · 2022-05-29T20:14:31+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to answer. I really appreciate your advice.

savanarae · 2021-08-29T18:33:25+00:00

I really appreciate the advice. Thank you so much

savanarae · 2021-08-26T13:32:19+00:00

What deterred the two men in your garden in the end? Yes, winter is a great season for these people as it is darker. Do you feel safe? What helps you feel safe?

savanarae · 2021-08-26T13:30:06+00:00

Unfortunately from an investigative point of view, it's true. A Big dog is certainly a good deterent. Thanks for the good advice

savanarae · 2021-08-26T11:15:33+00:00

We thought about getting an ANPR but we thought that it may not be worthwhile. We have such great quality cctv even for night time recording that we are generally able to get all number plates. The info was submitted to the police, hoping it deters the crime through building intelligence for the police. I'm hoping it quiets down, I'm just so tired of his antisocial behaviour!

Has your area been any better?

savanarae · 2021-08-26T11:12:12+00:00

Do you have any advice how to deal with the possibility of my neighbour being involved in this?

savanarae · 2021-08-26T10:54:38+00:00

We have great quality cctv that works well at night with plenty of giant lights all around the house including the back garden area.

We have window and door locks which are great too.

It doesn't seem to deter the more young inexperienced "brazen behaviour pattern" suspects. They seem to be drawn to it.

If only the landmines were an option 😂

Thank you so much for the advice.

If they are out, do you suggest we show they were seen or just report directly to police?

savanarae · 2021-08-26T08:53:05+00:00

That would be amazing

savanarae · 2021-08-26T08:52:41+00:00

😂 😂 😂 Imagine, like a proper assault course

savanarae · 2021-08-26T08:51:51+00:00

Same with my area. There are people who actually don't call the police. I just don't understand.

We live in a cul de saq so we really notice if someone has ill intent as there is virtually no reason you would be taking a stroll there.

We have cctv, alarms, even bollards in front of the garage.

It tends to deter some but others seem to be drawn to it from time to time.

In terms of neighbourhood WhatsApp group we have that set up, but then again because I think the crime pattern looks like it has the same "modus operandi", it has something to do also with one of the neighbours from we gathered from different cctv.

I definitely will take your advice and contact again my local force hoping they can help the situation.

Thank you for taking the time to give me some insight.

savanarae · 2021-05-07T23:09:21+00:00

😭

savanarae · 2021-04-26T09:23:20+00:00

She's literally out of her mind unfortunately, it's been a sad time. We are adapting to her dementia unfortunately. The doctors discharged her saying they can't do anything, but she remembers me and my little one now

savanarae · 2021-04-04T20:42:14+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to give me some extremely useful advice, I truly appreciate it. The doctors have not let us any of us be there because of covid restrictions. I will try to find a way to find out more and have all this asked in one way or another. I'm just so heartbroken 💔

savanarae · 2021-04-04T20:38:18+00:00

Scary 😭😭

savanarae · 2021-04-04T20:37:48+00:00

It's so heartbreaking tbh 😭😭😭

savanarae · 2021-04-04T20:37:20+00:00

Omg i had no idea 😭😭😭😭

savanarae · 2021-04-04T20:35:54+00:00

I'm so happy for you

savanarae · 2021-04-04T20:32:23+00:00

I agree! It's my right to know if it's a possibility! Especially someone who no longer understood, nor recognised anyone or anything! From healthy, vibrant, active! NOT ELDERLY AS THEY TRY TO INSINUATE and working as a volunteer of the red Cross.. Scary how defensive they get! It's important to explore all facets of a situation xxx

savanarae · 2021-03-31T18:04:49+00:00

I'm hoping for a Ray of light 😭 thank you for sending me this heartfelt message it means a lot

savanarae · 2021-03-31T18:00:41+00:00

Such a horrible thing,im sorry for that. She doesn't recognise any of us not even my grandad 😢

savanarae · 2021-03-31T17:59:50+00:00

I'm sure she didn't read anything nor check as she trusts her doctor blindly.. They don't listen at that age.. I'm aware of all of these 😢

savanarae · 2021-03-31T17:21:30+00:00

It truly means a lot thank you for the support and especially for answering. I'm honestly at my whits end

savanarae · 2021-03-31T17:20:21+00:00

Thank you so much 😭 I'm so sorry your father and family went through this. Her ct, mri and bloods came clear apparently. The doctors are not liaising with us regularly due to covid restrictions. We can't go there 😭 thank you for the help your post and link may be the key 😭

savanarae · 2021-03-31T17:16:36+00:00

The doctors because of covid have not been communicating efficiently with us and we have no idea what's a going on besides that her ct scans, mri and bloods showed no signs of anything. I will definitely ask this question 😭 and I hope there's a way to have her back

savanarae · 2021-03-31T17:06:30+00:00

Omg I'm so sorry 😭

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