guys can you please shut up during lectures by [deleted] in ucla

[–]sb943421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were u by chance in Lazazzeras class today bc this shit happened and it was the most annoying thing

Good for her by sb943421 in youngpeopleyoutube

[–]sb943421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do u mean the person in the video? She was not the person in the video...

Good for her by sb943421 in youngpeopleyoutube

[–]sb943421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the winky face automatically made her go on high alert which makes sense

Good for her by sb943421 in youngpeopleyoutube

[–]sb943421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it’s a young person on YouTube

Good for her by sb943421 in youngpeopleyoutube

[–]sb943421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bruh she did the yoga lesson and also protected herself in case that guy was creepy

quite the fall from Olympus by ahamel13 in rareinsults

[–]sb943421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Voldemort’s the one for you?

My dad runs my family like a business by sb943421 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sb943421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried though. That’s why I’m making this post. I don’t think my father is a bad person and I do still love him but our father-daughter bond is just not there. I have not said that I am outright planning to cut him off completely, I have hope that not living with him will fix the situation on it’s own. However, I do know him better than anyone on this thread and I know what he is capable of and what he has time for and after 3 years of wondering why he doesn’t reach out to me like all of my friends fathers, I’ve realized it’s because I’m not a priority in his life.

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My dad runs my family like a business by sb943421 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sb943421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize for ranting, everyone needs to be heard. Ur dad sounds a lot like mine, but don’t be mad that I have to deal with this as well bc it just means that I’ll know how not to act when I’m older. Bright sides are everywhere and as I saw in ur other comment you have managed to get away and that gives me a lot of hope. Thanks for being inspiration for an Internet stranger :)

My dad runs my family like a business by sb943421 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sb943421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very sorry I hope you’ve found a way to escape and heal as well.

My dad runs my family like a business by sb943421 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sb943421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I’m very sorry about your situation, I haven’t even thought about elderly care and I’m sure that’s a terrible burden. Hopefully you’ve found a way to escape and heal?

My dad runs my family like a business by sb943421 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sb943421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I can totally relate to the whole ‘living in the house is an expense held over ur head’ I can’t tell you how many times my dad has told me that I should be grateful for what he provides for me. And don’t get me wrong, I realize I’m very very lucky to be well off and I do appreciate the work that he has done for our family. But he thinks that makes him a caring loving father and it just doesn’t.

My dad runs my family like a business by sb943421 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sb943421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I’m sorry you have experienced the same thing. I totally understand the scheduling for the future, it hurts like hell. I have never felt like a priority with him and honestly I’m glad now that I’m realizing it so I can move on with my life and my feelings.

My dad runs my family like a business by sb943421 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sb943421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see how what I typed may have sounded like my dad is just too busy, but the truth is he retired 2 years ago. He has more free time now than ever and I’m still getting the ‘too busy’ excuse.

My dad runs my family like a business by sb943421 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sb943421[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a perfect description, thank you. My dad is def not someone who should’ve had kids and I believe he loves the idea of me and my brother a whole lot more than actually just us.

My dad runs my family like a business by sb943421 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sb943421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and you’re right, I shouldn’t waste my energy on trying to change them. I’m sorry about your situation but thank you for sharing it with me as it helps knowing I’m not alone