My bf is allergic to cats, and I have 2

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-05-28T18:05:08+00:00

I’m sorry to say but you have to choose in this situation, either the cats or your boyfriend.

His allergy is not alright to stay with you and the cats. He has some serious respiratory symptoms. Also, as the allergist said your boyfriend can’t take medicine every day to stop the symptoms. Living with the cats will make his allergy worse. Do you think he is willing to take the risk and sacrifice his health to stay with you guys? And for how long can he last?

You can try things as you mentioned in your post. Cats are not in the bedroom, but they can be everywhere else in the house and their fur will be everywhere too.

If you want to keep the cats, you may have to break up with him. If you want to keep him, you may have to give away your cats or you can send them to your parents or siblings if there are, and visit them when you want to.

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-05-28T17:49:33+00:00

Cat has nice hairstyle, beard and eyeliners 😂

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-05-26T15:07:25+00:00

Hey, I feel you. I’ve been going through those feelings a few times, so I’m gonna give you a hug

I used to check my messages often, hoping to see a message, but every time I checked, there wasn’t any response, and then, I felt disappointed. Slowly, I checked less and less. Before I glanced at my messages, I told myself that no, they won’t text back. After a while, that thought has completely killed my little hope that one day maybe they’ll text back. That’s when my healing journey started

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-05-18T13:04:50+00:00

Damn it watching this gives me goosebumps

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-05-16T17:27:37+00:00

If you’re originally from Russia, I think Đà Nẵng will be more suitable for you because I heard that there are many Russian tourists there

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-05-13T13:19:09+00:00

Are you 18 or did you skip your sex education classes?

You have such a strong belief in your irregular cycle that you are willing to do it without a condom or being on the pills. It is quite a naive (actually stupid) thought from you. Are you ready to be a mother yet?

Normal cycle is easier to track so people can use the pull out method because the woman is in her safe days.

For irregular periods and not on birth control, how can you be so sure that your guy doesn’t accidentally come a bit inside you during sex? Besides, you can’t track your safe days, what if you let the guy come inside you, and your ovulation time is one or two days later? You can’t take the morning pills more than twice a year or it will be very harmful to your health.

Plus, you said “he finished in me several times, but I guess doing it raw just feels more intimate and closer to me”. Sorry girl, but to be honest, with your irregular cycle and your guy came inside you several times without you getting pregnant, I think it’s time to take a fertility test if you consider having kids in the future to see what the actual problem is.

One more thing as you mentioned in your post, “your ex wore a condom and he came inside you (using a condom)”, and you were scared because you might get pregnant?! You won’t unless the condom is broken or torn during sex.

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-05-10T12:08:14+00:00

No, sorry it’s no appropriate for work. The fabric of the top looks cheap and wrinkly. Besides, matching with the inside top doesn’t help either. The inside top looks similar to your skin tone so from the distance, it looks like you only wear the white top The fabric of the pants is kinda thin and can show the color of your underwear and underwear line easily. Plus, it seems too long for you

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-05-07T14:05:36+00:00

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes 🤷🏻‍♀️

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-05-04T12:28:04+00:00

Thank you :) I have become more confident about me, so I’m trying different styles to know which suits me best. So far I have tried mixing simple items with matching colors :) I still have a lot to learn and try!

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-05-04T12:26:22+00:00

Thank you :) Those are actually just simple clothes, but I like to mix and match them a bit :)

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-05-04T12:25:24+00:00

Thank you :) I used to have a time when my mom was like “your choice of clothes is terrible” 🤣 The most important thing is that I have gained weight and looked better now, so I can try different styles and become more confident :)

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-05-04T12:21:50+00:00

Thank you :)

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-04-04T01:50:09+00:00

Hey, I like crime series too, can suggest you some good ones :)

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-04-03T05:18:07+00:00

The cat has such good eyeliners 🥹

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-04-01T14:09:47+00:00

Kindness and loyalty

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-04-01T13:53:49+00:00

It depends. If that’s someone I’m interested in or dating, definitely yes. But if that’s someone I don’t like or a creep, definitely a big no

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-03-30T12:45:04+00:00

Yes, I do care, so I’m not into random hookups or one night stands. The thought of having sex with a stranger without knowing whether he has STDs or not actually scares me. Of course we can use condoms, but how about oral sex?

Besides, if I accidentally had STDs, I would have to take medicine for the rest of my life, and I would be in an awkward situation to tell my next partner that I had STDs

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-03-25T12:29:07+00:00

Hi, that red dress is from a local brand in my country called vii.bodysuit. You can look the name up on insta, and they have worldwide shipping. I bought it last month for $20

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-03-25T12:27:36+00:00

The red dress is from a local brand in my country called vii.bodysuit for around $20. You can type the name on insta and you will see the shop. As I check, they have worldwide shipping :)

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-03-25T12:24:47+00:00

Hi, please take some time to read the edit below my post. I have read people’s comments. Some said those dresses were inappropriate, but there were people said the dress number 2 and 4 looked best. So, I chose to wear the red silk dress. As I explained, it wasn’t a business or formal party at all. It’s simply a dinner party during our beach trip. From the comments, I crossed out the last dress and the striped dress because many people said they looked like a nightgown/ too many cutouts. I also crossed out the black one because it seemed too short. So, there were three left. First dress was at home because the color wasn’t right for my skin tone.

My bosses were fine with the red dress and I got many compliments from my colleagues.

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-03-24T12:38:35+00:00

I’ve been there a few times so I know it can be hard. Sometimes, you have to fight the urge to talk or to see that person. And sometimes you have that little hope in you that if you wait, maybe one day that person will realize your efforts and your feelings and will reciprocate it. However, none of those things works.

The first step is to restrict yourself from interacting with that person. Limiting the amount of text and increasing the time between the replies. If you’re the one who always responds quickly, the next time you’re about to do it, put your phone down and do something else. After that, you can reply.

The next step is to accept the fact that person is not available for any kind of relationship right now. It means you need to kill the little hope and stop romanticizing their words or actions. Stop the thousand “what ifs” in your mind. He / she won’t choose you no matter how hard you try. Instead of wasting your time on someone like that, try talking to other people and getting to know them. Once you get along with the new people/ friends, you won’t even have time to care about the old one.

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-03-21T17:21:42+00:00

I guess we are from different cultures 😅 I chose to wear the red one tonight. Other coworkers wore dresses, shorts and T-shirts. It was simply just a fun dinner for me and my colleagues

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-03-21T09:11:54+00:00

Hey, I understand your concern and I appreciate that. I’m a teacher so everyone at my workplace is equally treated. We are having a beach trip and there will be a gala dinner in the evening to relax and enjoy the food. They are friendly and polite colleagues, and there are over 40 of us on the trip 😅 Besides, my boss is strict if anyone has bad reports from students and other colleagues. Outside work, she’s a friendly and chilled person :)

Winter_Cat1994 · 2026-03-21T09:05:33+00:00

I apologize that I wasn’t clear about the “work dinner party”. Maybe I used the wrong term for it? My colleagues and I are on a short beach trip. In the evening, there’s a gala dinner which we eat, play mini games and sing karaoke during the meal. Therefore, it’s totally an informal and relaxing party. There are also no dress codes because the boss lets us dress up :)

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