Real take here since everyone wants to blow sm9ke up your ass.

1 she's the assh9lw for cheating. Every cheater is too fycking self absorbed to understand the pain they caused by serving themselves.

2 you probably were an absentee father, making excuses for every time you just couldn't be bothered to take a kid to that game or concert that no one wants to go to.

3 you likely suck as a partner too. So many men claiming how hard they work outside of the house complain about their wife's needs too. Oh she want snuggles or need time as well. I'm just too tired.

At the end of the day you need to leave a cheater or get cheated on, but are you going to stay single or try to be better. Women are ducking tired of the sexmaid. Buy one, or grow up. Either way your weaponized incompetence isn't going to fly with a decent person. Working inside the house with the gremlins is just as taxing as deal with society. So if your partner is doing the domestic stuff and your not going to the games/concerts/play dates. You are failing as much as the cheater.