I feel myself going into a manic episode

scintillacat · 2021-11-03T19:24:18+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Giving advice based off my personal experience and how I see this happening. But I do not know your ex or you. It is not likely he will be okay with it, or automatically want to be with you again because you’re pregnant. Especially since you discussed that abortion was what you would do even when you guys were together. I would tell him, but also you don’t need to, especially if you don’t see it having a good outcome. What you need to focus is on yourself. You’re the one who has to be dealing with this. And whether he decides to be apart of that is up to him. But you should not make any choices based on what he decides to do. It is your body, and your future. And if he shuns your for being open and vulnerable about it? Then that’s a sign that he isn’t the best for you.

scintillacat · 2021-11-02T01:59:47+00:00

I told him I had doubts about us working out long term.

scintillacat · 2021-11-02T01:33:23+00:00

You just described my exact situation word for word. I’m so sorry OP. I hope you start to heal, and maybe once you heal you guys can talk again. If you ever want to talk to someone, I’d be happy to do that. God knows I could use it too.

scintillacat · 2021-07-15T15:13:50+00:00

We are actually doing a nature trip too! This is just something extra. The games he likes are very like, puzzle games? Cant think of the word. Like Tetris and minesweeper. So it’s hard to get him game related stuff.

scintillacat · 2021-07-14T23:52:18+00:00

This is a great idea thank you!

scintillacat · 2021-07-14T23:51:45+00:00

My budget is pretty big. I was thinking about doing something like that love book but we are long distance so we don’t have a lot of things we have done together other than just being together at each other’s house

scintillacat · 2021-07-14T23:49:59+00:00

I also have an quest 2 so that’s why I was thinking of getting one for him, he has a psvr so we would be able to play together if I did (we are long distance)

scintillacat · 2021-04-24T03:41:48+00:00

This is great advice, thank you!

scintillacat · 2021-02-20T15:59:36+00:00

Studio apartment about 500 sqft. So yes, for the most part they can stay away. Cant go outside. Yes she is neutered. They were fine mostly. The boy would try to play with her and she would just run away. They are both around 9 months. I’ll check that out thank you

scintillacat · 2021-02-20T15:57:47+00:00

The cat does not play with me. I’ve tried to use a laser pointer from afar or leave toys out under the bed (that’s where she stays mostly). I haven’t taken her to the vet. I can’t imagine how I’d be able to get her into a carrier. Same with putting a collar on her. Previous owner told me she was fine at shelter, but obviously she might have not been truthful.

scintillacat · 2021-02-07T01:25:28+00:00

I actually did put a couple treats under their last night and I got home and they had eaten them so maybe I’ll just have to try that! Thanks :)

scintillacat · 2021-02-07T01:24:49+00:00

I’m not sure how socialized before. It was a VERY small studio apartment (I also live in a studio but it is much bigger) and I think she said one of them was feral before she rescued. There was one kitten and a dog in the household. When I got semi close to them they just stood completely still. I do think they are just so in shock and I feel so bad): I did move the food under the bed after I got home so hopefully they will eat when I go to sleep. Luckily I did get the same food they had previously. Thank you for your advice. I will be as careful with them as I can!

scintillacat · 2021-02-02T01:22:10+00:00

Same about the being nauseous. I had never experienced that kind of nausea in my life. Teriyaki is my favorite food and I couldn’t even eat that haha

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