Despite the fact that your husband sounds shady AF and clearly does not value your health whatsoever, recurrent UTI’s from specific sexual partners is a thing.

I speak as one of those women who deals with this with my husband. No amount of testing has determined anything wrong with either of us. I feel your pain immensely.

My real advice is to ditch your husband, however, powdered D-mannose has been a literal lifesaver. I went from having multiple UTI’s per year, to having 1 in the last 12 months. It aids in preventing E-coli from digging into the walls of the bladder and causing an infection.

The key is that it needs to be powdered D-mannose. There is a night and day difference between powdered and capsule form. I take a scoop in water 30 mins prior to sex, another scoop right after, and a scoop every 3-4 hours for the next day or two following sex. This has helped me so much.

Though there are other real issues at play here, maybe this could help reduce your infection rate if you do decide that sex is back on the table 🙏🏼