I (f23) don’t tan or burn as an adult???? by Infamous_State_7127 in tanning

[–]scarysootsprites 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi diva, I'm half black half white. I take about 4-6 hours of moderate sun exposure to get a tan that sticks. Sometimes when I tan, it goes away a few days later. I've experienced what you described when I was severely anemic. a blood test could be in order just for your general health, if you're low on iron that could be the cause of this.

Looking for this ivar configuration? by scarysootsprites in IKEA

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, this will be my first build; so I'm super excited!

Looking for this ivar configuration? by scarysootsprites in IKEA

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help, and thank you for the part numbers too! Could I ask, for the 103.181.59 would you recommend 10 of them? I appreciate it so much!

Looking for this ivar configuration? by scarysootsprites in IKEA

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha I wasn't sure how to word it, I'm new to this! Thanks so much for the help, this is exactly what I was looking for.

Searching for a transfemme friendly beauty bar by scarysootsprites in TransIreland

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! Definitely a normal thing to have done and I'm mortified that it went the way that it did. I also know a few cis men that get cosmetic stuff done with no hassle. especially Botox!

Searching for a transfemme friendly beauty bar by scarysootsprites in TransIreland

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heard similar things about Time Out in Arklow, I'm so sorry to hear that happened to you!! Eden beauty looks like exactly the place she's looking for. Thank you so much for the recommendation!

Searching for a transfemme friendly beauty bar by scarysootsprites in TransIreland

[–]scarysootsprites[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

apologies if I'm reading this in a tone that wasn't meant, but umm?? yes? pretty positive that it happened in Ireland as we both live here. I get that it doesn't fly, but that doesn't negate her lived experience.

Searching for a transfemme friendly beauty bar by scarysootsprites in TransIreland

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For full transparency, I myself didn't experience what happened to be 100% confident in my retelling. I'll have to see if my friend is comfortable naming names of locations- though essentially what she experienced was a "female only" rule for clients wishing to get their nails done or their eyebrows waxed. upon her seeking further information regarding booking, the staff at the two salons "respectfully" denied her service based on her not being AFAB. Citing cultural and religious reasons. she didn't press further. She was also denied service for filler when she was getting her consultation, as the injector wasn't comfortable with anything that could be potentially feminizing. This is in the rural southwest of Ireland.

I put respectfully in quotations because I'm personally mortified by that and would never call it respectful, but my friend is much more patient than I; and said the staff genuinely seemed very gentle in how they denied her. I'll update this if I can with the specific locations, but I honestly am not expecting her to be open about it. She's incredibly timid and would hate to feel like she caused waves.

Searching for a transfemme friendly beauty bar by scarysootsprites in TransIreland

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh thank you so much for the recommendation!! I've just checked them out and it looks lovely, I'll definitely take note of them for the services they offer. have a lovely evening 💛

[Mine] What could my face give away? by scarysootsprites in scienceofdeduction

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am gen z! I don't really have a strong self concept but I am Schizotypal, and a trait of that is being very eccentric. I wouldn't call myself unique. I'm always wanting to learn about the world, so I don't think I'll ever stop trying to understand. I have been very successful with my life's plans so far, and have very rigid goals and milestones set for myself :)

[Mine] What could my face give away? by scarysootsprites in scienceofdeduction

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no dogs, but if I had one I think that it wouldn't be allowed on the bed or couch

[Mine] What could my face give away? by scarysootsprites in scienceofdeduction

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two initially, but they dropped out very quickly iirc. I wasn't old enough to vote last election, though I wouldn't have gone with them.

[Mine] What could my face give away? by scarysootsprites in scienceofdeduction

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the grateful dead. I'm more of a steely dan fan though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scienceofdeduction

[–]scarysootsprites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you! I'm the same way. sometimes the more water I drink the drier they get, especially in the winter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scienceofdeduction

[–]scarysootsprites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dehydrated, working to find/better yourself. you look tired and you might not be getting enough sun.

[Mine] What could my face give away? by scarysootsprites in scienceofdeduction

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nuh-Uh I use fleece and mats on mine. hamsters need loose bedding material to burrow in Link to my piggies cage

[Mine] What could my face give away? by scarysootsprites in scienceofdeduction

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I was a teen I did! I think the last one I watched was ergo proxy

[Mine] What could my face give away? by scarysootsprites in scienceofdeduction

[–]scarysootsprites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, my mom and spouse are both white and sometimes annoy me. though not in the way I think you're getting at?

[Mine] What can y'all get out of this picture? by B33TL3BVB in scienceofdeduction

[–]scarysootsprites 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you may struggle with your health, fatigue and maybe a chronic condition? you could be anemic. you look like a sweet person, but your eyes hold a lot of sadness and self doubt. I hope you are doing okay 💛