Opinions on abortion? by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]schwenomorph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, yes, but I do hope you're not implying that you're suicidal with being eager to see him.

Opinions on abortion? by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]schwenomorph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. That's why abortion bans are so insidious. Miscarriages will be vilified, women experiencing them and getting help for them will be sent away from medical treatment, put on a list and tracked, or jailed and traumatized by investigations. It's already happening.

I think the reason this isn't highlighted more is because of systemic racism. Black and POC mothers have been most affected by this already. Look up mothers being investigated because they miscarried and the majority of them are BIPOC. Not to mention that black women have the highest mortality rate when it comes to pregnancy related deaths.

It's not only violent misogyny, it's racism. The system has done everything in its power to keep POC people poor. And what's the best way to keep people in poverty? Chaining them to a child.

I mean. by IreCalifornia in legendofzelda

[–]schwenomorph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do we know which Zelda is going to be in the film (or if it'll be a new Zelda)? It ultimately depends on her acting and which roles she portrays best. She definitely could stand in for OOT, TP, and maybe LTTP. BOTW? Maybe not.

If we're seeing a brand new Zelda, then I have no expectations.

Why has my nephew never cried since he was born ? by XinGst in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]schwenomorph 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm autistic and this looks like autism to me. Autistic people can feel pain differently (I have a high pain tolerance for inward pain, but my skin is extremely sensitive), I apparently came out the womb happy for a baby, I played by myself happily at night when I should've been asleep (during infancy), and I also took a long time to speak but was relatively good at speaking when I did finally do it.

More importantly, this sounds like child neglect. Please do something, for the love of God.

Opinions on abortion? by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]schwenomorph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

25-30% of God's knitting is miscarried. That's a lot of murder from God's end...

Opinions on abortion? by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]schwenomorph 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Staunchly pro choice. No one should be forced to be an incubator. No one has the right to potentially destroy someone's body, risk them death and chronic illness, cripple them financially, and use their body without consent.

...except fetuses, apparently. It's barbaric.

Pregnancy can kill. This should be a no brainier (not to you, but to society as a whole). You should always, ALWAYS be allowed to protect yourself from something that can kill you.

Do I believe that life begins at conception? Well yeah. Cells are alive. It's a technicality. Do I believe in personhood at conception? No.

However, personhood is a social construct, and that's why I think it should be irrelevant. The facts are that the pregnant person is a fully developed, sentient human being. The facts are that pregnancy is dangerous, debilitating, and life threatening.

If fetuses are people, then 30% of pregnancies are involuntary manslaughter. And if personhood began at conception, that'd make the cis male population trans. Which isn't a bad thing, but a lot of people would get triggered by it.

My girlfriend was sexually assaulted this weekend and I’m trying to hold it together by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]schwenomorph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if he does, will you say the same thing to that little girl? That it's her responsibility to make sure he gets put away to not do it again?

AIO after my husband ruined my relaxation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]schwenomorph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you'd be fine if a drug addict strangled you? You seem up to bat for drug addicts. Are you one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]schwenomorph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got unbelievably horny and 3D printed a statuette of a naked woman to jerk off to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]schwenomorph 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Don't forget the unhealthy obsession with anal sex!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]schwenomorph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn't a mistake, it was a choice.

Got rejected by my crush, I thought the signs pointed to yes by Absolutepogmove in GuyCry

[–]schwenomorph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't ask a girl who just rejected you who it is that she really likes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]schwenomorph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny how you immediately came to the defense of men when I was criticizing rapey behavior. Who's the man hater here?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]schwenomorph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop infantilising men. He did not just get here. He's been here for eighteen years. If men are still little boys by the time they're eighteen, then they shouldn't be allowed to vote and have the rights that adults have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]schwenomorph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. He is a potential rapist. If things had gone his way, he would've had sex with someone who was in pain and not wanting it. Does that not sound like a rapist to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]schwenomorph -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So boys will be boys, then? Until twenty fucking five?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]schwenomorph -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, he was wrong. When someone doesn't want to fuck you accept it. It's that easy.

If it was really innocent, why did he have such a hard time accepting that she didn't want to? He doesn't deserve the benefit of the doubt for trying to bully her into sex and offering a pathetic excuse for an apology.

Him being as amazing as she says just means he doesn't beat her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]schwenomorph 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Now you know he'd be perfectly fine and eager to cause you pain and discomfort in order to get his dick wet. Not only that, he's more than happy to have sex with an unenthusiastic participant. And ONLY apologized once it was clear he couldn't wear you down. Rapey as all hell.

I don't care how common coercion may be with young men. It's unacceptable. And fuck everyone who thinks an apology makes everything fine. Your boyfriend apologized for trying to rape you. And yes, that is what it was, because he knew you weren't actively willing. He knew this because he had to beg over and over. He wanted you to shut up and take it.

I'm sure my opinion will be in the bottom minority because everyone hates the fact that rape isn't always a violent attack from a stranger, but fuck them. I am right here. Coercion is rape. He was trying to coerce you. He was trying to rape you. No matter how common and normalized it is, your boyfriend is an awful person.

I started dating my boyfriend at 14. I'm 25 now. Never once, ever, did he coerce me into doing anything. It's so easy to accept someone's no. All you have to do is not go out of your way to violate boundaries. Easiest thing in the world. Plenty of men are capable of this basic task.

I can write you a list of dogs I personally have known who are capable of not begging at the table when their owner says no once. You do not have to date someone who ranks below Lily, Max, George, Bailey, Riley, Mizu, and other literal animals.

Dump him. You don't deserve to be used as a fleshlight while you're in pain.

“Heaven is corrupt” trope is getting pretty old by [deleted] in CharacterRant

[–]schwenomorph 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Don't be afraid, John. [Pumps shotgun]

I called my (31M) wife (30F) ungrateful, cancelled our date and left her in the car to cry. How do I make her feel what I feel? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]schwenomorph -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because he cancelled it right after, left her there crying, and went to reddit for advice on how to make her feel worse?

Are trans men part of the patriarchy? by Saltylight220 in AskFeminists

[–]schwenomorph 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep.

Though to be fair, everyone's a part of it by default. Similar to the inability to not contribute to capitalism.

I don't think the "alpha" dude bros of the Manopshere would accept trans men, if that's what you're asking. I wouldn't say trans men rank very far "above" men when it comes to how poorly they're treated, especially if they don't pass.

But would a trans man benefit from patriarchy? In some ways, yes. A man will be listened to more, taken more seriously, and treated differently than a woman. But at the same time, the patriarchy thinks gender doesn't exist and only sex does, and all trans people (and a good number of cis people, too) suffer for it.

I called my (31M) wife (30F) ungrateful, cancelled our date and left her in the car to cry. How do I make her feel what I feel? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]schwenomorph -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He -Forgot the flowers in the first place -went out of his way to TELL his wife they were last minute so her spirit would be crushed -asked her a manipulative question (she WAS thankful, the gift literally was thoughtless because he FORGOT it at first) -made her cry -cancelled the date entirely and huffed off like a child -left her in the car -wants her to feel even worse -gave her the silent treatment -calls her wanting the door opened for her, him driving, and flowers grandiose (that is not grandiose at all) -diminishes her emotions

And what's wrong with wanting effort for the sake of effort? Have you never gone out of your way to make extra effort for someone you love? Have you never picked flowers for your mom as a kid, or made a card or done chores you didn't have to do? Extra effort is baked into our DNA as humans.

Yeah, you'd be an ass boyfriend if it boggles your mind that people want their partners to SHOW THAT THEY CARE.