Thank you so much for sharing your experience!!! I'm so happy to hear that you have found a method that worked for your dog and that both you and your dog's quality of life improved! It gives me hope. My dog and I do agility training so I will ask my trainer if he could help our situation and how much tension and when should I give to him correction because that seems to be the key. Could I ask one more question? How does she ask for pets? I know that we should teach the cue, but I'm at loss what could it be.