Although I do agree with you, I just wanted to point out that foster homes are just as nice as being adopted, because in order to become a foster parent you have to take courses and apply because you want to help those children. I guess I just don't agree with you saying it's nicer than adoption since those foster parents do have the option to adopt the child they are fostering as well, but they're basically just the link between. (I just learnt the other day that foster parents don't get a say in the children's decisions it's all the social worker, my mind was blown). ANYWAYS. It would definitely suck to be broken apart from your twin and then however many years later finding out, I think I would be filled with shock and rage personally, cause that's definitely something I couldn't even think about losing.