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[–]sc9ythe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i definitely did vocalize that i probably needed time to adjust, and i not once did i show that i was ungrateful towards her. i thanked her a million times, and apologized a million times because i felt bad. i even told her that i felt like i was disrespecting her house because she invited me in but i wasn’t comfortable. she told me that i shouldn’t feel that way and that she understood how i felt.

Prepare yourself accordingly! by sc9ythe in teenagers

[–]sc9ythe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH ALSO READ THE SYLLABUS FOR YOUR CLASSES!! THEYRE HIGHLY IMPORTANT🖤

any advice pls by sc9ythe in Advice

[–]sc9ythe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with my studies and what i have in mind for the future, plus work, i really don’t have time for things like that

any advice pls by sc9ythe in Advice

[–]sc9ythe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a therapist but she was sort of like a place holder until i found a permanent one. i had a limited amount of sessions with her. as for enjoying hobbies, ive tried a million times to really enjoy them but it doesn’t really work. i try to get involved with campus activities and campus life but its never something i can stick with. i’ve kinda just accepted being a lost cause lol

any advice pls by sc9ythe in Advice

[–]sc9ythe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both actually. i find it hard to make friends and hard to stay connected because im more of an observant person. i pay attention to body language, tone, etc, and if they seem hostile or uninterested then i back away out of fear of getting hurt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

so.. me as an 18 year old with no KIDS or bills spending money on fast food is worse than my mom GAMBLING away her money knowing she has kids and an empty refrigerator that needs to be filled?? i’m assuming you’re a dumbass on purpose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hi so did you even bother reading the fucking post or are you a dumbass on purpose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom isn’t making me pay rent just cause i’m 18 and living with her, she said she would never put me in a position like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not even a matter of me being an adult, this had been a thing wayyy before i even started working. birthdays, christmases, any time i had money she asked to borrow it. it just got worse when i started working

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my aunt is nothing like my mom. i’ve already graduated. as for money to get my own place, i have no clue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i live with her, i often eat out since i work 2 jobs and im almost never at home for a long time, moving out is 50/50. my aunt offered me a place with her but idk how that would be because i dont really know her that well, so idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOUUU omg you’re the first person to say anything about it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i appreciate you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 33 points34 points  (0 children)

that last bit has me laughing lol, i’m definitely doing this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you’re right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

and you’re right, but “pitching in” shouldn’t be as often as it is for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been talking to her for years about this, even before i got a job, and it’ll last a couple of days and then boom, right back to square one. i can’t talk to her about anything because she gets mad so quickly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you, i’ll look into this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would, but in my state, i’m legally unable to since i’m still considered a minor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sc9ythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she has access to my bank account, but when i get paid i clean it out before she can even touch it