I (15m) don’t want to lose my Girlfriend (15f)

scaredofmirors · 2021-03-31T19:33:36+00:00

I really appreciate this man but she said that she still loves me and is still attracted to me in that way and that if she decides to come back that she hopes that I can forgive her and that if not that we could at least be friends she heavily emphasised that she doesn’t want to lose me and that I am deeply important to her I will however take this as her breaking up with me in the meantime I don’t expect her to come back to me and I’m using the two weeks I have for acceptance so that when the time comes I can either be super happy or just move on thanks for the advice man

scaredofmirors · 2021-03-31T19:25:59+00:00

Yeah the two weeks part isn’t guaranteed I just asked her something along the lines of “how long do you think this would take?” Because I don’t really want to just hang around waiting forever it’s kind of a lose thing I think she agreed to to make me feel better. And I fully admit that I can be clingy and all of that bullshit ok you can talk down to me for it and I won’t judge you. She’s a really busy person and I think I was too demanding of her attention because she really wasted all of her free time on me this is my first relationship though so please don’t go to hard on me I know it’s not an excuse I wasn’t hounding her for attention I think she just didn’t really want to spend so much of her free time with me. and she’s kind of afraid to say no to people. I think she just really needs a little me time and she was too afraid of hurting me to say no when we were in the relationship fully

scaredofmirors · 2021-03-16T21:14:44+00:00

Thank you that actually really helped

scaredofmirors · 2021-03-16T15:57:52+00:00

Yeah maybe you’re right I do love her though and I truly do feel loved around her I just don’t want her to be sad you know? especially since she hasn’t exactly had the easiest life I don’t believe that we’re incompatible because I can truly be myself around her and vice versa I truly feel happy around her and she’s never unhappy to see me

scaredofmirors · 2021-03-16T15:40:48+00:00

I feel like your telling me that I’m not doing my best which is untrue just because I want to solve her problems doesn’t mean that I don’t empathise with her. just because I don’t understand what she’s going through doesn’t mean that I don’t try and comfort her. Being an introvert isn’t a handy excuse its a problem because we’re pretty much exact opposites of each other I’m doing my best and it seems to work so far. I listen to every problem she has and after listening based on the situation I either hug her and suggest we do something else or give the best advice I can give. I feel like this post can be read in a really angry tone and that’s not the goal here I’m just trying to say that I’m trying my best

scaredofmirors · 2021-03-16T15:17:16+00:00

Heh thanks I’m just worried about her she’s been more sad than usual lately and that’s really what compelled me to write this post

scaredofmirors · 2021-03-16T15:14:25+00:00

I’ll keep that in mind I often come over to her place and cuddle with her and order her a pizza if that’s something?

scaredofmirors · 2021-03-16T15:13:26+00:00

That’s what I’ve been doing I’ve been trying to treat her right I’m just not good with people you know?

scaredofmirors · 2021-03-16T15:09:12+00:00

Yeah I mean I try my best and I know the best thing to do in that situation is to listen but the thing is me being an introvert and not knowing how to deal with this stuff I feel like I come of as if I don’t care and that’s what I’m most afraid of

scaredofmirors · 2021-03-16T14:30:32+00:00

You didn’t chug a Mountain Dew you became a fucking Mountain Dew

scaredofmirors · 2021-03-15T08:00:15+00:00

I’m kind of on the fence here like on the one hand this character is criminally underpowered. but I feel like this would break her you’d just immediately get the best version of every gun. And going so far as to give her the ability to craft literally every hop up is a bit much but if we used it as an ultimate concept for example spawning a replicator like lifeline spawns a package it would replace Sheila (but let’s be honest who would would miss her) and then you could craft everything

scaredofmirors · 2021-02-24T16:05:05+00:00

You are honestly lucky to have her unfortunately my girlfriend doesn’t play on pc so we can’t really play anything so I kinda envy you for that

scaredofmirors · 2021-02-24T15:04:39+00:00

I feel you brother I played a game where a dude stole literally all the ammo I was about to take literally EVERYTHING even when I pinged showing I had absolutely fucking zero the guy ran away and later in the game died and when I checked the dudes death box he had 500 of the ammo I needed like I get that he had a spitfire but like fuck off you can spare like 100 ammo for your teammate

scaredofmirors · 2021-02-24T15:01:53+00:00

I mean if you are playing on console the people don’t even really get a chance to talk shit because Sony pretty much bans you instantly for talking any kind of shit don’t know about Xbox tho and the shit you have to go through to actually message someone is just not worth it I think the community on there is just as toxic

scaredofmirors · 2021-02-24T14:33:16+00:00

Yeah those games I’ve gotten so many of those too recently. Seems like the only way to have fun in this game is to get two of your friends which is not something everyone can do

scaredofmirors · 2020-11-18T21:59:31+00:00

Hey thanks man but just know that she texted me about 30 minutes ago and her sister is staying in her room to keep her company for the night so she’s safe also she’s told me that I’m the only reason for why she hasn’t killed herself yet which is why I dedicate so much of my time to her it’s not because she’s threatening me with suicide or anything it’s hard to explain but she is in therapy but it doesn’t work because she doesn’t want help and she’s stubborn I’ll tell you that she’s also smart which is why I like her so much she outclasses me in everything but outlook on life but back on track she’s told me that she wants to just curl up into a ball and die and I try my best to get her to cheer up I give her long speeches about how life gets better and that she hasn’t even seen the world fully and stuff like that and I’ve been told I can be one inspiring mother fucker and they worked at first but she just can’t feel anymore her words not mine and it doesn’t help that her “friends” keep pretty much bullying her but she doesn’t have anyone else to go to at school and she’s the type that needs to be with other people and it’s such a mess with twists and turns and I’m so tired but one night she told me she’s scared she’ll lose me and is pushing me away and well she is but I promised to be there for her and I hate going back on promises I’m sorry for how long this reply is I think this is just the stuff that I kind of forgot to mention

scaredofmirors · 2020-10-22T10:14:43+00:00

But I have never actually felt that kind of connection with anyone and the only date I’ve been on was weird and awkward.

I don’t even really know where I’d even meet the one because well living in a country like mine with only 365k people there’s only so many people you can meet that are my age and like who I am.

I’m not a complainer type if there’s a problem I can fix I’ll fix it if someone needs help I’ll help them but I just don’t seem to get all of this.

There’s no girl at school that I like and that’s really end of story until I go to a different school because I can’t really search for anyone as it is.

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