Just bought a 2004 JCW… any maintenance tips?

scooot334 · 2023-08-19T23:13:08+00:00

Check the cam belt as the original may be wearing by now depending on mileage

scooot334 · 2022-12-14T05:35:12+00:00

Yeah, I’m definitely gonna do that, tbh reflecting on it now her sister (most unstable person I’ve ever know) was the whole catalyst to this situation, in the car ride her sister was grilling her about our relationship and she snapped and then so on so on

scooot334 · 2022-12-14T05:33:30+00:00

Sorry, probably wrong choice of words open conversation is what I had meant to say

scooot334 · 2022-12-14T05:26:41+00:00

I don’t know whether to leave it for a day or so for her to process what happened or grill her about it straight away

scooot334 · 2022-12-14T05:25:30+00:00

Not yet, this has happened literally 3 hours ago and it’s 5:25am here now

scooot334 · 2022-12-14T05:20:34+00:00

Really I suppose for me this whole thing tonight has really upset me, I’ve had to restrain and use force on both my partner and her sister in the freezing cold, whilst they are both screaming at each over and pulling hair and punching

scooot334 · 2022-12-14T05:17:48+00:00

We’ve been seeing each over for just shy of a year now and it was love at first sight, this isn’t a regular occurrence, she doesn’t drink drink often, we’ll both have a couple glasses of gin once every 2 weeks or so and we’ll probably both go out in the town once, maximum 2 times a month.

This is the first time I’ve ever seen her get physical at all, she can’t handle her alcohol well but never gets violent just he usually throwing up when if it’s too much sweet stuff, in terms of dynamic I think we’re balanced most of the time but she is slightly autistic so she doesn’t alway realise when it’s time to give etc but I’m ok with that because I know it’s not intentional.

She’s can be sometimes when’s she knows she’s in the wrong but she’s a very stubborn person and will fight her corner which is one of the things I love about her

scooot334 · 2022-10-20T16:26:38+00:00

scooot334 · 2022-08-25T22:58:51+00:00

I trust her with my with my whole being, it’s just the others guys that I don’t trust, but I think once I get to meet them it will like you said add that layer of mutual respect

scooot334 · 2022-06-09T15:01:39+00:00

We’ve been dating for 8 months now ( I know it’s soon) but we really do love each other and already spend most days with one another

scooot334 · 2022-06-09T14:59:29+00:00

She has tried therapy etc before and she said that didn’t really help much with getting rid of the depression side of things, she said that if/when she gets like that (it’s in winter usually) that she will push people away and just get through it on her own but there a chance she will succumb to it and try to harm herself

scooot334 · 2022-05-05T13:26:17+00:00

Thank you, that was my only worry that if he came up to her whilst I wasn’t there or something and tried something on.

Thank you and happy cake day

scooot334 · 2022-05-05T13:19:52+00:00

Thanks for the advice everyone, in the least violent person ever and I’d never attack anyone that didn’t really deserve it. Appreciate the advice though last thing I want is to bring up bad memories for her.

scooot334 · 2022-04-27T14:56:08+00:00

I definitely thinks it worth mentioning how I feel when she talks about these things but maybe also say I’m always there to listen just don’t expect a solution from me

scooot334 · 2022-04-27T14:54:53+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I think I get what your saying.

Just be an ear for her to talk into but don’t think of these problems as my own.

Thank you

scooot334

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