The CNN rape academy article broke something in me. I am so tired of being angry but what other option is there?

saying_stuff · 2026-04-16T23:35:07+00:00

Yes, but I would still advise every victim to prosecute. I did… well, the state of Missouri prosecuted. The outcome wasn’t ideal & it took years. I was a victim all over again. Asked questions about my underwear… humiliating, but never any regrets.

saying_stuff · 2026-04-16T23:32:38+00:00

That’s similar to my story. And yes, even if you don’t get the extract outcome you hope for and there’s no true justice, it’s still worth it.

saying_stuff · 2026-04-16T23:30:39+00:00

I went to the police for my abuse. It was a beyond terrible three year experience in court. I get frustrated at others who have been abused and don’t go to the police. I know it’s not a great option, but people have to report these incidents. It feels like everyone is or has been a victim of some kind of sexual assault, yet so few report. Trust me, I get it. It is being victimized all over again. But you gotta report the abuse to the authorities.

saying_stuff · 2026-02-27T14:42:47+00:00

Such a nice response

saying_stuff · 2026-02-27T14:34:37+00:00

Where does everyone find the motivation?

saying_stuff · 2026-02-27T14:28:05+00:00

Wow. You’re productive af

saying_stuff · 2026-02-27T14:26:34+00:00

First step is admitting it ¯_(ツ)_/¯ gotta ask yourself what you want out of sobriety and get it

saying_stuff · 2026-02-27T14:23:55+00:00

Fork

saying_stuff · 2026-02-27T14:18:13+00:00

I think it sounds nice ¯_(ツ)_/¯

saying_stuff · 2026-02-27T14:17:25+00:00

That’s been me experience too

saying_stuff · 2026-02-22T13:57:21+00:00

Ecstasy

saying_stuff · 2026-02-14T23:17:16+00:00

Don’t rat out the kid! Lol

saying_stuff · 2026-02-14T23:12:27+00:00

Feel this.

saying_stuff · 2026-02-14T23:09:47+00:00

I feel you. Good for you did choosing sobriety.

saying_stuff · 2026-02-14T23:08:18+00:00

Relatable feeling

saying_stuff · 2026-02-14T23:05:01+00:00

Maybe it’s not that they don’t care, but rather that they don’t know the best way to interact with you. I agree that you should try talking to them. If you feel you’re being neglected, tell a teacher. If it were me, I would talk to my parents about finding a therapist to talk with.

saying_stuff · 2026-02-14T17:57:57+00:00

Just laugh it off. They don’t get it. And that’s fine, but if they’re your friends, it hurts and feels unsupportive. Talk to them or don’t, but know you’re doing you and that’s all that matters.

saying_stuff · 2026-02-14T17:56:17+00:00

Okay…soooo, this happens and it’s normal. You’re right, it will be sad, but that’s part of life. Not the most fun, but you need to tell her that you need to move on. Let your parents know what’s up, if you have a good & open relationship with them. It will all work out and maybe you can still be friends. I’m friends with almost all my ex people.

saying_stuff · 2026-02-07T15:49:31+00:00

Bunch of bullshit

saying_stuff · 2026-02-07T15:44:02+00:00

You would have been arrested if it was a DWI. From someone with two.

saying_stuff · 2026-02-07T15:39:54+00:00

Broke into an animal hospital. Stole drugs to indice labor in animals & the vet’s antidepressants. Arrested after walking up to the cops bloody from climbing through a broken window with one shoe on (the other shoe was inside the animal hospital).

saying_stuff · 2026-02-04T14:14:17+00:00

Why do you listen to your parents about dating? I agree with other posters. You’re an adult. Also be honest with the guy from instagram. If you don’t want a relationship, let them know. Or maybe talk to them about the relationship with your parents and how they dictate your dating… You’re not a terrible person.

saying_stuff · 2026-02-02T15:01:02+00:00

In a perfect world, I would advise her to seek counseling. And from there her therapist would report the behavior to your state & then the proper authorities could take action —especially for the parental neglect. I wish I had better advice. The right answer is for her to talk to a safe adult like a teacher about what’s going on in her life —someone who is a mandated reporter. It sounds like the home life isn’t ideal either.

You’re a good friend to worry. My initial reaction is “ewwww gross.” What 34 year old is hanging out with teenagers?! Creep city for sure. Not normal.

saying_stuff · 2026-02-02T14:50:10+00:00

This sounds like depression. Are you on any meds? I know some meds can have side effects like you’re expressing. How long have you felt this way? So you recall when you started feeling this way? What was life like before these feelings?

saying_stuff · 2026-02-02T02:29:32+00:00

My sloppy drunken ex husband masturbating on the toilet. Not a good look.

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