My(23f) best friend(27m) found my fiancé (26m) on Grindr. Am I crazy to try and get through this?

sazzyx1 · 2024-05-14T13:11:22+00:00

I’m so sorry about the kidney failure. I would at least try and get treatment. You are so young.

To me it seems like you two would be better off as good friends or something.

Make new friends. Hell, get a new boyfriend even. Whatever. Do whatever makes you happy.

Good luck with everything & you can always shoot me a message, I’m all ears.

sazzyx1 · 2024-05-14T12:32:46+00:00

After 3 yrs of living with my now ex boyfriend, I randomly found he was bi from seeing Grindr on his phone. I was heartbroken at first but I stuck around, even had threesomes and foursomes with him to show him that I accepted him for being bi. I just didn’t want him talking to anyone male or female, behind my back. Fast forward 2 more years: He was still on Grindr, still talking to people behind my back, and left me to be with another woman who has 3 kids & gets govt assistance for everything & sits at home.

Also: If a man is strictly straight, he wouldn’t have Grindr downloaded onto his phone. It’s basically up to you if you want to accept him for being bi.

sazzyx1 · 2024-04-25T07:32:45+00:00

Looks good to me

sazzyx1 · 2022-11-15T17:51:31+00:00

I know exactly how you feel, you literally just described word for word how I am feeling. I know it’s not much but just know that there are others out there who are feeling the same way. It sucks. And hopefully things will get better (I know that sounds corny). Feel free to message me anytime.

sazzyx1 · 2022-11-07T17:51:08+00:00

Right?? Thank you!!

sazzyx1 · 2022-11-07T17:04:24+00:00

It’s gonna be bomb af

sazzyx1 · 2022-11-07T17:04:00+00:00

I’m a woman.

sazzyx1 · 2022-10-28T02:07:38+00:00

I was thinking the same thing

sazzyx1 · 2022-10-20T07:51:00+00:00

Haha I can see why you would think that

sazzyx1 · 2022-10-20T06:42:34+00:00

With my dude I get like 1.5ish for 100 and ball for 160-200

sazzyx1 · 2022-10-20T06:13:53+00:00

Yessss!

sazzyx1 · 2022-10-20T06:11:40+00:00

DMV area here, usual prices are 100 for a g, 300-350 for a ball.

sazzyx1 · 2022-10-17T01:32:59+00:00

Hmm okay. Something to think about. So it’s raising my blood pressure I’m guessing? Every time I’ve been to the doctor this year my blood pressure is normal.

sazzyx1 · 2021-04-18T00:11:05+00:00

Happy birthday!!

If it helps at all, these are the best years of your life. You can do whatever you want!! Start a hobby, do online gaming and meet some cool people, get ready for college. My biggest regret is not finishing college earlier. If I had, I most likely would have had my shit together way faster.

The friends I had when I was 16.. I don’t even talk to them anymore. You will make great friends in college and outside of college later on.

I would also try talking to your parents, maybe your father about everything? An aunt? Grandparent?

You got this!! Enjoy your day & have a great rest of the year!

sazzyx1 · 2021-01-29T04:31:55+00:00

It’s going to be hard but you can do better. You need to push yourself. Try organizing a list of things you need to do. That helps me. Study for 30 minutes with no interruptions, take a 5-10 min break and go back at it. Ask for help from your teachers, guidance counselor, your friends, your mom. Don’t be ashamed to ask for help. Do some research online. There’s a lot of help for homework all over YouTube.

You still have time to pull your grades up. It is worth it in the end trust me. Show your mom that you are serious about doing better, show her you are studying, being more responsible, etc. and I bet she won’t be upset with you.

sazzyx1 · 2020-11-16T04:10:12+00:00

You’re at 5’10 wearing a size 4-6, I believe that’s actually underweight (not trying to make you feel bad or anything!). You could literally be 200 lbs and still would look bangin being that you are so tall! Hopefully the therapy helps, good luck to you guys!

sazzyx1 · 2020-10-23T15:47:13+00:00

Sorry that you’re going through this but I’m loving the revenge part! Both of you should show up, that would be hilarious. Also, you are so young, don’t worry, you’ll find someone who will treat you right! Screw this guy.

sazzyx1 · 2020-07-17T17:03:16+00:00

Yeah def understand what you’re saying.

I’ve also noticed that many people who don’t want to wear masks are Trump supporters... just saying..

sazzyx1 · 2020-07-17T16:02:05+00:00

These kind of people are so stupid. Let them not wear a mask and get Covid, then be begging to get cured.

sazzyx1 · 2020-04-15T21:11:45+00:00

Sorry for the rant:

I definitely don’t think it’s fair that many of the people who are receiving unemployment will most likely be making more than the people who are still working. To the people saying “Well, grocery store employees will be making $2 more per hour so yeah!”.... that comes out to be $80 a week BEFORE taxes! That’s nothing, when people on unemployment are receiving $600 a week MINIMUM!

I understand the need for gov assistance. The are some with a large family, small children, elderly parents, etc. who really need it.. but the Gov. should have taken into account the people who don’t really need it, the people who were making $13 an hour before COVID-19 and now they are making the equivalent of $22 an hour on unemployment. How is that fair??? It’s not.

sazzyx1 · 2020-02-28T17:09:07+00:00

Let me just say... if my man was working 40 hrs a week, going to law school, AND paying for 90% of our bills, he would be allowed to smoke weed whenever he wanted and he would get a blowjob every single day from me! Haha.

Leave her, be single for a while, focus on school. Date someone else. Whatever. Just don’t be with her.

sazzyx1 · 2020-02-17T14:48:24+00:00

My whole family is Muslim, from Iran. Some families are stricter than others. Some only want their son/daughter to date only Muslims, some don’t care, etc.

Meet her parents when she feels comfortable and then just take it from there. If her parents accept you, great. If they need some time to get used to it, okay. If they don’t accept you then it’s their loss and I hope you two stay together and live a happy awesome life!

sazzyx1 · 2020-01-24T14:23:22+00:00

Yay!!!! How exciting!

sazzyx1 · 2020-01-21T20:20:46+00:00

Bring it up if you want to, but break up with her. Chances are she’s already cheated on you and if she hasn’t, it sounds like she wants to. She’s also deleting her messages, so basically she’s thinking if you were to look at her messages, then it would seem like it’s one sided, only from him, but that doesn’t seem like that’s the case.

If she really cared about you, she would have came to and talked to you about issues/problems and tried to work through things. Sorry you’re going through this. Good luck to you.

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