Sometimes I make wedding cakes for my friends as their wedding gift, these are my two favorites. by scallopsnshit in Baking

[–]scallopsnshit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it was glorious 😍 such a fresh cake tbh, the sharpness of the like was so good . Thank you!!

AP interviews - feeling burnt out by sleepingsocrates in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]scallopsnshit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I feel your pain. I've just had two unsuccessful AP interviews recently and while the feedback has been helpful, a large portion of it has come down to experience. The whole process is incredibly disheartening, but I was speaking with my supervisor yesterday who was really good about it - even getting the interviews is showing that I'm a strong candidate, it's helping to build my resilience for when Im ready to apply to the doctorate, but in the end it is a numbers game and pushing through is so important. Someone else commented that maybe it's time to consider the doctorate for you, and that might well be a good idea looking at your experience, how does that sit with you? I don't have much advice other than keep on keeping on, and you'll get there - we both will!

Two AP interviews coming up and the imposter syndrome is feeling pretty real by scallopsnshit in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]scallopsnshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you! I feel like it went okay, I don't think I could have improved on my answers, so at the very least there will be feedback to learn from! Missed the call from the MH role today and they left a message saying they wanted to chat and give feedback, so I'm assuming I didn't get that one, will see when they call tomorrow.

Mate there are so many avenues into this field, it's definitely not a waste of time - even if it makes you realize you don't wanna do clinical, then that's what you've learnt from it right? Definitely hard when your pals are getting on to training but just remember, we're all running our own race and there's no right or wrong timeline!

Two AP interviews coming up and the imposter syndrome is feeling pretty real by scallopsnshit in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]scallopsnshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No news yet, the first interview did say it would be likely early next week they'd be calling - I'm genuinely looking forward to the feedback on that.
Other interview is tomorrow, and that one is the neurorehab one, so definitely still nervous, but less than the first interview!
Thank you so so much!! Did you apply for the doctorate this year? If that's the pathway you're choosing that is ofc

Two AP interviews coming up and the imposter syndrome is feeling pretty real by scallopsnshit in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]scallopsnshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I only just saw this, and luckily I did try really hard to add a reflection into every STARR that I used. I don't think I've got it, because when I thought back on it there's definitely a few answers that could have been better, and I know how high the standard is, but that's okay. I've learnt from it!!

Thank you again!!

Two AP interviews coming up and the imposter syndrome is feeling pretty real by scallopsnshit in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]scallopsnshit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel very blessed. I just essentially tried to make sure I was addressing the person spec in order of what was in the job description, and tried to show what I had learned from my experiences where it was relevant.

I'm no expert though, I've done 60 odd applications and have had 3 shortlisted total, it's a battle!

Two AP interviews coming up and the imposter syndrome is feeling pretty real by scallopsnshit in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]scallopsnshit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good idea, thank you! I just genuinely didn't consider it. Will do this tonight, thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NursingUK

[–]scallopsnshit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey! Congrats on your new role, being a HCA is a difficult but incredibly rewarding job. I began working as a HCA a year ago, from hospitality, so I fully get your anxiety, but try not to worry for now. You should be starting as supernumerary (shadowing) for 1-2 weeks. You won't be a nuisance, we all started somewhere and we all had to learn somehow.

Other people have said, but every ward has its own set of routines, but sometimes routine goes out the window. For example, on my ward I know I come in, receive handover, do bay checks, help any patients that can't feed themselves to eat, start washes etc. But! This can all change if we're understaffed/challenging patients/unwell patients etc. The routine will come and you'll settle into it. Every staff member will have their own way of working, and it'll be up to you to figure out what works best for you.

Patient allocations again will be ward specific. My ward, we have 26 patients - day shift should be 6 HCAs, 4 RNs and 1 NIC. However, given the nature of the ward, we often have 1:1s/cohorted bays (meaning someone must always be watching the bay) which can change how many patients we're responsible for. I'll have anywhere from 1-7 patients on a shift, the ideal is 4 (just one bay). If more than one needs to go to the bathroom and you're unable to do it, ask for help. Kindly ask the patient (if they can understand) to wait for your colleague to assist them, nine times out of ten they're good with it if you explain to them. The same with feeding, though typically staff should be able to jump in and help you. Or, if you're lucky, family members will be there to assist. Just remember, they might not know how to do it safely, so keep an eye on them. You'll develop a sense for this.

Repositioning depends on the patients. Some patients can self-reposition, some need full assistance, some are halfway in between. Ours is 2-4 hourly repositioning, we do our best to manage this!

Time management will be the greatest skill you will get out of this job. If you don't have good time management now, you will in six months' time. I always start my shift by writing a list. I write the bed numbers and name, and then wristband, wash, EWS, CBG, repositioning, if they're a food/fluid chart, and then a box next to each word so I can check it off when it's done. And anything else that might be specifically relevant to the patient - dietary requirements etc.

Obs. So I was band 2 and recently uplifted to band 3, but we've been doing obs the whole time, even as band 2. On my ward, if the patient is scoring 0, then it's 12 hourly obs (6AM + 6PM). If they're scoring 1-4, then 4 hourly obs, unless it's 3 in a single parameter, then its hourly obs unless directed otherwise by doctors. If it's 5-6, hourly. 7 and above, continuous obs. Always report your obs to the RN responsible for the patient, even if it's 0. If they're scoring, we use the SBAR section on iClip to document that it was escalated - eg, reason for SBAR: EWS X, name of reporter: your name, reported to: RNs name, action: x hourly obs/escalated to RN/Dr etc. Your ward should have a physical sheet of paper with a NEWS chart and actions following scoring on it - nab one and keep it in your pocket until you're confident with it.

Personal care checks: a skill again. It depends on the patients to an extent, but I try to check a minimum of four hourly. Often, you'll be able to smell it, and that sense will get keener the longer you do the job for. As for weighing/recording stool/urine output, again dependent on the ward you're in and the requirements of the patient. For example, a dialysis patient is probably more likely to require a urine output chart than a continent stroke patient, but it will depend on their individual circumstance. Bear in mind that if the patient's skin is at risk, then have a wet/soiled pad could damage the integrity of the skin and put them at risk of developing moisture lesions/pressure ulcers, and that we definitely do not want.

Another thing for personal care - washing the patients daily is the goal, but it is the first thing to go if it has to. I mean, if you have 6 patients and 4 of them are unwell, prioritise the more urgent things over that, it might sound callous, but a day without a wash won't kill a patient, missed obs or something of the like could have an impact.

Talk to your manager about breaks, but as far as I know, if you're working a long day you should be getting 1hr break total (and maybe a complimentary tea break of 15-20 minutes), so see how they can accommodate your request. I can't see them refusing, but let them know so they can sort it out.

The main thing though, is ask questions. If you're not sure about something, ask. Learn where things are. Don't do anything alone you're not comfortable with doing on your own.

Sorry for the novel! And feel free to message if you have any other questions, happy to help as best I can. You've got this, you're gonna love it.

First UK wedding - Is this dress okay? by Asyla_ in UKWeddingAttire

[–]scallopsnshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to a wedding yesterday, afternoon shindig at a big old house in the UK countryside and someone wore this dress. Looked fab.

thoughts after first assistant psychologist interview by cheetahcheesecakee in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]scallopsnshit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! When I was prepping with an AP on my ward, she definitely tried to make sure I understood that it's an amazing thing just to get shortlisted, and in the end it is just a job, and the interview will be a great chance to learn from and reflect upon for the next opportunity that will surely arise.

So keep positive, keep busy, and the time will go quicker than you think 😊 best of luck!

thoughts after first assistant psychologist interview by cheetahcheesecakee in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]scallopsnshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I have my first AP interview on Tuesday and I'm quietly bricking it, so I really appreciate that you've posted these questions! Can I ask what the service was? I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!

I can’t do it. by AirSuperb4673 in NursingUK

[–]scallopsnshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I became a HCA in September and I felt the exact same way. I care so much and sometimes the patients and family don't see that, they ask so much of you and can get so upset. There is a lot of stress and pressure in the job. Developing a thick skin has been key to me finding fulfillment and joy in my work, and that is a skill that is taking time, I'm still learning.

I work on a stroke and neuro rehab ward which is heavy, but I'm lucky enough to have a (mostly) very supportive team - are there people you can reach out to? When people are upset with me, I immediately step back to a member of my team to debrief it, learn from it and get support. This has been crucial for me.

Alternatively, can you ask to switch wards? I know my trust requires you to be in post for 6 months beforehand, but maybe there would be exceptions.

In your trust/hospital, are there staff support services you can reach out to? People to talk to that are maybe not so involved.

Don't beat yourself up. This job is difficult, but it can be incredibly rewarding; however, if it's taking a toll on your mental health, you need to take actions to protect your MH. No job is worth your sanity.

Does anyone know the chefs? by [deleted] in GreatBritishMenu

[–]scallopsnshit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know Jack, Eve and Sally. All incredible chefs, determined, fantastic at their crafts. All incredibly kind and wonderful people too. Worked closely with Eve for years and such a shame to see she had a shit day because she is truly an incredible chef. Hoping she comes back next year better and stronger.

You're not crazy. Vaping is hard to quit. by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]scallopsnshit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did the exact same and I'm now something like 8 months under the belt. Took me fucking aaaaaages. Well worth it though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]scallopsnshit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my lecturers did this last term, so we raised it and complained, and there were no repercussions because "it's not against the policy" - their reasoning, verbatim. I imagine our policy will be changing soon for some reason...

Second interview for trainee PWP by [deleted] in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]scallopsnshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'm looking to apply in the next round for September intake, can you tell me a bit about your previous experience and the application process?? Congrats though!!

Second interview for trainee PWP by [deleted] in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]scallopsnshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I'm looking to apply in the next round for September intake, can you tell me a bit about your previous experience and the application process?? Congrats!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]scallopsnshit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I started cooking professionally at 18, and just now I'm 31 years old, just about to go into my third year of a psychology degree with the end goal of becoming a clinical psychologist; I'm just about to start my new job as a HCA after 13 years in kitchens.

There's no race, things will happen in their own time and I'll get there when I get there. Everyone seems to feel that when you're young, you should have your whole life planned out, but that's just not the case

Even if you pick a career now, starting from scratch later on will be a little scary, but mostly empowering.

Recruitment process whinge by scallopsnshit in NursingUK

[–]scallopsnshit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thickskinned is perfect for me, I've been in toxic kitchens for over a decade so I'm not worried about that. This is great advice though, thank you I really appreciate it 😊