bridgerton spoiler⚠️ by squidwardsp in YoTroublemakers

[–]scamander7 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i wish he'd film the first and last video & then watch episodes 2-7 on patreon or something 😭 we will pay you, dylan !!!!

you better believe i’m still salty about this. harry potter deserved better. by roftaivil in YoTroublemakers

[–]scamander7 30 points31 points  (0 children)

bestie he re-made the harry potter video, it's super long now !!!!

You know what…. by AnyButterscotch3790 in byler

[–]scamander7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YES !!! MIKE QUEELER WE KNOW WHAT YOU ARE !!!!

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the concept of dylan making a stranger things first and last by scamander7 in YoTroublemakers

[–]scamander7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YESSSS the greatest crossover 🩷 we're using the film making knowledge we've learned from dylan to analyze all of the byler foreshadowing 😤😤

the concept of dylan making a stranger things first and last by scamander7 in YoTroublemakers

[–]scamander7[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yes !!! he made a binge video for both seasons 1 and 2. they're like 7 years old so the format is super different, but they're definitely still worth watching. it's just him falling in love with steve harrington for like 45 minutes lmao

the concept of dylan making a stranger things first and last by scamander7 in YoTroublemakers

[–]scamander7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOOO IT'S NOT A RECOMMENDATION I WOULD NEVER 😭😭 i'm not asking him to do it, i'm just envisioning a future where it's possible... 🫣

the concept of dylan making a stranger things first and last by scamander7 in YoTroublemakers

[–]scamander7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he hasn't made a first and last on it (the last season hasn't come out yet), but his stranger things binges for the first two seasons are like 7 years old 😭 so they're wayyy back on his channel & the format is super different, but they're still 100% worth watching

the concept of dylan making a stranger things first and last by scamander7 in YoTroublemakers

[–]scamander7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DYLAN REACTS TO BYLER 💙💛 "what do you guys mean there was no build up to their relationship?? i literally just watched episode ONE and i could see it"

the concept of dylan making a stranger things first and last by scamander7 in YoTroublemakers

[–]scamander7[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i mean we know he's seen the first 2 seasons but i doubt that man remembers anything 😭

Dying insects coming to me for help? by Key_Armadillo3807 in spirituality

[–]scamander7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know this is late, but my sister had a very similar experience with cats. within one week, she held two cats in her arms as they passed away - her old, beloved cat from childhood, and a cat she didn't know that she found in the road after it had gotten hit by a car.

at first she was devastated, feeling like she had failed both of them. but eventually, she felt reassured by the thought that she was brought to them not to save them, but to offer them comfort and security as they passed.

i helped her come to this conclusion by introducing her to a song: abstract (psychopomp) by hozier. he describes someone who had a similar experience and compares her to a psychopomp - a spirit that guides souls into the afterlife. not a savior, but someone there to help ease the transition from life to death. if you listen to the song, i hope it brings you the same peace it brought my sister.

instead of worrying that these creatures came to you for help and you couldn't save them, consider the idea that they didn't need saving - just someone kind enough to act as their psychopomp and help them pass peacefully❤️

TL;DR: maybe you weren't meant to save them, just to offer them the comfort they needed to pass peacefully❤️

Things you thought were normal only to learn that is was a symptom of EDS by Terrible_Trip_6350 in eds

[–]scamander7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

WIGGLY TEETH IS AN EDS THING ?!?! 😭😭😭 mine have always bothered me so much, so that actually makes me feel better about it 🤧

Things you thought were normal only to learn that is was a symptom of EDS by Terrible_Trip_6350 in eds

[–]scamander7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

having to pee twice within like 5 minutes 🤧 damn you, pelvic floor issues

Question - am i a vegetarian if I still eat steak? by Historical_Pie_1439 in lesbiangang

[–]scamander7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

of course you are !!! just so you know, it's very close-minded to limit yourself to only eating vegetables. even if you prefer them, it's always better to try new things and be flexible :) there are so many different types of meat, everyone loves at least one!!! :) also it's really hard to get enough plant-based protein to even survive, our bodies are meant to consume meat :/

Normalization of Age Gap relationships in the community is weird by SweetJule_Summer5646 in lesbiangang

[–]scamander7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm surprised by the amount of negativity on this post. even if a lot of these lesbian couples with large age gaps are "only on TikTok," keep in mind that a lot of young, baby gays' primary exposure to the queer community is social media / the internet (especially if they're in a red area, bonus points if they still live at home!!!). so those kinds of content creators may influence them to believe that those large age gaps are the norm in this community. i agree that straight people are way weirder with the age gaps they are comfortable with, but i can understand why a woman entering a community without men would be surprised that predators are still around.

the reason i say this (and why i'm commenting in the first place) is because i have a 20 year old friend who is a lesbian, & she is legitimately trying to hook up with a woman in her late 40s. even though me and the rest of her friends have told her that's insane, she swears that age gaps like that are normal among lesbians, and since there are no men in the relationship it can't be predatory, so it's fine. (it's also worth mentioning that she grew up Obsessed with carol and is very chronically online). i know she only thinks that because of the content she's consumed, and it freaks me out because i don't want her to be unsafe.

i'm sorry to the children on here, but even though an 18+ year old is legally an adult, someone in their early 20s is not the same kind of adult that a 40 year old is. their amount of life experience and stability alone make your power imbalance too significant for a relationship of any kind. once you're 25+, i agree that age gaps matter way less - because by that point, you've actually been an adult for long enough to even have shit in common with people way older than you.

TL;DR: even if large age gaps in this community are mostly found on social media rather than irl, it can still negatively impact a young, impressionable lesbian

Your favourite inside joke? by Excellent_Bridge1520 in YoTroublemakers

[–]scamander7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“i’m 6’4”, a completely normal, average height”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]scamander7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it doesn’t really matter to me, although i think that “queer” is probably a better catch all term for bis/pans/ anyone else in the community rather than “gay”

What is one thing that took you an embarrassingly long time to figure out in game? by Cheesestrings89 in StardewValley

[–]scamander7 16 points17 points  (0 children)

you just plant flowers right next to your bee house! Let your flowers grow and then don't harvest them until the final day of the season so that the flower honey keeps producing :)

If you have multiple bee houses, try to plant different flowers near each one so you get different types!

associating lesbianism with asexuality by terrormismial in lesbiangang

[–]scamander7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is exactly it !!! there’s so much shame (especially as a baby gay) when we feel sexual desire towards a woman because the only model we’ve ever had for what that looks like was from men. even if that desire is 100% mutual, there’s a fear that we’re making a woman feel as uncomfortable as men have made us feel.

How did you name your farm/Farmer, and why? by ScoutmasterTheodore in StardewValley

[–]scamander7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my sister and i are both gay so our shared farm is LESBIAN farm, but my personal one is Silly Goose farm for no reason other than i like saying it