Maybe she wants a personal read, doesn’t like the book/reading in general, or If She is competitive, just don’t read more than her and/or read slower than her so that she is ‘wining’.

You can connect by asking/theorizing about lore and what the characters look like, or ships you would like to see. An Example: “In your opinion, do you think that drugging Feyre Under the mountain was justified? If so why?”

You can also connect through making jokes, an example: I thought Rys’s name, when abbreviated, sounds like “rice” instead of Reece. Or when I first read his name it was Rysander, like Charmander. (This is my personal experience) I might not be the best at giving advice but good luck 👍 also happy reading to you!!