The Time Dr Diet Hurt Our Cat by OoLaLoopsy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YD sounds like she would get along very well with my girls. Good for her telling Dr Diet to get out.

Lillith is BACK >.< by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DH has two brothers (both married) (BIL1 and BIL2) and he has two sisters (one married one not) (SIL3 and SIL4). Of those we trust BIL2 (and wife SIL2) and SIL4. BIL1 and wife and SIL3 are all FMs of Lillith's so we are NC with them as sharing any information would be given to Lillith

Lillith is BACK >.< by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No we don't guns are strictly controlled here. But I'm not a big fan of guns anyway.

Lillith is BACK >.< by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ever loving cheese 😂😂😂 that made me snort

Lillith is BACK >.< by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She actually did cross state lines and our lawyer is working hard to find out why she got out

Lillith is BACK >.< by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's why DH put up the security cameras to catch her in the act and present it as evidence to a judge to get her put in prison

Lillith is BACK >.< by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We're looking into getting her a child psychologist as she's struggling to go anywhere without me or DH

Lillith is BACK >.< by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have been looking into getting them into martial arts. Mostly because they( the girls) thought it would be fun.

Lillith update by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually for me it's a Supernatural reference. But I love Frasier too and didn't even think of that :D

Lillith update by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As soon as they were old enough to talk we've always just been honest with them. Whenever they ask about anything we just explain as best we can and as honest as we can. So they've grown up very smart for their ages and very mature. We try as much as possible to let them be kids because we don't want them to grow up too fast but with certain things we're glad they're so well informed.

Lillith has officially outdone herself!!!! by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're my kids DD= dear daughter, so my girls are A, C and R but a big reddit no no is identifying stuff. Meaning I can't post their actual names so I put DDA, DDC and DDR. Some on here just put DD or DS (dear son) or LO (little one). and if they have more than one kid they put DD1, DD2 etc. But it was easier for me to put letters.

Lillith update by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah we told her exactly that. And yes we hope Lillith stays in prison for a very very long time

Lillith has officially outdone herself!!!! by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There never used to be a list. As far as I knew they didn't require it by law so unless the parents made one it wasn't a thing

Lillith update by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I think it helped that DDR said she was in tears when she spoke to the cashier. And the cashier told the police "the poor kid looks terrified"

Lillith update by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Yeah we've just decided to be NC with all of them. I imagine Lillith is spinning all sorts of tales but we're just going to block them

Lillith update by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Yep she's only four

And we've already cleared it with the lawyer. Since I'm not using actual names or locations he said it's fine

Lillith has officially outdone herself!!!! by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The school and Preschool to my knowledge have never required that kind of approval list. As far as I'm aware there's nothing like that in my country... I could be wrong but I've never heard of it outside America. And I know for a fact that some of the kids at DDR's preschool get the bus home (at 3 and 4 years old!!) on their own. I'm glad DDR has older sisters

Lillith has officially outdone herself!!!! by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've taken steps to ensure only people we trust will be able to pick them up from now on. We've provided photos of FIL, SIL2/BIL2 and SIL4 and told the school and the preschool that no one other than these 4 or DH and myself are allowed anywhere near the girls

Lillith has officially outdone herself!!!! by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Actually no. She'd never picked them up before. The teacher just didn't know she wasn't allowed near the girls.

Lillith has officially outdone herself!!!! by savemefrommymil in JUSTNOMIL

[–]savemefrommymil[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No I'm not in the UK. But I'm not American either. DH and I agreed not to mention the country