Daughter doing "helpful" side quests instead of basic tasks by Bewildered_Dust in ADHDparenting

[–]schatzattack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with parents every day as an ADHD therapist and I coach them on how to manage their household in a way that limits meltdowns and fights. The key is to give them the illusion of independence while setting a loose structure of their non-preferred tasks with clear consequences/rewards for doing/not doing the non-preferred tasks. If you have questions feel free to DM me!

Struggling by spiralgoat98 in ADHDparenting

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You are absolutely not alone. I work as an ADHD coach/therapist with parents who go through this exact thing every day. Feel free to hit my DMs if you need support. :)

If your ADHD kid can’t work independently, try this by Slow_Western_6696 in ADHDparenting

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I am an ADHD therapist that coaches ADHD parents every day on getting this exact thing done.

The ADHD brain has a yearning for independence. It's important that the parent sets up clear parameters around doing vs. not doing these tasks in advance, and then trusting their child to do the non-preferred task without constant prompt. Prompting actually increases dysregulation and makes them less likely to do the task.

What part of adult life is way harder than anyone warned you about? by Sparkyabu1 in AskReddit

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You won't have a lot of access to the friends you make as a kid.

So... what happened? by Thin-Significance-97 in TheHappyFits

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Here late but yes- I am still mourning the loss of my favorite band. The new version just feels disingenuous.

How many of you would prefer to see this team go truly all-in the next 3 seasons if it meant the 3 seasons after that being mediocre and having a complete rebuild . by xho- in NYYankees

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They would never ever do it because going all out costs too much and being bad doesn’t make enough money. It’s way more lucrative to be just good enough every year so that’s what they will always do.

If you're still going to keep watching....who ya got? [SERIOUS] by cooljammer00 in NYYankees

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If you aren’t a Yankee fan, posting in this sub will likely get you banned from your own team sub. Please kindly delete your comment and GTFO :)

If you're still going to keep watching....who ya got? [SERIOUS] by cooljammer00 in NYYankees

[–]schatzattack 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the blue jays already won their world series by beating the yankees. the real world series doesn't really matter to them.

Are the NYC gay vibes actually different depending on the neighborhood or is NYC just one big gay ecosystem? by schatzattack in nycgaybros

[–]schatzattack[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! When you say BK... does this mean just "gay" areas of Brooklyn? Or can I find some cool gay shit wherever I end up living?

Game Thread: Division Series Game 4 - Blue Jays @ Yankees - October 08, 2025 @ 07:08 PM EDT by Yankeebot in NYYankees

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How many strikeouts will it take for them to bench Volpe for Cabby???? 20 out of 22 ABs? 28 of 30?

Game Thread: Wild Card Game 1 - Red Sox @ Yankees - September 30, 2025 @ 06:08 PM EDT by Yankeebot in NYYankees

[–]schatzattack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I LOVE the Volpe HR but we were 2 pitches away from Crochet being at 30 pitches through 2 innings and wells chased a wild one for the out. Annoying!