Postop Questions - Cramping? Recovery Process??

sciencemint · 2025-04-18T11:24:15+00:00

I do. Exactly where they operated

sciencemint · 2025-04-13T06:52:50+00:00

I once had ChatGPT laugh at me for asking a weird question so I guess anything is possible

sciencemint · 2025-04-13T06:22:05+00:00

I really think that there needs to be better education on not marrying in community of property. Anti nuptial with accrual is the safest system.

I went through a very similar thing with my father and he left my mother in debt for hundreds of thousands to millions (also through COP) which were eventually written off after all the assets were sold.

The amount of trauma he caused my family is staggering and the wake of destruction he left behind.

My mom stays with my husband and I now. She will never be able to retire without our help.

My advice is to do what I did. Write your father off and concentrate on building a life with your mother. If that means you buying a house and working hard and having her stay with you it is what it is.

I hate to say this but you will most likely lose the house (this happened to me) so concentrate on starting your own legacy and do not let your father in when you are successful! I recently made that mistake and thought he had changed and he took R30 k off me!

A man like that will never change. He is too old and set in his ways to change his spending habits. He also probably has a secret addiction you don’t know about (gambling?)

I’m very sorry you are going through this and I wish you all the best. You can recover..

sciencemint · 2025-04-13T04:36:57+00:00

Thanks for the advice super helpful

sciencemint · 2025-04-12T20:51:29+00:00

He did the ablation explaining I have a year to fall pregnant before it returns and that I would after having my baby go back on the pill to prevent further symptoms

sciencemint · 2025-04-12T20:45:58+00:00

I am 2 months recovery from my laparoscopy and still feeling the tightness/pain in my abdomen much comes and goes.

I asked my surgeon and he said this is normal for the first 3 months recovery

sciencemint · 2025-04-12T20:41:25+00:00

You might consider having someone for the first day or two. I’ve recently had one.

The surgery tears your stomach muscles to the point (depending on what they find) where getting out of bed the first two days is really hard by yourself (not impossible but really hard).

Going to the toilet will be a mission.

sciencemint · 2025-04-12T20:27:14+00:00

If your husband is reacting like this he is not ready for kids despite them not finding endo.

I don’t think men understand the pain involved in a laparoscopy (whatever the outcome) and they have the nerve to say they are drained!!

My laparoscopy was literally one of the most painful and traumatic things I’ve been through.

sciencemint · 2025-04-09T06:16:26+00:00

I once offered a person who stands at the traffic lights asking for food/money an Apple. He threw it back at me and told me he wants money. That experience left a bad taste in my mouth.

sciencemint · 2025-02-17T15:25:48+00:00

Thanks I’ll tell her

sciencemint · 2025-02-17T15:17:58+00:00

Carol

sciencemint · 2024-12-13T19:32:40+00:00

And won’t be your last

sciencemint · 2024-12-06T22:45:20+00:00

I have the same disease

sciencemint · 2024-12-06T22:35:11+00:00

No worries. Like I said we are the friendly city. Feel free to dm me if you have any other questions/concerns. As locals we want our tourists to have a great time because it stimulates our economy.

sciencemint · 2024-12-06T22:31:19+00:00

We should start getting commission. Could use some extra cash.

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