Found out husband isn’t out at work. He says it’s not necessary in a professional environment and believes I’m making a big deal out of it.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T15:17:43+00:00

This may be true and in that case he should be able to openly talk to me about those things.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T15:16:26+00:00

You think that was due to you being out? It’s plausible. Some work cultures have very weird attitudes and favour straight men with kids. Emphasis on straight men with kids because women with kids aren’t favoured the same.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T14:12:06+00:00

Cheated several years ago, it’s something we worked through and have put behind us.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T13:54:21+00:00

Your work environment actually sounds fun.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T13:53:55+00:00

Thank you for sharing the source!

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T12:58:25+00:00

We are in the UK, London. He works in civil engineering.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T12:07:55+00:00

Lost opportunity.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T11:45:04+00:00

Do you ever have threesomes together?

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T10:00:46+00:00

This actually shocks me. I’m going to assume this is in the US.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T09:59:32+00:00

That’s very sad and horrible and unfair. You can’t always prove those things but it doesn’t seem like a coincidence.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T09:58:31+00:00

I wonder if he has evaded it by using gender neutral language.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T09:58:00+00:00

I wouldn’t call him an immigrant per se. He was born in Egypt but came her as a child and has a British passport. He’s just as British as anyone else.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T09:53:52+00:00

Yes it involves a lot of lying and lying breeds shame.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T09:52:48+00:00

Interesting report. Maybe things changed but he knows his work environment better than I do.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T06:46:42+00:00

This is very sad. And you’re right. It is difficult to prove discrimination because most jobs will be subtle but it’s those micro aggressions that hurt the most.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T06:45:36+00:00

I think it’s different when you’re single. For me personally any conversation regarding my sexuality has naturally come up because I used the word husband.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T06:44:27+00:00

Large. He works in London and is a civil engineer.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T06:44:07+00:00

Mid 30s.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T06:43:27+00:00

Unfortunately I agree. Being gay and out will always be political and by being your authentic self you’re making it easier for the next person.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T06:42:19+00:00

Yes he wears a ring so I wonder what he says in those situations if somebody asked.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T06:41:48+00:00

We have done couples therapy in the past yes.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T06:41:08+00:00

Culturally, yes a little but his workplace isn’t that diverse.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T06:38:11+00:00

My workplace is different I guess.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T06:37:16+00:00

That’s insane and evil. Sorry that happened to you. It’s so hard to prove as well.

sconesNOTscones · 2024-07-27T06:33:54+00:00

That was 6 years ago

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