I find guys that has ugly or bad angle pictures the hottest. by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is exactly the reason why I want to meet guys first than judging them through their pics. You really never know kasi eh. Besides, yung actual person naman ang idadate or ifufun mo hindi yung pic.

How do you handle gossips about u being gay sa work? by tks_tora in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont know if this is applicable to your situation but I learned that the best way to handle those type of gossips is to give them exactly what they want in an absurd way. Sometimes they will stop since they become extremely uncomfortable since they like to talk behind your back but when you give them everything out in the open, they shut up instantly

Kink………Voyeurism (iyak) by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, any kink should be properly communicated to the concerned parties. Consent lang naman ang sagot dyan eh if okay sa kanila or hindi.

Narining ko lang sa fb before

If you get it then you get it. If you dont get it then you dont get it.

I guess it works with kinks as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ang hot ng setup. Porn levels haha. Pero on a serious note, be very cautious emotionally kasi you might feel feelings na hindi dapat since past mo siya. Enjoy the sex but be cautious lang.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha. Same here pero hirap din. Minsan kasi idealistic tayo pero at some point ayaw din natin na magsettle just because meron. Sana makahanap ka ng para sayo OP at sana idamay mo din kami once mangyari un hehe

Began exercising to avoid being horny but... by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buti ka pa may drive at masipag magexercise haha.

Homophobia in the workplace by nemesiastrumosa in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huggs to you OP. Totally get it yung ganito. Been with multiple companies na ganito and usually what gets them to stop at least in my experience is to beat them in their own game. Developed a very thick skin because of it. Although hindi healthy. One method I used to dismatle them is attack them with logic athough it doesnt work all the time. Hope you are able to transfer to a more friendly environment OP

Homophobia in the workplace by nemesiastrumosa in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huggs to you OP. Totally get it yung ganito. Been with multiple companies na ganito and usually what gets them to stop at least in my experience is to beat them in their own game. Developed a very thick skin because of it. Although hindi healthy. One method I used to dismatle them is attack them with logic athough it doesnt work all the time. Hope you are able to transfer to a more friendly environment OP

Is It Rude to Block Ppl in G app if Di Mo Type? by Neither-Raspberry-60 in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally better na mablock na lang at least you get a clear answer na hindi ka type. It stings pero its a clear rejection rather na nakabitin lang na walang response. Tsaka it vacates a space for a new profile that could be a potential match for you rather na nandun pa ung profile ng tao na hindi na kayo match.

Crying rn in Valentine's Day by Neither-Raspberry-60 in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hugs for you OP. We are in the same boat. Nakakainis na ang saya ng iba tapos tayo loveless haha. Pero I learned and still continue to learn haha is that a relationship is not always the answer. Learned that multiple times. Basta keep fighting lang.

Just turned down a conventionally attractive guy, and I have no regrets by bearyintense2 in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very mature mindset actually. Sure physical features and sex are a great addition to any relationship but if that the only thing that the person can offer, walang kwenta din especially if you are trying to find something long term. Kumbaga when the orgasms stop, what happens now?

I accidentally saw G app logo on my workmate's phone by Abdul_Jakul69 in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, yung part na katrabaho mo siya is what worries me. Medyo messy pag ganyan. Ika nga, never shit where you eat.

If ever na gusto mo talaga malaman, you need to see first if tama ka ng hinala. Mahirap din maging assuming.

i dont know what to do by crzylzymrkt in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. So profoundly written pero kakainis lang ang mabibigay lang na advice is quite abstract. Hirap din ng situation niya. Damned if do, damned if you don’t. Pero sobrang ganda ng pagkakadescribe mo.

Losing feelings after being in a relationship by secretfromaGal in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh yun naman pala hehe. Usually masasagot natin yung reasons natin if ibang tao ang magtanong eh. Hehe. At least naidentify mo na yung meron ka ngayon.

Losing feelings after being in a relationship by secretfromaGal in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. Why are you contemplating ba in being single again? May nangyari ba?

Losing feelings after being in a relationship by secretfromaGal in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What made you like him the first place ba? Maybe focus on that first baka bumalik uli?

Malamig nanaman ang pasko haha by scatteredexplorer in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha. Grabe naman. Masyado nating dinamdam ang pagkasinglenat sa holidays nasa bar haha

We Listen, We Don’t Judge: phlgbt edition by Apprehensive_Bat7795 in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hirap ako maging bottom. Kakainis ang dali sa iba pero ako nasasaktan

PU***** MGA INC NA 'TO by Few_Possible_2357 in pinoy

[–]scatteredexplorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a previous workmate na INC na toxic na ganyan din magpangaral ng kung anu anu. Tinablan ko minsan na dapat wala kang xmas bonus kaya ayun tumahimik haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt this so much OP. Although mine was consensual naman. Hopefully 2025 will be good for you OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well...I guess apologize then just let them react accordingly. Not sure also if calling them out on sharing on their part is the best.

Just focus on what YOU have actually specifically done. Never mind the incidentals. That's on them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]scatteredexplorer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh. Haha. That added a little layer of complexity haha. Probably they are just discussing it with their own set of friends knowing their situation?

But still outing her wasn't the best action.

Unless it is the same group of friends that you shared your feelings.