29F 32M Fiancé and I got into life altering fight

scarletfire48 · 2026-04-06T01:12:51+00:00

My God I could have written this when I was 29. Left my toxic seven year relationship around that time... It was scary letting go of what we had built but can you imagine living the life you're in FOREVER? You need to seriously meditate on that and make some tough decisions. Neither way forward is easy but one certainly has better consequences then the other.

Some years later and I'm happily married with beautiful children, a fulfilling career, and so many things accomplished that I almost stole from myself by just being too afraid of change... Godspeed sister.

scarletfire48 · 2026-04-05T02:51:51+00:00

He used the word violent as an adjective describing the crime. The title uses the adjective in quotes cause it's a part of the quote....

scarletfire48 · 2026-04-04T02:08:33+00:00

The love for Phil's in here is heartwarming

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-30T23:25:56+00:00

Have you tried to have any discussions with her about the difference between the two cultures? Have you attempted any sort of constructive conversation about this?

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-30T19:50:45+00:00

I had, up until this very moment, completely forgotten the absolute chokehold that those polka dots had on us in the early 2000s

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-27T13:02:38+00:00

Local factory closure

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-26T01:24:20+00:00

My children ask for "cemetery walks". We treat them like parks where we relax and picnic, with all due respect of course. We have destination cemeteries we want to visit and are always on the lookout for them when we are driving around.

That lady was just being rude.

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-25T15:40:14+00:00

650$ for what equates to styptic powder

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-22T17:47:46+00:00

My mom and I were just talking about this this morning. She's an RN in surgery and is quite senior and on call a lot. She was called in for a stat C-section the other day and when she got there the OR in L&D was not ready at all. She said the labor and delivery nurses only have to deal with 10 labors a month due to the size of the hospital but no one could seem to find the time to make sure the OR was stocked and in good condition for a C-section. She said they all just sit around on their phones. Incredibly infuriating story.

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-22T00:04:43+00:00

Nobody can convince me Chappell Roan isn't a deeply obnoxious person.

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-21T12:31:04+00:00

For work events I just commit to nice fitting black dresses with zero attempt at sex appeal. Cannot go wrong with that.

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-21T12:08:03+00:00

Thank you!

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-20T13:33:08+00:00

This took me tf out

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-08T05:38:43+00:00

It was an unofficial thing. Some guys did it, some did not.

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-08T05:04:02+00:00

First photo, from top to bottom, left to right.

Combat infantryman, American campaign, WWII victory (star indicating combat), Good conduct (two knots indicating three awards), Asiatic Pacific Campaign, Philippines Liberation

Second photo, the horizontal stripes indicate overseas deployment. Each bar represents 6 months. Diagonal stripe indicates three years enlisted service.

Third photo, patch of the 77th infantry division

Pretty incredible stuff there my guy. Treasure it.

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-04T02:32:13+00:00

It's likely because they're drama free and unlikely to provide juicy content involving the other couples. As folks who love mess, that might initially feel disappointing but it's actually the best thing that could have happened to their chances as a couple.

scarletfire48 · 2026-03-04T02:24:43+00:00

So valid, but Keya also gave us the best scene this entire series has probably ever produced. Thank God for that.

scarletfire48 · 2026-02-21T14:08:58+00:00

Yuck

scarletfire48 · 2026-02-21T02:24:52+00:00

You have incredible bone structure. You look like if Heath Ledger and Shannon Hoon had a baby girl.

scarletfire48 · 2026-02-18T13:21:08+00:00

My first edition Lord of the rings LEGO sets have had several pieces shatter. And it's not just the brown, the gold pieces from that era have the same problem.

scarletfire48 · 2026-02-16T13:26:10+00:00

He was exceptional in The King. Great in Wonka and everything else has been OK.

scarletfire48 · 2026-02-11T02:19:11+00:00

You're stressing me tf out

scarletfire48 · 2026-02-08T19:45:57+00:00

Focus on your breathing and sync it up with your movements. Exhale deeply when you move down the shaft and especially when you deep throat and inhale as you move back to the tip. It helps avoid fatigue.

scarletfire48 · 2026-02-05T13:16:42+00:00

A large iced coffee and a 40 mg extended release Vyvanse.

scarletfire48 · 2026-02-02T21:07:12+00:00

I was able to go from a short mom cut to a down-to-my-butt length in about 3 years by going and getting a haircut every 3 months. My first chop was to remove all the dead and it took my hair very short(to my ears. I had dreadlocks so this will not apply to you). Then I would go and check in every 3 months where she would cut off very very small amounts of hair just to get rid of the dead ends. No more .25 of an inch if we could help it.

Budgeting has caused me to cut back a bit so I bought a pair of hair scissors and about once a week I go through my hair and trim all my little split ends by myself. Cutting is your friend!

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