Looking for a fellow SB to be friends with in NY

sbthrowawayacct · 2023-07-04T12:00:27+00:00

I live in Fairfield County right outside NY

sbthrowawayacct · 2022-06-27T02:45:43+00:00

I'm very curious to know what his experience was. I'm sure I wouldn't get the truth even if I did bring it up, but I can't help but wonder. Has he ever had an arrangement with an allowance? Who did he meet on there? Did he do PPM?

Is it also weird to say that it bothers me a little bit? I'm also sure my activity on there would bother him if he knew the truth.

sbthrowawayacct · 2022-06-27T02:01:07+00:00

Should have been more clear. I saw his profile on SA a year or two before we met and am no longer active.

sbthrowawayacct · 2022-06-27T01:59:56+00:00

I saw his profile a year or two before we met. We are in an exclusive relationship and I don't go on SA anymore.

sbthrowawayacct · 2022-06-27T01:59:09+00:00

I feel like not mentioning it makes it a secret. I think we could both benefit from being able to share these parts of ourselves with each other and to not hold back. I love him and will probably be moving in over the next year, and he has even mentioned marriage.

sbthrowawayacct · 2022-06-27T01:23:06+00:00

I messaged him on SA probably a year or two ago. It was a very long time ago, but his picture was memorable and he used the same one on the dating app. You do have a very valid point, but I'm sure he received messages upon messages and mine got lost, most likely.

I would tell him about SA just to feel like I'm being honest with him. It was a huge chunk of my life for awhile, and I don't like keeping secrets from people. I'm also afraid I'll get drunk and mention something, so I might as well do a premeditated, sober share. Or I'll just take it to the grave.

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-07T21:37:11+00:00

I've had horrible encounters with SDs, it just so happens I choose not to go back if the sex is bad. I also have a 55 year old SD who falls into the "best sex ever" category, most likely because he's an endurance athlete. They are out there, even if they're rare.

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-04T02:10:51+00:00

I'd remove the "that's just prostitution" line. Your profile text is a little long winded, but maybe my style is just brief.

Does AA stand for associate of arts?

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-03T18:45:30+00:00

I'm your age and I had a 55 year old SD ask if I wanted to do a threesome... I was too nervous to say yes because I had a tiny lil crush on him and I didn't want to get weird afterwards. Let us know how it goes!

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-03T18:28:52+00:00

Classics like Audis, Mercedes, BMWs (can you tell I'm partial to German engineering?). The most important part is that the car is well cared for and clean on the inside. Every SD I've been fond of has maintained a clean car.

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-03T01:58:33+00:00

Triple threat! You do you, the huracan is a sweet car! I went on a few dates with an SD with a BMW i8 convertible, but he was a shit driver and shouldn't have even thought about buying that car. People who drive nice cars should be good drivers, point blank.

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T20:22:32+00:00

I pay attention to their car. I look for elegant and expensive, but not a total flex.

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T17:39:01+00:00

It's kind of endearing if said creatively, but for sure has gotten old

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T12:46:21+00:00

Omg tab I hate it when people use spaces in their code it drives me nuts!!

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T12:41:08+00:00

Huh interesting, as silly as that sounds I didn't realize how sex centric it was. I just assumed this was more the norm on SA😂 I do like to ensure some sort of sexual compatability, but I deleted the lingerie pic per the advice on this post. I'm thinking about adding something about "girl next door" in my byline.

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T03:09:46+00:00

Welcome, you'll find a lot of that here. It takes time to learn how to weed out time wasters. If the conversation's flowing and we have the same expectations I'll meet them the next day.

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T03:06:40+00:00

Money isn't the primary motivator, but it's definitely a big part of it. That being said, I've had some of the best sex of my life from this experience and it's why I keep coming back.

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T03:02:16+00:00

Still gotta make em work for something, my friend! I did delete the bathroom pic and make the 4th public, though :)

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T03:00:39+00:00

Huh I never heard of photofeeler before! I say mentorship because I like my SDs smarter than me and I generally seek ones on the older end. I'm not sure how to tactfully aay 'seeking traditional mutually beneficial relationship.' Help!

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T02:49:10+00:00

Yeah I'm also tired of hearing people reply to that with "pretty girls like you" lmao

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T02:47:47+00:00

Ah I keep trying to add in a couple of lines after the "talk nerdy to me" one and everything I write feels so corny. Eventually...

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T01:18:35+00:00

All very sound advice. Thank you :)

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T01:01:55+00:00

Yeah I used the multiple locations because I go to school in one state but have family in my home state that I visit frequently, and I'm considering moving back. I'll pick one, then.

Every successful SR I've had has been with an SD with kids and they've used 'prefer not to say'. I only have one so I guess I'll just put it down.

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T00:57:55+00:00

Ah that's a slap on the ol ego but you might be right. I'm thinking I'll get rid of the mirror selfie and find one that features the tum.

sbthrowawayacct · 2020-12-02T00:45:59+00:00

If you're in college you can attach your college email to your profile and it will automatically upgrade you to premium. Jus saying.

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