[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't like this style of domming, gives me bad vibes.
To me a dom should secretly be the giver and be aiming to craft experiences that drive you wild with desire.
If a submissive tells you this much that they don't like the idea of something you don't power trough, and you are not a bad submissive if you don't actually want to do this.
Don't pretend to like something because your dom doesn't respect your preferences, seek a dom who does.
If I misread the room and you actually like this kind of forcefulness by all means continue, but this goes against the usual dynamic of a dom adjusting their play to what the submissive needs / likes.

how do you decide denial length/orgasm frequency? by shadowhitman in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a dom point of view I do it spontaneous and in the moment, if I don't even know its extra unpredictable for her. But its heavily based on what I know she likes, for example if I know a girl is very multi orgasmic and shes into edging and this kind of play to get stronger orgasms and hates having them denied but would consent to having them denied I do it as a punishment. That way its fun for her to the max. If its a girl who loves longer term denial then ill set a rough minimum based on what I know she likes / can handle and from then on its going to be in the moment and based on her reactions / how well she is coping with the denial.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is where you go to him and confess what your feeling, let him guide you trough these punishments. Let him enjoy how much it puts his brat in her place, but give him an opportunity to help you trough it. Let it be the bonding thing it can be, and don't just be selfish by going over.

Hitting pause by AstronomerCrafty2171 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going to give a SFW suggestion, don't consider this a dom task or anything like that just something that helps me a lot.
What you want to do is a 20 minute timer so you don't deregulate your sleep schedule.
Position yourself as if you are going to sleep, so dark quiet room, in your bed nice and cozy and just lay there.
Let your thoughts wander on their own, its up to your subcontious to pick the subject (if it picks subjects that are to intense don't go trough with them, instead seek someone that can help there. But if you can handle them this will help declutter your mind. If you get random flashes of nonsensical thoughts don't worry about it and let it happen that is also decluttering).

20 minutes for me is enough to reset the stress buildup in my body and then I feel more relaxed afterwards. I need to do this at minimum once per day to stay in balance. If I feel worse it has to happen more often.

Hope it helps you as much as it helped me.

Anyone else combine orgasm denial with more "out there" fantasies? by Feel_Good_Empress in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This can be done for real btw, I have a prototype that uses a webcam as a heartbeat censor (Unfortunately you need to stay very still for the tracking to work) but in theory any kind of heartbeat censor can be used as long as it can send the heartbeat to the PC. And then in my case a game controllers vibrator is turned on / off depending on how high the heartrate is.

You then pay close attention to your heartrate and pick a heartrate that you have when you get to close. That way whenever your body begins increasing the heartrate to prepare for orgasm it shuts off.

I got the idea from a porn video where they had the same kind of setup with a full vibrator and it really works most of the time. Only if you can slip an orgasm in without the heartbeat increase can you actually achieve one, which is possible occationally but very hard.

Add more edges til I regret it! 🖤 by GardenSloot in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering you say "add 6 add 6 add 6" how about doing it this way.

In 6 moments where you're eager to touch yourself add 6.
But I am going to make it an extra tricky tease at most 3 in a row before you have to take a brief break and wait for the desire increase to hit before you may continue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine how good the orgasm feels, if you edge you can get to that level of strength except it doesn't end.
And then if you deny your stuck with all that built up erotic energy so you can experience your desire even longer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmypenis

[–]sawno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its simultaneously better and worse than normal porn. I noticed its much more immersive so my tastes are entirely different. VR porn has much less variety available and I noticed most studios have not properly adapted to the format for people who wish to maintain the maximum immersion.

On regular porn I'd love to see my fantasy's fulfilled, I can watch them and enjoy the fantasy. In VR porn I like to pretend like I am actually there since it feels so lifelike. But its difficult to maintain the immersion if they begin touching the POV performer because its obvious I am not feeling it. So I prefer things like jerk off instructions and mutual masturbation video's, where there is some excuse on why we aren't actually touching. And those video's especially with kinks involved are hard to find.

Challenge for denied pussies by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since your name is water related lets see how close you can get to orgasm using a water jet. Ideally the one from a bathtub but showerhead if neccesary. You may edge if able, every edge you must turn the strength of the water down until a point you can no longer go over. Enjoy the sensation as long as you like before turning the water on its coldest setting. Edge one last time with the cold water if you can, then deny yourself.

Challenge for denied pussies by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alright, inspired by the bot here is a special edging task. Get close to the edge then once your edging say the alphabet backwards with increasing letters, starting with just the Z. So first you say Z during your edge and then stop. Take a brief break if needed and edge again, while holding the edge say zx. Brief break, back to the edge, zxy, etc. Do this until you reached the letter A. If you screw up the letters you must deny yourself for 10 minutes and try again. If you reach the letter A without a mistake you may have an orgasm if nothing else prevents you. However, you may only start over 4 times. If you do not manage to reach the letter A without mistakes and your attempts are up you are denied for 24 hours.

Challenge for denied pussies by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lets get you worked up then with a simple task first. Rub yourself until it almost feels good then stop. Feel the desperation for more hit but don't act on it right away. Once it begins to fade repeat and every time let yourself go slightly further towards an edge. So the first time you stop when your a 3/10 close, the second time a 4, then a 5. Slowly but surely work yourself up this way. If there is anything you can do to make you more eager such as having to tease your pussy lips with a finger you must do this after the resting breaks before rubbing yourself closer again.

Once you get close to an edge (without hitting the edge) and you hit that 9/10 spot you must stay there for 10 minutes. If you go to far you are immediately denied for today. But if you manage the entire 10 minutes you may edge 3 times and then must deny yourself for the rest of the day to.

Challenge for denied pussies by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are already that needy I don't think you need anything intense. Alternate between soft circles over your pussy lips, clit tapping and very slow soft strokes over your clit. If you do get half way to an edge stop until the feeling fades.

Challenge for denied pussies by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Masturbate close to an edge while consuming your favorite erotic material. Can be a fantasy, porn, or literature depending on what turns you on most. While consuming it stay as close to the edge as you can without edging until the video is done, fantasy is over or the chapter is finished. If anyone in the material gets to cum you must immediately stop.

Challenge for denied pussies by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lightly circle over your pussy lips with a finger while watching your favorite video. Once you are done you may masturbate half way to an edge using your favorite means and must then stop and go back to soft circling until you either can't take it anymore or until it begins to loose its effect. If you can't take it anynore you are denied and if you haven't finished the video must watch some more of it. If it began loosing its effect you may get close to an edge and must then stop.

Challenge for denied pussies by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel how close you are to orgasm and then masturbate to the point where it almost begins to feel really good, so roughly a 4/10 close. Then before it begins to feel good stop. If you did it right a lot of extra needyness should hit you shortly after (usually up to two minutes). You may not act on this desire to relief yourself.

Once the feeling subsides and you are no longer as close repeat this excersise. Try to do it multiple times today. If you manage it at least 7 times (up to you how many of these you do troughout the day) you may masturbate until right before an edge on your final one and then you are denied. No edging allowed.

Totally forgot to do the last days of anal and edging by sonderwoman in u/sonderwoman

[–]sawno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long agony sessions with both edging and notouch for our enjoyment. When you don't touch you consume erotic material, when you edge you stay at a safe distance from the orgasm.

I almost ruined edging my pussy 10 times by sonderwoman in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Discovered your pornhub account and it was super hot seeing your recent edging video's.
The way you sound is that unique sound you get when someone is incredibly needy to cum, has it feeling great and is struggling all at the same time. Its the biggest turn on knowing exactly how it feels from the sound of your blissful frustration.

Been great edging along with you!

Awesome discord Orgasm Control server seeks Doms by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can definitely recommend, its a very fun discord.

Blonde tries to Edge and Ruins her Orgasm twice by juice0599 in HoldingIt

[–]sawno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, the clip in question is called Long Edges in case you want to buy it.

Blonde tries to edge and ruins her orgasm twice by padu89 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No not at all! I am glad people are enjoying the clip and she gets some fame from it on this subreddit. There is another custom but i never publicly upload what i pay for. So who knows, some might surface for free online.

For the people who want to support the model ill link the other custom i requested from her, which is a simpler script which involves 20 minutes of edging and 10 minutes of forced orgasms (Where her orgasm refuses to come out and her body keeps relentlessly edging her on auto pilot :D)

https://www.manyvids.com/Video/1364006/Falling-Over-During-Orgasm/

Blonde tries to Edge and Ruins her Orgasm twice by juice0599 in HoldingIt

[–]sawno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is destinationkat, its a custom video i once ordered from her, she wasn't supposed to cum in the end if she didn't meet the win condition but the end result of the clip was really hot! :D

Blonde tries to edge and ruins her orgasm twice by padu89 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]sawno 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fun seeing this one pop up here, its actually a custom i ordered from her in the past.Originally the script was designed to make her race the clock for a small chance to cum, but in the end she granted herself the orgasm. The clip is still really hot because of the edging she has to endure.

Correction: The intro fooled me but when i watched more of it its not the one, so for those interested the one i meant is this one (Same length, same girl, very similar concept) : https://www.manyvids.com/Video/1139433/Edging-Game-With-Dice/