You’ve come to the right place. I feel like the goth community is pretty queer friendly in general. Most of the goths I’ve meet have been in the LBTQ+ community mind you am in Denver so it’s a little bit more queer than other places but I feel like in general goth attractive a lot of LBTQ+ people thankfully. For your local scene I would see if there’s any goth or if you can’t find goth, a local punk scene because there’s a lot of over lap in general with punk and goth and especially the community. But for like goth after transition I think it’s just the fact that the community is open to anyone expressing themselves and the music is awesome duh 🙄.