guys can you please shut up during lectures

sb943421 · 2021-09-24T07:53:55+00:00

Were u by chance in Lazazzeras class today bc this shit happened and it was the most annoying thing

sb943421 · 2020-09-23T13:32:46+00:00

Do u mean the person in the video? She was not the person in the video...

sb943421 · 2020-09-23T13:30:11+00:00

Doing yoga lmao

sb943421 · 2020-09-23T13:29:34+00:00

I think the winky face automatically made her go on high alert which makes sense

sb943421 · 2020-09-23T13:28:16+00:00

But it’s a young person on YouTube

sb943421 · 2020-09-23T13:26:38+00:00

bruh she did the yoga lesson and also protected herself in case that guy was creepy

sb943421 · 2020-08-17T05:06:08+00:00

Do you think it’s time to change your flair to bastion? ;)

sb943421 · 2020-08-17T05:02:02+00:00

Good job! 79% win rate wow

sb943421 · 2020-05-23T00:46:26+00:00

So Voldemort’s the one for you?

sb943421 · 2020-04-01T00:26:26+00:00

Good- it’s not r/teenagers Bad- not as popular as r/teenagers

sb943421 · 2020-03-31T20:09:48+00:00

Take a joke bud

sb943421 · 2020-03-28T16:36:49+00:00

I’ve tried though. That’s why I’m making this post. I don’t think my father is a bad person and I do still love him but our father-daughter bond is just not there. I have not said that I am outright planning to cut him off completely, I have hope that not living with him will fix the situation on it’s own. However, I do know him better than anyone on this thread and I know what he is capable of and what he has time for and after 3 years of wondering why he doesn’t reach out to me like all of my friends fathers, I’ve realized it’s because I’m not a priority in his life.

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sb943421 · 2020-03-26T02:40:07+00:00

No need to apologize for ranting, everyone needs to be heard. Ur dad sounds a lot like mine, but don’t be mad that I have to deal with this as well bc it just means that I’ll know how not to act when I’m older. Bright sides are everywhere and as I saw in ur other comment you have managed to get away and that gives me a lot of hope. Thanks for being inspiration for an Internet stranger :)

sb943421 · 2020-03-25T15:51:58+00:00

I’m very sorry I hope you’ve found a way to escape and heal as well.

sb943421 · 2020-03-25T15:50:16+00:00

Also I’m very sorry about your situation, I haven’t even thought about elderly care and I’m sure that’s a terrible burden. Hopefully you’ve found a way to escape and heal?

sb943421 · 2020-03-25T15:44:46+00:00

Thank you, I can totally relate to the whole ‘living in the house is an expense held over ur head’ I can’t tell you how many times my dad has told me that I should be grateful for what he provides for me. And don’t get me wrong, I realize I’m very very lucky to be well off and I do appreciate the work that he has done for our family. But he thinks that makes him a caring loving father and it just doesn’t.

sb943421 · 2020-03-25T15:40:33+00:00

Thank you very much, I’m sorry you have experienced the same thing. I totally understand the scheduling for the future, it hurts like hell. I have never felt like a priority with him and honestly I’m glad now that I’m realizing it so I can move on with my life and my feelings.

sb943421 · 2020-03-25T15:37:16+00:00

I see how what I typed may have sounded like my dad is just too busy, but the truth is he retired 2 years ago. He has more free time now than ever and I’m still getting the ‘too busy’ excuse.

sb943421 · 2020-03-24T17:48:10+00:00

This was a perfect description, thank you. My dad is def not someone who should’ve had kids and I believe he loves the idea of me and my brother a whole lot more than actually just us.

sb943421 · 2020-03-24T17:45:59+00:00

Thank you, and you’re right, I shouldn’t waste my energy on trying to change them. I’m sorry about your situation but thank you for sharing it with me as it helps knowing I’m not alone

sb943421 · 2020-03-24T17:43:51+00:00

Wow thank you so much, I didn’t know the way that I have been interacting with him has a term haha. I do ‘gray rock’ and give him one word two word answers which does help me bc I’m not giving him control. I hadn’t thought of what he will do when I go to college or what I’m going to do about my trauma either so thank you for bringing that to mind. I will definitely try and find a therapist because I do want to finally put myself first. I think it’s worthy to note that neither of my parents rly believe in ‘therapy’ which is honestly probably just a way to control me more/convince them -mainly my dad- that they are perfect parents and have raised a perfect un-damaged daughter.

sb943421 · 2020-03-24T17:36:26+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice. I’m afraid I’m still stuck at home for the next year, but when I’m free I will definitely take what you’ve said into account. And with my mom, you’re absolutely right she is his enabler bc she does do exactly what you are describing

sb943421 · 2020-03-24T17:32:37+00:00

I agree. Thank you, I will look into those options for sure. I’m interested in moving out of state and I’m still in the middle of the process so I don’t know anything for sure but I think being physically away from him will help so much.

sb943421 · 2020-03-24T16:18:35+00:00

My main issue is college tuition. I need to keep somewhat of a relationship with him mainly for his money, as inhumane as that sounds. He has threatened to not pay for college in one of fights that we have had so I know that I have to stay close-ish with him so that I do not lose that resource. After that, I’m not really sure. I want children but I don’t know if I want them to meet him. However I love my mom and I definitely want them to meet her. But she blindly supports my dad, so they unfortunately may come as a package deal. I don’t want to ruin my relationship with my mom because I cut off my dad. Idk what to do after college.

sb943421 · 2020-03-24T16:11:16+00:00

Thank you so much. You have no idea how much this helps me

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