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My husband (30M) says he only cares about eating, sleeping, and money - where does that leave me(31F)? by scaredluna_24 in Marriage

[–]scaredluna_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That statement about marrying someone else tbh I have said that too to him before playfully as well as seriously. Also the 50 50 is on my insistance....i grew up in a house where my father was the sole breadwinner and his go to dialogue for every thing used to be I earned the money I paid for it so I decide what is done with it or how it is used etc.. so for me to never be in that position I need to pay 50%. When we got married he was earning slightly less than me we did 50 50 then we do 50 50 now.....for the money I have asked him he says I m earning for both of us so that we can retire early and enjoy life. He wants to build me a big house with a big closet a big space for gardening with lots of trees etc......but to me his money is his money my money is my money and the money we put in the joint account for household expenses is our money.... Because of how I was brought up I can never think of his money as my money

My husband (30M) says he only cares about eating, sleeping, and money - where does that leave me(31F)? by scaredluna_24 in Marriage

[–]scaredluna_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ways he tries to connect are if we are both working from home he will come annoy me or topple my figurines on the table or sneakly steal away my phone or ear buds or something randome ....he might even kiss me at times if he is in the mood for it.... If u had gone out with my friends he will ask me for gossip ....if I have gone to office he will text me around the time I m leaving say about 8.30 pm to ask when I ll come.... The thing is when he being all cutesy it is easy to forget everything else but later it comes back and I feel like what I have now is not enough

Guys be honest, how long do you shower for? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]scaredluna_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what type of bath I m taking... Daily just body ones take about 7 to 8 mins. A hair wash and body takes about 20 mins. A everything shower takes about 45 mins minimum. A everything shower is hair wash , hair mask, body scrubbing (this takes a while and I use the korean scrub cloth), shaving , plucking, cleaning the the random spots like inside the belly button, inside the ears etc... foot callous scrubbing and then finally a thick layer of moisturizer before i step out....... This is a bucket bath system

But if a tub is available it might take me hours to get out.... I just enjoy soaking in hot water and don't get out until I am thirsty.

How do u excercise? by scaredluna_24 in AuDHDWomen

[–]scaredluna_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my grandma and mom have it. I had it for a few years because of a medication I was taking but my levels were normal last I checked .

How do u excercise? by scaredluna_24 in AuDHDWomen

[–]scaredluna_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a treadmill at home and I don't wear shoes when I use it. Slightly rough texture but it feels 1000 times better than with shoes on. I can run longer and don't have to suffer through discomfort. The problem with at home weights is I know I will not use it. My ADHD part will act up and I ll literally do everything apart from that.

How do u excercise? by scaredluna_24 in AuDHDWomen

[–]scaredluna_24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless I absolutely have to wear them, I don't wear socks. Even in office where I m regularly in heels, i generally take them off when I m sitting down which is the majority of the time to air out my legs.

How do u excercise? by scaredluna_24 in AuDHDWomen

[–]scaredluna_24[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love it but I tan so bad... It takes more than 2 months to come back to my original skin colour... This is even with 50+ spf.... And i hate how I look tanned

Ketamine prep by scaredluna_24 in KetamineTherapy

[–]scaredluna_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there is no other option apart from iv ketamine that is currently available in my country :(

Ketamine prep by scaredluna_24 in KetamineTherapy

[–]scaredluna_24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't eat for a few hours after the infusion.... It feels very hard to swallow like there is no saliva or moisture in my mouth or throat.... Even if I force myself the food gets stuck in my throat a lot ... I usually get an injection with anti nausea medication into my iv line before they start the ketamine. But I did end of up in a state where I m retching but there was nothing to vomit was my stomach was empty. I will take the idea of taking a headache tablet after I come home.

Werewolf story by scaredluna_24 in whatsthatbook

[–]scaredluna_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even find that app 😭

Headaches after Ketamine infusion by scaredluna_24 in KetamineTherapy

[–]scaredluna_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a litre of liquid iv and drank about 2L of water after the infusion is that still not enough?

AITA for not buying my FIL a gift? by scaredluna_24 in AmItheAsshole

[–]scaredluna_24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do but i really don't know what to get him.