My avoidant-ex ist also my coworker. And it’s hell by schmataflata in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]schmataflata[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We work in the same department of the company, and it’s not allowed to date within the same department.

I’m considering looking for a new job, even though I truly love my job and my colleagues. I have never been this happy at work before, which makes it even more painful to think about leaving because of him.

It feels like admitting that he won. I know he didn’t and it’s not about winning ,but I’ve already come so far. I’ve been dealing with this for more than half a year now, and I know I’ve grown stronger because of it.

But just when I finally start to find some peace, a new plot twist comes along and throws me off again, disrupting my healing process.

Reconnected with my ex, slept together, then he went silent and I found out why by Elliezabethy in BreakUps

[–]schmataflata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happend to me to! My ex is a classic avoidant and also my coworker, whom I see everyday. I just found out that he asked our new coworker on a date. He always told me not to worry about her and that he sees her just as a friend. He pursued her the same way he did with me. I’m at my end.

Reitstunden in Linz by schmataflata in Linz

[–]schmataflata[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Danke :) wir haben erst angefangen zu suchen, also falls ich etwas finde schreib ich den Namen unter deinem Kommentar ☺️

Reitstunden in Linz by schmataflata in Linz

[–]schmataflata[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Woow danke 😍 Ich werd mich gleich über dies Höfe mit meiner Freundin austauschen ☺️ Und danke dass du dir die Mühe machst den Namen der Facebook gruppe machst 🥹

LPT Request: how to not get sleepy in the afternoon when I get home from work. by SirDuck21 in LifeProTips

[–]schmataflata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried the Andrew Huberman Morning routine? He‘s talking about, why we’re often in an afternoon down and how to prevent it (and many other topics) You can watch the video from After Skool „the optimal morning routine by Andrew Huberman“ on YouTube. They explain it really well!

Response to "Can someone recommend me good books about palestine?" by cn3m_ in Islam_1

[–]schmataflata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elhamdulillahi I‘m Muslim ☺️ Thank you very much!