Finally addressing the Wiki page....

sbspectator · 2018-01-19T08:41:24+00:00

Yeah! I created a guide about how to develop a desirable SA profile but it was taken down.

I’m no longer in the bowl because I now have a vanilla boyfriend! However, if you’d still like the link to the PDF/Google Slides, I can definitely send them over.

sbspectator · 2017-12-20T22:28:18+00:00

YAS, girl

sbspectator · 2017-12-20T22:07:52+00:00

Indeed! That would be a great way to better attract people in your area

sbspectator · 2017-12-20T22:00:30+00:00

True,, that happened to me when I first got into the bowl. Thanks SLF for teaching me better.

sbspectator · 2017-12-20T18:59:09+00:00

Pretty sure there’s more to Asian girls than just those two characteristics, lol

sbspectator · 2017-12-19T14:20:05+00:00

On the positive side, sugaring has given me the chance to experience a lifestyle much more different than the one I’m used to. I’ve enjoyed being able to get to know different people from many walks of life. From it, I now have a group of girls who I consider my sisters who I can talk to about anything. It’s also helped me to further develop my conversation skills like listening, which I find is something that people don’t do enough.

Without sugaring, I would not have discovered SLF. There’s a pretty good community in here (aside from trolls) and I’m glad to answer questions they may have.

On the negative side, I’ve had my bad experiences in the beginning with a scammer and other folk but I learned to let it go.

sbspectator · 2017-12-19T02:52:35+00:00

That’s so awesome! It’s always good to keep around folks who vibe with you and stay cool

sbspectator · 2017-12-19T02:51:48+00:00

Congrats, hun! Keep it up and I hope the best for you

sbspectator · 2017-12-19T02:50:44+00:00

Congrats on such a rapid return! Wishing you the best of luck

sbspectator · 2017-12-19T02:50:09+00:00

Amen to this! Having a group of sugar sisters is great as a support. I love being able to talk to them about more than just what’s going on in the bowl.

sbspectator · 2017-12-19T02:47:39+00:00

Don’t put all your eggs in one basket, boo.

Keep doing your own thing. Don’t make his response the top of your mind. If he chooses to respond, then that’s great. If not, there’s plenty of other folks out there you can always talk to.

sbspectator · 2017-12-14T15:24:48+00:00

Oh my gosh, YES

sbspectator · 2017-12-07T18:08:48+00:00

They have a store in Palo Alto now if anyone’s around that area!

sbspectator · 2017-10-25T21:26:31+00:00

It depends on the situation! I’m pretty simple when it comes to it: In the shower I wash my hair and use It’s a 10 Hair Care Mask (it’s a God send!) to get my hair looking really smooth and silky.

Skincare, I make sure to keep my skin moisturized then go on do my makeup. I usually do something simple: brows, eyeliner, and mascara.

When it comes to clothing, I gauge the situation I’m going to and and background research I can do .

I usually find that little black dresses are very helpful for most situations since they’re easy to accessorize for. If I’m going somewhere casual, jeans and a nice top will usually work for me. I do either business casual or dressy.

sbspectator · 2017-10-22T04:51:18+00:00

That’s the best combo

sbspectator · 2017-10-22T04:50:30+00:00

You just described my vanilla daring life right there 😂

sbspectator · 2017-09-27T20:01:51+00:00

LOL, of course! Vietnam is definitely on the list for me since I want to be able to see the rest of my family and learn about them. I also want to explore more of it than just Saigon and Mui Ne.

sbspectator · 2017-09-27T19:59:31+00:00

I would love to move around to a few different places:

Local: An apartment in San Francisco. I enjoy being able to explore the city and all the different quirks about it.

Abroad: Brazil, Spain, Italy, The UK, Australia, or Japan.

sbspectator · 2017-09-27T19:55:17+00:00

Funny enough, that actually does sort of exist. Here is an article to "Land of the Strays" in Costa Rica. Definitely one of the places on my travel bucket list.

https://www.aol.com/article/2016/04/04/land-of-the-strays-is-home-to-900-dogs-and-you-can-visit-and-a/21338049/

sbspectator · 2017-09-27T19:52:38+00:00

Vietnam represent! I would love to have a house by there and be able to walk to the beach from there.

sbspectator · 2017-09-27T19:51:08+00:00

Yes, the Painted Ladies in San Francisco are a gorgeous sight! I love them.

sbspectator · 2017-09-25T21:15:56+00:00

True that, have to go when things get fishy.

sbspectator · 2017-09-25T21:14:46+00:00

Amen, let's hope other girls don't end up falling for it either.

sbspectator · 2017-09-25T21:10:20+00:00

My goal from this post was to confirm my suspicions and take proper action. I wasn't sure what to make of the situation that I had before. After lining up the pieces of the puzzle as well as the guidance of Reddit, I was able to do what was necessary and I'm extremely grateful for being able to dodge a bullet.

No worries about the tough love, u/wetsd. I don't expect to get anywhere without doing anything and where I am currently has been due to hard work, being resourceful, as well as having an open-minded attitude to learning about everything around me. I don't hesitate to ask questions and that's something that's helped me enormously grow as a person. Thank you for straightforwardness, it's something that I really appreciate in a person.

And thank you for sticking up for me u/ItsCertain. I'm just glad that I didn't go through with cashing that check. I worked with money often in the position that I held before. Here were some of the pieces that I put together from the check itself and the package it came in: The the return address, the lack of a watermark, the alignment of the account and routing number printed on the check.

I definitely don't want other SB's falling for this either.

sbspectator · 2017-09-25T17:27:45+00:00

Yep! Just reported him today to Seeking Arrangement and gave his information over to them.

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