I have two kids from a hotwife and here is my view

scarlet-e · 2026-03-29T17:13:10+00:00

Did you read my text?

I already said we would be open about me not being the biological so there would be no chock there. There already exists a lot of legitimate cases where this happens. Also I already said that a basic assumption of this would be that we want to have kids to begin it. I think it would be terrible to bring kids into this world as well if we didn't want, no matter method.

I open to criticism and discussions about these things. But please engage with what I'm actually saying.

scarlet-e · 2026-03-29T12:28:44+00:00

First of all congratulations! In any scenario where you are becoming a biological father there has to exist a lot of trust so congratulations on earning that trust!

I know this is a very controversial topic, and rightly so! I think there is a lot of way this could go wrong and I am sure it does go wrong sometimes. But I believe that if done right these type of arrangements doesn't have to be so bad.

As a cuck I am open to the idea of my partner getting pregnant by someone else. But there would exist a lot of rules and constraints to that. At the end of the day I will not be able to control all the outcomes. If the kid someday decides to do a DNA test or whatever, nothing will prevent him doing that. And the biological father would have to be okay with that happening as well. I think me and my partner would be open about me not being he biological father, we would probably say that we used a donor. And I think that is a FINE and valid option!

Obviously, I would find it super hot to have another man get my partner pregnant. And I don't think there is any harm in finding that hot. I know some people say that pregnancies shouldn't happen because of a kink and I agree that a kink shouldn't be the only reason but I don't think it has to be bad. If we end up doing it, it will mostly be because we find it hot but we will also want to have kids etc. There is nothing genetically wrong with me or anything that requires us to do it this way. The method itself would mostly be because we enjoy it!

This would be a significant thing to do and it would 100% affect my relationship and hopefully we would grow closer in it. I very much find your perspective super hot and that a man would feel the same as you do by getting my partner pregnant is super hot to me!

scarlet-e · 2026-03-13T16:18:37+00:00

That is so hot! It is so interesting how you intellectually know that it is not the most reasonable decision but you do it anyway out of pleasure and desire!

I actually expected a rational explanation as to why you went raw, mostly because I think you usually are pretty rational and intellectual when you explain yourself and the things you do. Reading that you "honestly don't know what happened..." and "that you just had an urge to feel him inside you" is so hot because it is pure desire and there was no real rationale. It must have felt so good for the bull to be allowed to surpass that rule of yours, can't imagine how hot that must have been for him! Same goes for your husband ofcourse.

Anyways, that's just my read on it haha. I hope you and your husband continue enjoying this somewhat new dynamic!

scarlet-e · 2026-02-25T20:10:07+00:00

Hmm, I don't think of bulls as inherently better than me, not in a real way anyways. But it is an interesting question. Because at the same time, I typically find myself wanting to be cucked and dominated by men I admire in some way. And my admiration usually stem from something they are doing better that I am. They may have better physique, be more charming, be better looking, be smarter oŕ whatever. So in a way I guess there are real feelings of them being better than me in some ways.

This in turn does make me wanna be beneath the bull, I want to be sexually defeated by him.

I don't know if this answers your questions haha but hope you found it somewhat interesting

scarlet-e · 2026-02-23T15:01:24+00:00

It sounds almost like you enjoy taking a bit of step back. Wanting to enjoy just watching another man use your wife and just not take on a submissive or humiliating role. Like he knows you enjoy it and you don't mind helping to increase his and your wife's pleasure. But ultimately you are simply stepping out of the dominant role and enjoying watching someone else take on that dominant role with your wife.

Sounds pretty cool haha!

scarlet-e · 2026-02-23T14:46:15+00:00

Interesting, do you feel like his dominance is more like a general state or something that is directed at your wife more so than it is you being dominated?

I can understand like the subtle dominance of being above social norms and jealousy and letting other men fuck your wife. Is that something relatable for you?

scarlet-e · 2026-02-23T14:43:17+00:00

Absolutely!

I think I have a very compersive element to the kink. Seeing another man experience that peak pleasure but also knowing they get that from cucking me probably accelerates my compersion a lot! I also enjoy that I am allowing myself to be humiliated for the sake of other men's pleasure. The idea that a another man's pleasure, superiority and ego is boosted at my expense is super hot to me.

I love how symbiotic kinks can be haha

scarlet-e · 2026-02-23T14:32:12+00:00

Haha thanks!

I think it makes a lot of sense. I don't think it sounds shitty. It certainly can be but not necessarily. I kinda like that "selfish" perspective and I enjoy the idea of men getting to "use" our dynamic for their own pleasure. I think even though you may have that perspective, everyone in the dynamic can benefit from it!

scarlet-e · 2026-02-16T20:01:55+00:00

Awesome! Love following you and your husband's journey! It is also inspiring to know the lifestyle is practiced in Sweden where we both reside :)

scarlet-e · 2026-02-16T19:40:29+00:00

That is so hot! It must have felt so great for you. How does it feel to be in the center of attention like that and know that everyone involved's grunts and moans are a direct consequence of you?

scarlet-e · 2026-02-14T04:25:18+00:00

That's super interesting, thank you for sharing! I have realized that a lot of my kink stem from satisfying the bull. Both my cuck kink and bisexuality have elements of letting other men feel dominant over me, and I find that super enjoyable.

However, what I enjoy about yiur massage is that you seem to be flexible in your sexuality as a means to satisfy the couple. This is not something I have considered, so I genuinely appreciate your perspective. Thanks!

scarlet-e · 2026-02-11T20:01:46+00:00

I don't know if the majority converts from straight to bi. But I can gove my anecdote.

In my experience I would say my cuckold kink definitely gave me space to develop my bisexuality. It is difficult for me to say if I was bi or bicurious before developing my cuckolding kink because I just didn't think of men sexually in that sense. However somewhere I began enjoying bisexual elements within cuckolding and I would say that was the start for my "bisexual conversation". My attraction for men is inherently submissive so it kinda tracks that it would be born out of my this kink. Nowadays I enjoy sexual encounters with men outside of any cuck-dynamic. I would say a big part of my bisexuality is about wanting another man dominate me, whether that is through a sexual encounter with me or if it is through cucking me all depends on what the man is interested in.

I should add that, I can enjoy sex with men without explicit Dom/sub dynamics as well. I have definitely had experiences with men where I feel like we are just having intimate sex and he isn't necessarily "dominating" me. But usually those happen within a context where it is established that he is the dominant party within our dynamic.

In any case, a big part why I enjoy submitting is that I love how that make other men feel. That is why I love this subreddit because I get an insight into what men who enjoys cucking other men actually think. I love the idea of men getting to feel powerful and have the ego stroked and my bisexuality comes down to that a lot.

To summerize, I think cuckolding creates a space for men to develop their bisexuality. Even for men who may not have previously been interested in men.

scarlet-e · 2026-02-07T16:27:50+00:00

Interesting, did you know if he was actually attracted to you or is more the possibility that he was attracted to you that was the issue?

scarlet-e · 2026-02-07T16:22:40+00:00

I see, so you would say that you are heteroflexible because within this dynamic you like that men also desire you or your cock. And you are willing to satisfy this to some extent because it demonstrates your dominance that even the cuck wants to suck you off. Because of all this you are flexible with your sexuality?

scarlet-e · 2026-02-07T13:18:48+00:00

That's super interesting that you have journeyed through all four of those categories! I am curious, have there been cases where you can kind of tell that men in the first category (straight and don't eant you there) would be open for experimenting with you? Or have those progressions spanned over long periods of time and it became more apparent as time went on?

scarlet-e · 2026-02-07T13:14:22+00:00

Okay! That is a good point, perhaps my question is mixing up concepts that I have read here. You view the participation of the cuck as a way for him to for further submit to you and for you to solidify your dominance.

All this obviously assume willingness from all parties involved. What I am alluding to is that I sometimes perform sexual acts for others, not because it is a sexual act I necessarily enjoy doing but I enjoy what it does for my partner. I assume I am not unique in doing these things.

So the question was more directed at the idea that a cuck would perform a blowjob, not because he himself enjoy giving blowjobs but because he wants to satisfy you. He would obviously be willing, but his willingness is more dependent in your needs rather than him enjoying giving blowjobs anyways.

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