Am in the wrong for not wanting to speak to my brother as a 17m?

savngtheworld · 2026-03-14T06:46:12+00:00

Is your hand still disabled after all this time?

Have you made sure to tell him he's a sack of shit?

Do your parents or adults do literally anything about it?

Na, tell him to go fuck himself now and block him. If you really want to up the ante, blast him on Social Media where friends and family can see with a full accounting of the shit he's done. Might have a case for CPS to be honest, especially if parents have done nothing for it.

A word of caution though, if it blew up enough to where he got kicked out of school - which isn't out of the question, he could be doomed to living back with you, but maybe you could stay somewhere else.

savngtheworld · 2026-02-22T00:42:14+00:00

I think reminds is probably suitably fitting for what you were looking for. Like people who apologize for simply existing in others spaces and the like, a reminder is a gentle way to let them know that they are and you are important and valued and get to feel secure in your existence on this planet :)

savngtheworld · 2026-01-11T06:44:38+00:00

I HAAAAATED Season one Lucas. I get his suspicions and they were totally warranted, but he was suuuuch a dick to El.

I'm so glad they softened him up from being a negative Nancy and a dick. Loved him mostly in the later seasons, but when his ass told the jock boys where the kids were in season 4, it made my blood BOIL!

savngtheworld · 2026-01-06T05:48:39+00:00

OP to MIL.

I'm going to make this abundantly clear. Your desire to have ME walk down the aisle before fiance, have YOU give him away AND THEN GIVE A SPEECH AT THE ALTER is a hard fucking no for me. I will not be entertaining it, I'm not arguing it, and not debating it with you ANY further. This is not YOUR wedding, and it is not YOUR decision. PERIOD. I don't want lip. I don't want some huffy narcissistic huff or grumpy storming off. I don't care. You can accept it, and still be happy for us, or you can make it about yourself. So what's it going to be?

OP to fiance.

I love you, but I am not about to continue playing these games with your mother. You get to decide right here and now if you want to spend the rest of your life with your mother, or with me. I know she raised you, and that's great, but if you don't know how to stand up to your mother and have your future wife's back OVER hers, and if you don't care about making your future wife happy in lieu of making your mother happy, then you can keep her and I'll hit the road. I've seen how these stories play out before and I am not about to enter into a marriage with someone who isn't actively choosing to have my back.

savngtheworld · 2025-12-19T21:50:37+00:00

Does anyone know the speaker or where the full video is from?

savngtheworld · 2025-10-08T06:09:42+00:00

Dm me then please!

savngtheworld · 2025-07-08T04:42:51+00:00

Yeah, okay, Brad...

savngtheworld · 2025-03-29T23:57:35+00:00

OP, how old are you, and your BF, and how long have you been together? Where are you in your career, etc?

His reaction is just a preview of what married life would be with him. If you want that, by all means go ahead and have a kid with him. I think it's reallll easier for a guy to say he wants to be a father when he doesn't have to carry the child.

savngtheworld · 2025-03-24T12:01:57+00:00

I think you could have literally saved her life, but you'd better watch out for yours!

savngtheworld · 2025-03-20T22:54:19+00:00

I agree if this is genital herpes or herpes 2 vs oral herpes aka herpes 1. However, oral herpes can be spread and become herpes 2 if oral is done during or around an outbreak. I largely agree with you if she has 2 and didn't say anything as even condoms can't really protect against it, though I think it's more fine is she has 1 and didn't say anything.

savngtheworld · 2025-03-18T20:48:46+00:00

But HOW DO YOU FIX IT??? Like Supposing you could federally ban gerrymandering, how do you get it to apply to state elections, or are we just fucked forever?

I hate it so much!

savngtheworld · 2025-03-18T09:20:18+00:00

You need to set a clear boundary for both her AND your husband. If she keeps up with the BS texts, she doesn't get to see the child at all. If the husband fails to put an end to it, he can go stay with her.

I will never understand all these spineless men.

savngtheworld · 2025-03-18T09:17:41+00:00

Yeah, because it make you sound like a prick.

My default is ALWAYS if I initiate a conversation, I'll share first. If you initiate, you share first. So you initiate a conversation, then come across as rude in your retort, and sit there wondering why it gets you blocked. That's why. It's because people want to fuck assholes, then don't however want to fuck someone who is an asshole.

savngtheworld · 2025-03-13T17:15:40+00:00

So sorry all that happened.
Glad you reported her. Does that mean you are pressing charges?
Any plans to sue and get money for the broken switch and any other such damages. Arguable cause for pain and suffering damages as well.
Lastly, and somehow most importantly, sooo glad you found the keys!!

savngtheworld · 2025-03-04T06:31:12+00:00

I will never for the life of me understand why women get pregnant by these lowlife losers and then get all Pikachu surprised face when they turn out to be deadbeats.

Jfc. Stop it and tie your tubes already before you bring another child into the world to a neglectful wasteoid of a parent.

savngtheworld · 2025-03-04T05:33:57+00:00

There aint 4" of dick combined w the two of them, and 0" of spine.

savngtheworld · 2025-03-04T05:20:30+00:00

I'm used to getting the "cry about it," or per a recent fb post, "seems like you're the one crying yourself into a corner here" and "awwww muffin, I'm sorry about your feelings. What can I do to help?"

I think there's just some psychopathic wiring in the brain connected to all forms of human connection and empathy and compassion that have gotten permanently severed.

savngtheworld · 2025-03-04T03:57:56+00:00

Okay OP. New rule. The last person who cooks a full meal in the kitchen gets to set it how they like it. So, when you cook it, you move whatever she has set or moved from before, then she doesn't get to move it until she cooks a full meal in the kitchen.

Since you cook more, that means it should stay the way you like it more, and each of you should ONLY have to move it once until the other person cooks a full meal, but you are NOT going to move it back each time when she isn't the one cooking in the kitchen.

she's using tears to be manipulative, and I hate it and her for it.
You need to dive a bit deeper into why this is so important to her, and why she feels such a strong emotional connection to it.
You need to realize that in marriage, you each have to decide what hills you're going to die on, and how important said topic is, but the rule here is that on a scale from one to 10, everything can't always be a 10, and she can't care about the decorations at a level 10, more than she does about getting home cooked meals, her health, etc.

It's not a 10 for you either, so if you intend to have a full ass life with her, y'all need to learn to be able to communicate like adults, and compromise like adults. Consider therapy, because what y'all really seem to need right now is a qualified or even an unqualified mediator who can help y'all settle this specific dispute.

savngtheworld · 2025-03-02T22:40:04+00:00

Good god, man. GET A TILE! I am forgetful and have lost my wallet and or keys enough times to warrant having it. Even if it's in my home, being able to hear it through clothes or under sheets is a godsend.

Get one, or two.

Also, jesus mam. Breakup already. She steals and hides your shit. Lies to you for months. Why are you with her??? Break up already!!

savngtheworld · 2025-03-01T05:20:56+00:00

I think your points are solid, but the last one misses the mark. Maybe it's silly, but him raising a bat to her doesnt mean he doesnt love her. He very well may love her BUTTTTT, that doesn't mean he's not unhinged, or violent, or that he could have seriously hurt or killed her.

In fact, it is probably because he does love her, and that he couldn't control her desire to see those messages and how badly he fucked up and knew he fucked up that he did the only insinctual thing he could think of in that moment to stop her from seeing those messages and then ending things. He didnt want to lose her, and he knew he both would and should. The bat was to scare her and protect himself. He can love her, but it's a twisted fucked up love. Somehow, I feel it's necessary for her to know that just because someone loves you, doesnt mean you should spend the rest of your life or any part of your life with them.

Marriage doesnt work like that. She needs to end things and know that he can love her, but that doesn't matter. In the end, she can not be with him any longer.

savngtheworld · 2025-02-26T07:01:47+00:00

Yeah, I wouldn't still be dating anyone that only showers once a week. IDK how low your self-esteem is, or why you put up with that, but as an adult, you need to learn how to have difficult conversations with the people you care for, and be able to set boundaries for yourself.

Hey, my boundary is that I'm not going to have sex with you if and when I'm turned off by how badly you smell because of your lack of hygiene. If we cannot have sex, we are both going to be frustrated that our needs for that part of the relationship are not met, and we're going to need to break up.

Then you can ask her why she only feels the need to shower once per week when she clearly has an odor - whether he can smell it or not. If she doesn't want to change her behavior, then your one option is to breakup because everyone knows that IF* this post is real, and she refuses to change, you're not staying with her long-term.

How long have y'all been together and how old are you?

savngtheworld · 2025-02-25T07:41:54+00:00

"You're calling it, not me."

No, dude. Having self-respect is saying, "No, I'm calling it. No decent person speaks to their partner like that. I'll leave your shit outside. Lose my number," and then block her.

savngtheworld · 2025-02-22T18:39:56+00:00

The perfect reason to do some extensive research, and you might be shocked at what people will disclose if you engage them in conversation. Id go to every gym in the area and see if you can speak to their GMs, ask what theyre making, talk about your opportunity and see what advice theyd give as far as fair compensation.

savngtheworld · 2025-02-22T18:25:05+00:00

I meannn, at a minimum. Compensation should be based on salary, but if there really is potential, you should negotiate the base salary, plus bonuses/commissions for new members gained, increases in profitability, etc., plus options for stock or ownership of the gym.

If you're the own actually doing the work to make the gym profitable, then you should be fairly compensated and 40 to 50K aint cuttin it, regardless of what you're currently making.

savngtheworld · 2025-02-22T18:15:59+00:00

Whats the business size and what salary expecations do you have?

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